If you enjoy a wank with other guys you’re at least bisexual

Submitted by Anthony in Middlesborough

I’m an out-and-out poof, I love cock, love sucking it and love getting fucked in the ass. I’ve been checking out the blog for a few weeks and I had to write something about all the confused guys who don’t seem to get that they’re at least bisexual. I don’t care if you don’t like being called that it’s what you are. It’s really simple – if you enjoy the look or feel of other guys cocks you are at least bisexual. Please get over yourselves and admit what you are.


Hi Anthony, thanks for your input, although it could have been worded more reasonably.

But, you’re wrong, and let me tell you why…

  1. The labels of Homosexual/Bisexual/Heterosexual are all man-made. This is a fact that you cannot deny. Nature didn’t offer us a user manual, we invented these categorizations to enable us to describe an entire group of people in simplistic terms based on, what exactly, a specific sexual act that one might like but another not enjoy? I know more than one gay man who doesn’t do anal sex at all, so are they not gay because they don’t like anal? I know several bisexual guys who love anal with other men, just as I know bisexual men who only enjoy sucking cock or masturbation. I know straight men who love anal with their female partners (receiving), or enjoy seeing gay sex in their porn, or who only enjoy masturbation with other men. So, who decides what sexual acts are indicative of which sexual orientation, you? No, you don’t have any authority.
  2. Describing all male sexuality as either Gay/Bi/Straight is about as sensible as describing all plant life on the planet as light green/medium green/dark green. You’re attempting to diminish an extremely complex and variable aspect of Human existence into one of three simplistically ridiculous categories. When you get down to calling everyone bisexual, you would then surely need to refine this more depending on the sexual acts they enjoy with members of the same sex. Which labels would you then want to apply to a man you deem to be bisexual but only ever enjoys watching other men on video? What about the man you would deem bisexual who has an entirely “heterosexual” life but enjoys masturbation in the company of other men? Please let me know what your ever growing list of sub-categories would be, it would be interesting to read them all.
  3. Every serious example of male sexual research shows that sexuality is far more diverse and complex than people like you want to accept, presumably because you’re so desperate to belong to a clan you feel the need to reject anything which might call that sense of belonging into question. Every male sexuality study worth the paper it’s printed on clearly shows that sexuality is incredibly diverse and changes over time too. Male sexuality is influenced by everything; love, fetish, bravado, masculinity, competitiveness, horniness of the given moment, circumstance, environment, partners… there are a million and one things which all combine to create all aspects of our personalities, and the same is true for our sexuality.

So, that’s just a bit of what I could have written in response to your opinion, but I’ll hold back and be reasonable here and just consider you to be something of a simpleton when it comes to understanding sexuality. Unfortunately, there are far too many men out there just like you, on every end of the sexual scale, who also wish to ignore how complex male sexuality actually is and would rather put every man under a simplistic label.

It’s also quite ironic that gay men are often so determined to dictate what the sexuality of others should be, while also screaming bloody murder about being told their sexuality is “wrong”, or an “illness” or some kind of “defect”. How is it that so many gay men who constantly argue against these things being said about them are so willing to say it about others?

I don’t have a problem with whatever label anyone else wants to put on me, it makes absolutely no difference to my enjoyment of my own cock and my love of everyone elses. If we’re honest bisexual is probably the best categorization for what I enjoy, if I chose to adopt any label. The fact of the matter is that it’s not the job of Anthony or anyone else to be telling anyone what their sexuality is. This is about self-identification, the right we all have to live as we see fit, without being told how to live, what to think and what to believe.

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One thought on “If you enjoy a wank with other guys you’re at least bisexual

  • September 7, 2016 at 12:23 pm
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    Anthony dont know what the fuck hes talking about. Like a lot of gay men though he cant get his little brain around the idea that fetishes are not the same as wanting to run away and marry another guy.

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