I found a new wank mate last year – I call that an upgrade

Submitted by Stroker88

I’ve had three wank mates in my life. The first one was when I moved out at the age of 18 and shared a flat with a couple of my mates. One of the guys was bi although he didn’t admit that at the time. One night just me and him were in the flat having a few beers and he just outright suggested watching porn. Half an hour later we were both cumming.

It was alright. It wasn’t anything special. We did it quite a lot after that and it became a bit easier and more open. The first time was pretty quick and we didn’t really show off our cocks or anything, but a couple of times after that we were pretty much openly comparing dicks and cum shots.

I moved out of there after about a year and moved in with my girlfriend at the time, got a new job as an installer for a tech company and met my next wank mate. He was a married guy in his 30’s and worked in IT for a company I was installing for. We got on pretty well and became good mates, we used to go to the gym together and go out for drinks. His wife and my girlfriend got on really well, and still do. Three or four months after meeting him I was invited to a mutual friends stag weekend and me and him ended up sharing a hotel room. It was only a couple of nights over a weekend but we shared a lot of wanking in that room!

That was the first time I was really ever interested in another mans cock. The first guy, the one I lived with, was all about just enjoying our own dicks and being okay with cumming in front of each other, but this guy had a pretty big cock and I started thinking about what it would be like to wank him off. He shot good loads too, it was really horny seeing him kneeling on his bed and squirting his cum out over the towel in front of him. That would make me cum and he would watch me cumming while he drained the last of his load out of his dick.

I wanked with him a few times after that too. It was harder though, we only managed to get the opportunity about four times in the next year. I still see him now and then but it’s only about once a year and the girls are always there.
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Last year I upgraded to a new wank mate. I was getting bored of not having that fun with mates and decided to try to get out there more. I started thinking about who would make a good mate and actually wrote a list of all the guys I know who I thought might be into it. I know that sounds fucking weird but after reading a lot of the experiences on here I worked out that there’s definitely a “type” of guy more likely to be into it.

I narrowed it down to one guy I know. I met him through my girlfriends brother a couple of years ago. I’d seen photos of him on Facebook flashing when he was drunk (censored of course), I knew he used to play Rugby and those guys seem to be pretty shameless about getting their dicks out. I’d seen comments and jokes he’d made on Facebook, things like “it’s not gay if…” and memes about wanking and not getting laid enough, you know the kind of thing.

In July I got the chance when he posted something on Facebook about feeling old because he was building a shed in his garden. I answered and offered to help him out. The next weekend I was over there and we got the thing built. His wife was away at her mums for the weekend. I made a joke about him needing the shed for all his wank mags and how he’d be in there with a fleshlight rubbing one out every night. That was it, minutes later we were in his office in the house watching porn. I didn’t need to suggest anything or lead the conversation, it was all really natural and pretty soon we were both sat there wanking our dicks.

I made the right choice with him. I knew that the first time. He has a fucking GREAT cock, and I mean it’s amazing. I never looked at another guys cock like that before. It’s fat, with a big foreskin, low and full nuts. He shaves his balls and trims his pubes. It just looks fucking beautiful and feeling that heavy cock gets me so fucking hard. He doesn’t cum big loads like the last mate but he makes a good mess when he spurts.

Another reason why he’s an upgrade is because that first time we were already comparing cocks. He was making jokes about my “skinny” cock, I made jokes about his big foreskin, he slapped me on the thigh with his dick… it was obvious that first time that he was going to be into more.

The second time was a couple of months later when my girlfriend went on a seminar for work and he came over for a few drinks. We were soon watching a porno on my big TV and had our dicks out.

The next time was pretty funny. We were in his shed! He was working on some electronic switches for his office and I found a porn mag under a chair he had in there. I was right about him wanking in there. It was risky coz his wife was in the kitchen only about 30 feet away but we got our cocks out and flicked through the mag. We found a threesome pic with a girl getting DP’d and we started talking about how hot that would be and how neither of our partners would be willing to do something like. We started talking about what it would feel like and how we would deal with our cocks rubbing together, and then we were, dicks side-by-side with his hand around both our cocks rubbing them together.
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That was it, after that we were wanking each other and his cock felt fucking amazing. It didn’t last too long. I think it was a mixture of the risk and the fact we were wanking each other off. All I know is it lasted about 5 minutes and we both shot massive loads over the desk in front of us and splashed cum all over his mag.

Since then we’ve done nothing but wank each other off. We make plans to do it now too. He started converting his loft last year (really just an excuse for us to wank each other off in peace) and I go over a couple of times a month. He says his wife knows about his wanking and she wouldn’t give a fuck if she knew we wanked each other. I know my girlfriend would freak out about it.

I don’t know what his wife thinks to be honest, and I don’t care either, all I know is it’s great to have a wank mate so into it and one with a fucking great cock too.

Thanks for the site. When I heard that you might be shutting it down I had to get my experience here and hope that my contribution helps. Please don’t shut it. I might not be on the forum often (not much to say) but I love the blog posts and reading the other guys experiences.

Cheers mate!