Never wanked with a mate yet
Submitted by Stephen in Cornwall
“I really want to wank with another guy. I’m 24 now and I think I’m pretty laid back and open minded about things, I have a 7” uncut cock and I can cum hard and messy when I stroke it. I’ve always loved wanking and even when I have a girlfriend I find myself wanking at least once a day. I consider myself to be straight, I don’t want a relationship with a guy beyond friends, I have no interest in sucking cocks or fucking, it’s all about the wanking and seeing and feeling each others cocks had and cumming.
I’ve tried to meet up with guys on Grindr before but they always end up being feminine and camp, or wanting to fuck me. The one guy I thought I might get some wanking fun with said it would be great when we started chatting but within an hour he was trying to convince me to fuck him, and that was before we even met, all we’d done was swap dick pics.
I found your forum and blog today and I’m probably going to sign up later. Just wanted to leave my experience here as a kind of “hello””
Editors Note:
Your experience is a very familiar one, to me and probably plenty of others here too. The thing is, a lot of gay men just don’t get it. Most are stuck in the mindset of you have to be either gay, bi or straight, and with each of those things comes specific sexual acts that we’re all supposed to engage in. Reality is not like that. It’s kind of ironic too that so many gay men would be so rigid in their opinions about the sexualities of others, when they would scream bloody murder about anyone daring to tell them they were “just confused”. But they do this all the time to straight guys who just have a fetish, or an interest, or want to experience something else. You will find guys who think exactly like you do, and there are probably thousands of guys in your area all looking for the same thing – just a mate who has no problem wanking with a mate.
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I agree with Brad and recognize the experience you’ve had Stephen. It’s very hard to find guys to jack off with away from “the scene”. I tried going to the bars and clubs about five years ago and all I got for my trouble was a sucking in the mensroom and plenty of guys who wanted to fuck me, or have me fuck them. If it’s not sliding into a hole they’re not interested.
In my experience it’s best to look for communities like this one or try to move things into mutual jacking with guys you already know or meet in everyday circumstances.
I think you’re right with the idea of getting regular straight guys you meet into it. From my experience there are plenty of straight guys out there who would have no problem jacking off with a buddy watching porn. Most of my experiences over the years have been with guys I knew in my personal life, guys I met through work or through other friends. I’ve met a few guys through other wank mates too. Back when I started enjoying it I found one guy entirely by accident who was real into the mutual masturbation scene and knew another 50 guys he jacked off with. Over the six months after that I met more than 20 guys to jerk off with through that one guy, and 5 of them are still wank mates today, and they’ve led me to meeting other wank mates too.
Love a phone wank