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Reader Submitted May 29, 2022August 6, 2022 13 Comments Curious, Friendship, Frottage, Hand job, Jacking Off, Mutual Masturbation, Sexuality, Wanking

Does It Mean I’m Bisexual?

“I’m 23 and I have a girlfriend and we’ve been together for 15 months. I’m fascinated by dicks and love seeing them being enjoyed and I get real horny thinking about jacking another man”

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BuddyBateBrad June 15, 2021February 10, 2022 2 Comments Community, Friendship, Mutual Masturbation, Podcast, Sexuality

The The Bate Escape Podcast – Why you should be listening

BeastlyBator presents The Bate Escape Podcast, presenting discussions and debate around aspects of solosexuality, masculinity, the bator community and more. Check it out!

Male Sexuality OP-ED

BuddyBateBrad October 31, 2019October 31, 2019 10 Comments Friendship, Frottage, Hand job, Jacking Off, Mutual Masturbation, Opinion, Sexuality

Bating Helped Me Understand My Sexuality

“There are a lot of guys out there who have some of the same feelings that I do, whether they identify as gay, straight or bi. And bating is a way for us to come together and enjoy it. For me, bating is the act that fits perfectly with my desire and sexuality.”

Male Sexuality OP-ED

BuddyBateBrad June 25, 2019June 25, 2019 10 Comments Circle Jerk, Friendship, Jacking Off, masturbation, Masturbation Club, Mutual Masturbation, Opinion, Sexuality, Wanking

The JO world is bigger and better than it ever was

“The Internet changed it a lot, and although it took time the bate community is now the most diverse I’ve ever seen it. It’s awesome.”

Reader Experiences

BuddyBateBrad January 13, 2019September 21, 2019 0 Comments Curious, hung, Locker Room, Sexuality, Straight

Big dicked dude at Yoga

“Most of the others there were women and a few guys mostly in their 50’s and 60’s, but there was one other guy in his 30’s and he was hung. I’ve got a pretty big dick (which is why I like showing it off for my mates lol) but his was bigger.”

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BuddyBateBrad August 1, 2018August 18, 2018 10 Comments Sexuality, Size, Wanking

Is your cock bigger in the summer? Some guys seem to think so.

Aside from us all feeling like we were devolving into liquid form during the heatwave, there were apparently some benefits for men when it came to the chap between their legs… does your dick get longer in the summer?

Male Sexuality OP-ED

BuddyBateBrad December 27, 2016January 6, 2017 5 Comments Male Sexuality, masturbation, Mutual Masturbation, Opinion, Sexuality

Getting over the “gay” thing in mutual masturbation

Ignoring the labels can be hard, but when you discover the opinions of theoretical strangers are meaningless in your life things become a lot more interesting. Guys wanking together doesn’t change sexuality, it merely expands experience.

Male Sexuality OP-ED

BuddyBateBrad September 1, 2016August 18, 2018 3 Comments Bisexual, Heterosexual, Homosexual, Opinion, Sexuality

If you enjoy a wank with other guys you’re at least bisexual

“It’s really simple – if you enjoy the look or feel of other guys cocks you are at least bisexual. Please get over yourselves and admit what you are.”