5 BuddyBate Readers Explain Their Love Of Shared Masturbation
We reached out to five readers of BuddyBate who’ve commented before to ask for more about them, their experiences and who they are, why they enjoy shared masturbation with other men and how they think it improves their lives.
Submitted by Teddy63
My own bator life didn’t start until I was 34 but I knew about guys jacking off together in college. I was a swimmer and played some other sports and there were always guys jacking it in the showers. I didn’t think about it much at the time. I would get hard and I guess I wanted to join in and try it but I was too nervous. I guess I thought it was more about sexuality then and I wasn’t ready to deal with that.
Years later I started jacking it with a neighbor. He was very easygoing about it. He had a converted basement he used as a gym and a movie theater and had a big porn collection that we started watching. It was just buddies being buddies. It was great being able to share that with each other and I realized that jacking off with men is just as much about friendship and masculinity as it is about sex.
Being able to enjoy that with another man is special. It’s the best kind of friendship two men can have. When you’ve seen each other enjoying your penises and ejaculating without shame you form a special bond that goes beyond the friendship you might have with other guys. There’s no friendship like it.
RubbingIt
I started wanking it with lads in the 90s when the London cruising scene was a lot bigger than it is now. I was probably always curious about stuff but it wasn’t until I found a few public toilets where all this stuff went on that I got into it. I started out thinking it was just fun to get a free hand job or blow job and there was always at least a couple of guys who wanted to make me cum. I could go to any of those places at night and there would be ten or fifteen guys hanging around with dicks stiff and looking for another one to play with. It was great!
It took me a while to wank another cock. Most of the time it was just other guys sucking and wanking me but one day I just got so into it and a guy really wanted me to wank him so I touched his cock and that’s how it started for me. When I wanked him and felt that hard dick I knew I was into it and after that all my visits were about wanking and frotting cocks (and a few of the guys blowing me).
Wanked with a few mates after that. My flatmate a couple of years later was into hand jobs and we had some good times watching porn and wanking each other. In the last couple of years I’ve found other guys with BuddyBate badges and had some good wanks with them.
As for what it’s about for me I think it’s just pure horniness. I love wanking and I love the feel of another man’s cock, his hand on my dick and making each other cum. I’m not into the “bromance” and all that stuff. I have a girlfriend and we’re happy, I just like the experience of two cocks being enjoyed between guys with no labels and no strings.
Mancmancometh
I was always a big wanker and when I got into wanking it with mates it just kind of happened. I played Rugby and a lot of the guys I hung around with were the same. No one really gave a fuck about it guys would just wank off in the showers. There was a lot of banter between the lads and talking about guys girlfriends and sex and it just always led to guys getting hard and wanking out some jizz. None of the lads were shy about it. There wasn’t any hand jobs or anything just guys being guys and wankers wanking off. I think it’s the same for a lot of guys though.
Guys would slap each other’s dicks if they caught a mate hard but that was the only contact they made. I guess some of them might have been wanking off together in their own time but in the showers it was just masculine showing off and banter. Guys did cum though. There were a few competitions like that.
My proper wanks started with one of my mates. We just started watching porn at his place and over time we got more and more into it and then we ended up frotting cocks and wanking each other. That’s what really changed it all for me. Before then it was just lads being lads but when we grabbed each others dicks and properly wanked together everything changed.
Eventually I got into threesome wanks with two mates and it’s been amazing. Still wanking off together a few times a month.
It’s great having mates you can wank with. The way I see it is I’m mostly straight but I know I like cocks too. I ain’t down to suck and fuck but grabbing dicks and sharing a wank and making each other shoot off a few rounds of cum is fucking great.
PhillyDick
Started jacking it with bros in college. Temple U. Shared porn and jacked it with my roommate a few times. Found a circle jerk in the showers once and joined in with those guys. There was plenty of jacking going on. Wasn’t hard to find guys swapping dicks and busting a nut.
Always been into guys and girls but really love the whole bator scene. None of my buddies are down to jack it so I don’t know about the whole bator friendship side of it since college but it was fun having a bro who was into it as much as I was. I guess it would be cool to have a regular bro I was real close with to share it.
My girlfriend knows about my bator habits and she thinks it’s hot. Might be having a threeway some time if we can find the right dude to get involved.
PlumberNick
Most of my friendships have involved wanking. I’m not into thinking about it all so much it’s just mates having fun with their dicks. Maybe I’m just weird but I’ve wanked with almost all my mates. Ever since I knew what wanking was I’ve been giving it some good rubs with my friends. Sometimes we just wank off to porn in the work van other times we chill out watching porn and take our time really enjoying our dicks. Nothing wrong with a couple of good mates just getting their cocks out and rubbing.
Wanked off a few of my mates too, and been wanked. It’s fun! People take all this way too seriously when it’s just lads enjoying what god gave them. Nothing gay about it. Just get your cock out with your mates and have a good laugh together getting that jizz out! lol
It’s always great to hear how other guys got into jerking with other fellow bators.
Thanks guys for the stories etc.
Yes, it is always awesome to hear the mutual stroking pleasures with other stroking males. I think reading about others who enjoy mutual stroking with one another is a real turn on for me! And gives me the courage to explore mutual stroking myself with other like minded males. I have as of yet to actually find another stroking buddy, but, I keep trying, by looking on the web site, doublelist.com for other like minded males who want to help me explore my sexuality with another male.
Paul
Great stories. Thanks guys for relating how you got into jackin’ it with other guys and mates.
Yes, it is always awesome to hear the mutual stroking pleasures with other stroking males. I think reading about others who enjoy mutual stroking with one another is a real turn on for me! And gives me the courage to explore mutual stroking myself with other like minded males. I have as of yet to actually find another stroking buddy, but, I keep trying, by looking on the web site, doublelist.com for other like minded males who want to help me explore my sexuality with another male.
Paul
I really enjoy reading about others stroking experiences with other like minded males. It gives me hope, that I can find a like minded male in my age group and in my area.
I have very limited experience with mutual pleasure with another male. But, I am actually looking for a like minded male stroking buddy in my area.
Paul
My hater experience happened when I was in my early 20’s and it all started when a older male mentor friend of mine, asked me if my lady friends gave me good HJ’s and BJ’s. Well I didn’t really know what a good HJ/BJ was, and he offered to show me his stroking skills.
Well that got us both starting to watch each other stroking ourselves and him teaching me the stroking skills of self pleasure.
I was hooked after watching him stroking his beautiful long, hard, thick fully cut cock. It was amazing being taught by him the pleasures of mutual stroking ourselves together.
Paul
Mutual wanking is so hot. Ive attended the Melbourne Wankers Club a few times. They are such fun. Just a group of naked men of varying ages, and all shapes and sizes, stroking themselves and each other. I love b;owing a load while being stroked by another guy, especially when there are more guys surrounding us and stroking and holding my body