A Potential Wank Mate Or Just A Show Off?
Submitted by BiBro98
I’ve had a few experiences with other lads in the past. It’s mostly just wanks and some sucking in cruisy toilets and stuff, but although I’m bi I lean more toward women when it comes to sex and relationships.
I think I just like dicks. I like watching gay porn when it’s about wanking and sucking (blow bangs and circle jerks are great) but I’m not into anything more than that.
Only a few of my friends know this about me.
I met a guy through work about 6 months ago and we became mates. As far as I know he’s straight, he’s got a girlfriend and they’re pretty serious. But I’ve seen his cock probably 10 times. He’s a show off. He’s always getting it out.
He’s got an amazing dick. It’s long and thick and smooth. He always looks like he’s semi hard. Every time I see it I think about offering him a hand job.
I can’t tell if he’s just really relaxed about showing his dick and proud of what he’s got or if he’s down for more than that. I’m positive that if we were watching porn together he wouldn’t have a problem enjoying a good wank, I don’t think he would consider that weird.
Any advice?
Hey BiBro98,
Thanks for your submission.
A lot of guys are proud of their dick and they aren’t shy about getting it out in front of other guys. In my experience those guys are usually down to watch porn and wank in the company of other guys, but that doesn’t automatically mean they’re gonna be down for hand jobs and frotting etc. Guys have different limits, he sounds like the kind of man who just isn’t shy when it comes to getting his cock out with other men.
There’s really no way to tell if he’d be open to that unless you get to that kind of scenario.
I would suggest maybe seeking opportunities where you could explore a porn enjoyment/wanking scenario and see how that goes. Not every guy is going to be down for swapping dicks, some are just really relaxed about masturbation and don’t think it’s unusual for a couple of horny guys to rub one out.
Unless you get to that point you’re not really going to discover if he’s down to swap. I would take it step by step, enjoy the friendship, see if you can create that comfort level between you and see how it goes from there.
Of course, you could just be honest and comment on his cock the next time he’s displaying himself. Maybe showing that you’re intrigued by his dick will encourage more exploration?
Good luck, let us know what happens 🙂
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Perhaps during one of these situations you might just say ” really nice cock I want compare mine to it ” then get yours out and take it from there give it a few strokes to make sure it’s erect etc. see if this might be the right lead-in to something more but take it slow. Preserve your friendship first, true friends are hard to find .
Love stories like these , where you’ve met a mate at work etc. It must be a real turn in etc to see his cock constantly. Hard to keep it in for you though when you want to touch it or do more. Sounds like his cock is amazing.
hi
I think maybe you should let him know that he has a nice cock and ask him if he would like to stroke yourself together some time. He must be showing off his cock for a reason. Maybe to see what you would do.
Most males enjoy showing off their cocks, especially if they have a nice long fully cut cock. I go to a gay bath house sometimes, just to see what kind of comments I get and if someone in my age group, 50-68 years old, would like to watch me stroking myself and maybe lend a helping hand.
Next time he pulls out his cock, grab it and see what happens!
You might be very surprised by his reaction!
Paul
In my experience guys who show off their cock like that are very open to bating. They just need to know you’re into that too and the right situation leads to wanks. Let us know mate.
i’ve got a mate like this. he’s got a nice thick cock and he’s always showing it off. too scared to ask if he wants a wank but i found another mate at work to wank with. i might ask him eventually. i think it’s easier when it’s a new guy you meet and you don’t have to worry about fucking up your friendship.
MPOV, just ask him. What’s the worst he can say? No?
I have a buddy like him. Happily married, gorgeous wife, who likes to fondle his cock at every opportunity. Whether cutting the grass…oops…need to reach inside the shorts and adjust; to cooking…Damn did I spill anything done the front of me…hey little guy – with a tug – it wasn’t deliberate, do you forgive me.
One day his wife chastised him for not washing his hands after adjusting, he snapped back his hands were busy NOT burning the steaks on the BBQ, I jokingly said I’ll take over cooking or adjusting…his wife beamed with “…ooooh…I’d love to see that, two men playing!”
I got lucky, WE are now a very handsie foursome…it seems the wives like each other as well.