Add Your Group Locally

We’re all about getting local here at BuddyBate, which is why our personals section is divided up into countries, states and cities etc.

We want to give you as much info about your local area and bator scene as possible.

We plan to develop these categories more in the future, delivering important updates for your area. We’re still working out exactly what this will look like in the future, but for now we’re working on adding more relevant info to the category pages, specially related to masturbation meet-ups.

For example, if you visit category/location/london, this is what it currently looks like.

You’ll find personal posts under this heading.

We know there are official and unofficial wank clubs in london. You have the London Jack Off Club holding weekly events at the Bunker Bar, but you also have 14 local groups of 3 or more men meeting regularly to share their cock stroking adventures with each other.

Anyone can add to this number. If you’re among a group of guys who like to share your bate with each other (whether you’re just dealing with your own among friends or sharing hands-on contact), you can add your group by clicking here: https://buddybate.com/jack-off-club-registry

You don’t need an online presence, you don’t have to be looking for new members, this is just a method of letting local guys know that there are groups in your area they could be joining in with.

If you do have a formal group and you are looking for more members to join in, we’re very much open to advertising your community locally, too. You need somewhere readers can make contact with you, such a group website, a bluesky account (Twitter/X is no longer a hospitable network) or Reddit.

If you have any ideas for how your local “hub” page could become more useful to you, please let me know in the comments. We really want to know what pieces of information you are most interested in when visiting your local page.

For example, should we list local adult theaters and saunas? Cruising locations? Bator-friendly bars and pubs? Let us know below!

Cheers, big ears!