ADVICE: Finding Jerk Buddies In A Small Town

Submitted by CountryDude99

I had 2 jerk buddies when I was living in LA but I moved to a small town with less than 2 thousand people and I really miss the bator life.

There’s no kind of scene here.

Any ideas what I can do? Really miss playing with other guys.

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Hi CountryDude99

This is a common problem for a lot of bators. It’s true that opportunities are few and far between in smaller communities, but in my experience there are bator buds everywhere and it’s just a matter of finding them.

If the population of your town is 2,000 then our estimates are that there’s around 75 men in the area down to bate with other guys. This is a very conservative estimate of 10% of the entire 18+ male population (assuming a 50/50 split in gender, which is usual).

So, with 75 local bators in the area, you should be able to find at least 10 jerk buddies.

As for how to do that, I would first start by asking if you’ve added a personal post here. That’s a good way to put your town on the radar of potential visitors. That’s why we have the local directory for personals, so guys can more easily find like-minded men without the noise of social media and sites like Reddit that have much less specific geographical groups.

And, have you got any BuddyBate buttons/stickers/t-shirt etc? That will also put your town on the BuddyBate map and might encourage others to participate. Guys have had a lot of success with those over the years. You could be walking down your local mainstreet one day or having a drink at the local bar and find a new bud wearing a t-shirt.

There are also various search options on tube sites and forums out there, so maybe start looking around and using those search functions, start chatting to local guys who are into the same things you are.

There’s also the EVENTS calendar, with clubs all over the US, and even some great weekend camping events coming up in the summer. If you really want to share the fun with other jerk buddies you could attend any one of those.

There are a lot of opportunities, you just need to put yourself out there a little more.

I hope that helps.

Brad

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