Been Wanking With A New Mate At Work

Submitted by John R

I’ve been a wanker for as long as I knew what my dick was for and I’ve wanked with a lot of guys. When I was in my 20s I had a few wank mates and we would stroke it to porn all the time but we never wanked each other. I didn’t start that chapter of my bator life until I was in my late 30s when I started wanking off with a gay guy I knew. He wanted to do more than just bate but although I let him suck my dick a few times we really just spent most of it wanking each other. That was the first time I tried frotting with a guy and I was into it after that.

My wife didn’t know about this side of my sexuality for a long time but eventually I told her about some of my experiences and she was okay with it. We don’t have sex very often so she doesn’t seem to mind if I look for wank fun outside of our relationship. She knows me enough to understand that it’s just about wanking and nothing else.

I had lots of experiences with random guys at urinals and a few discreet wanks in the gym showers but I’m always looking for more.

When the BuddyBate buttons started up I got mine straight away. There weren’t many in my area (still aren’t) but I keep looking for them and I wear my lapel pin all the time.

I think I mostly forgot I was wearing it on my jacket. I didn’t really expect anyone to notice it but it was nice to feel like I was part of this community and it was exciting to think that maybe if I went to a meeting in London a guy might recognize it and we could have a little wank fun in the toilets or something.

I definitely didn’t expect a guy at work to recognize it.

I’ve worked with him for a year and we get on well but of all the guys I know who I thought might be into wanking with other guys he didn’t even make the list.

He noticed it for the first time in January and we had an awkward conversation about it. At first I was vague about what it was and just said it was an “online community thing” hoping he would drop it. Then he smiled and said he knew what it was and he had one too but he didn’t wear it very often because his wife would get suspicious.

Ten minutes later we were in the toilets watching porn on our phones and wanking one out 🙂

We didn’t frot or wank each other that first time but two days later we met up for lunch and had another wank in his car and we agreed to try wanking each other. He’d never done that before so it was a new experience. I know he liked it because we both squirted off two massive cum wads at the same time. We weren’t expecting it to be that messy but luckily he had another shirt in the back seat he could wear lol

We’ve been wanking together ever since, every few days we find an opportunity to either go and have a wank in the toilets or find somewhere at lunch or after work to go and rub one out. We’ve done a lot of frotting and given each other plenty of hand jobs.

One of the best things we’ve tried was under stall wanks. I never did that before when I was finding random guys to wank with in public toilets but it’s been fun getting each other off under the wall like that.

We’ve become good friends because of it too. We don’t just wank off all the time. We go to the pub and he got me back into playing pool. We go to the gym once a week. We’re planning a camping trip in the summer and a holiday to Spain with the wives in August.

He’s got a great cock, he gets so hard and it feels amazing in my hands. I love making him cum and he shoots so much jizz out. He knows how to get me off too. I think guys just know how to handle a dick. We almost always shoot at the same time.

Thanks for getting me back into bating with guys. I didn’t know how much I really missed the friendship side of it.

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