Business (And Bate) Buddies

Submitted by GolferGary

I’ve been lurking and checking out the community for a few months and I guess it’s time I shared my own BuddyBate experience.

I’m a married 46yo guy who jacked it with a buddy a couple times way back in the 90s but never thought much about it. Back then it was just horny buddies jacking it to magazines. Only did it a handful of times but it was cool to have a buddy like that. I just thought a lot of guys did that when they were young and horny 24/7. We used to just get our dicks out and have a quick bate session, shoot our loads and get back to whatever.

Last year I started jacking it with my business partner and buddy of 15 years.

We run a property management company with a small staff. Most of them were able to carry on working but we just cut back on everything and shut the office down to work from home when the pandemic started.

I found out my buddy was jacking it at work when I got an alert on the cameras we had installed. He knew about the new cameras but I guess he just forgot. I didn’t see him in the act, I just checked the cameras and saw him walk in the door so I sent him a text and he admitted he went there to jack off. He said his wife had hijacked his home office when she was sent home from work too and he just thought he could make use of the office instead seeing as no one was there.

We joked about it and that was that. The cameras aren’t on desks or in our shared office, just by the main doors, so it wasn’t like I could spy on him anyway.

We turned off the alerts so we didn’t get messages every time someone went to the office, just if the alarm was activated.

Then a couple weeks later I had to go to the office to get some files and I didn’t think about talking to him about it. I’d forgotten about him going there to jack off, or maybe I thought it was just a one-off thing. I didn’t see his truck outside when I went in but when I walked into our office I caught him sitting at his desk with his pants down and his cock in his hand.

Then I remembered that he’d told me his truck was off the road and he was bitching about his wife having to drive him everywhere.

He wasn’t embarrassed about being caught. He just made a joke about needing to bust a nutt. It was awkward for a few minutes. I gave him some shit about it but when he asked if I was uncomfortable with him just getting on with things I said it was cool.

I didn’t want to be that guy, you know? Besides, we’re buddies and I understand how it can be. I wasn’t getting the kind of privacy I liked either with my wife there all the time so I understood.

I went to get the files and when I came back into our office he was still watching porn and jacking it. I guess I’ve seen his dick a few times before that. We’re not shy guys and after 15 years being buddies you just have those kind of casual situations. We work out together, vacation together, go camping and fishing, so we’ve seen all that. Seeing his dick hard was just different.

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I asked what he was watching and went to have a look. It was just vanilla porn, a hot girl and a muscled guy fucking, nothing weird.

Maybe I thought about that buddy years ago and it got me thinking about it again but I just think it wasn’t a big deal. I asked him if he cared if I got my dick out and jacked it and he said that was cool so I got my chair and brought it over to his desk. My cock was stiff as soon as I got it out and he passed me some lube he brought with him.

Before catching him I never thought about getting back into jacking it with a buddy. It was just one of those things I did back in the day and I never thought about it much. I definitely wouldn’t have thought he would be cool about it. I guess we’re just good buddies and it’s not a big deal.

We had a good time just chilling out and jacking it. Lasted about an hour. We watched a few different videos and talked about what we’re into. We didn’t compare dicks or anything like that but I know I’ve got a longer dick than him. He’s got about 6 inches and bigger balls and mine is about 7.

We shot off our loads together. He had Kleenex on his desk and we shot at the same time. There’s definitely something hot about seeing a buddy finish. I don’t know what it is but maybe guys are just programmed to like seeing that after all the porn we watch. We made a big mess and had to use a lot of Kleenex to clean up, we cracked some jokes about it then we both went home.

I didn’t even think it would be a regular thing after that. I just thought it was a good way to spend an afternoon with my buddy and that was that. The next week he sent me a text that he was going back into the office and that he got a membership to a new website and I just took that as an invitation.

We spent another afternoon jacking our dicks and shooting some loads.

It was a habit we got into and we started meeting up at the office one or two times a week. We’ve had some real good bate sessions and some of them are two or three hours. A few times we’ve even had more than one bate in a day. We order pizza and hang out there and sometimes get back into another jacking session.

We’ve probably seen each other bust a nutt a hundred times. I told him about jacking it with a buddy years ago and he shared a similar experience with a neighbor when he was 19, then he jacked it a few times with a guy he worked with before we started the business.

Maybe I got curious about whether other guys do this as much as I think they do but that’s what got me to BuddyBate and I realized it was more common than I thought. Never thought there would be a whole community of guys who are into just jacking it with other guys but it’s been great discovering it.

Now that things are getting back to normal we’ve opened the office up again. We’re still “working late” and using that time to jack it but he’s started converting his basement into a home office so I think we’re gonna be jacking it together there when it’s done.

It also means we can spend some time jacking off when we go fishing or travel for business.

I don’t think we’re ever gonna be down for jacking each other or frotting and all that stuff. Other guys in the community seem to love all that but for me it’s just cool sharing porn and having that kind of friendship where we can enjoy it together. I do like reading the stories and experiences but for us it’s just good friends with something in common.

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