Can’t Cum Like I Used To
Submitted by Jerry
I know guys generally cum less when they get older but I’m only 35 and I noticed that I cum a lot less than I used to.
When I started wanking with other lads we used to have contests and I could shoot my load and win. It was normal for me to shoot over my head when I wanked solo but I could really sling it when I was wanking with mates.
I don’t know when it started to diminish but I think it was the last few years I really noticed how much things had changed.
My girlfriend doesn’t seem to care about it and the guys I occasionally wank with have never said anything about it but I do think about it a lot especially when I think about having contests with the guys. I really enjoyed those competitions before but I wouldn’t be able to do that now.
Any advice?
Hi Jerry!
This is actually pretty normal. Your cum shot usually diminishes as you get older. While most guys could probably sling their load right over their heads when they’re 18 that becomes a rare event when you’re in your 30s and 40s. There are outliers of course, some guys can carry on delivering power shots well into their 60s, but I think it’s pretty common for most men to see a decline in the volume and vigor of their climax.
We’re all different in a billion ways, some guys can unload truly gigantic cum shots and that never changes, other guys might see their load increase as they get older, but I think the vast majority see a decline.
I think it has a lot to do with stress, diet, exercise and testosterone. I’m not a medical professional so take all of this with a pinch of salt, but my perception is that you can do things to improve this.
Hydration is important. Cutting back on alcohol, coffee, nicotine and other stimulants will always help in various ways. Changing your diet to include a lot of fresh fruit and vegetables will increase the vitamins and minerals your body needs. Cutting down on processed meats and fast food will reduce fats and salt etc. Developing your exercise regime will increase your testosterone.
Eating peanuts and celery are alleged to have benefits in semen production.
Sexual changes might also help. If you jack off often or have a lot of sex you might not be giving your body a chance to catch up. Slowing down might assist in this. Give yourself a few days or a week without ejaculation and see what happens.
Edging might also help. If your masturbation is usually short, maybe 10 or 15 minutes, perhaps taking your time more and making it last will produce a bigger result?
If you really think there’s something abnormal happening then I urge you to speak to a doctor about this, if for no other reason than assurance. I would say it’s probably quite normal, but if you’re concerned then please seek advice from a medical professional.
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Hello,
I too have found that I don’t Cum as much as I use to. But, usually always enough to lick up from my fingers.
Paul
I could really squirt it when I was 18. Wank mates back then could sling it out in ropes. Met a few guys since who can shoot a lot but I think its true that it declines in your 30s. I’ve tried things to help, like when I know I’m meeting a buddy I hydrate, edge for a while and get worked up. I know I can cum more when I do that.
Don’t forget about kegel exercises – they may not help with volume but they can help with distance which can increase pleasure.
I’m 60+ and in the last 5 years I’ve had a big decrease in power and amount of jizz, but the orgasms themselves feel just as good as when I was a teenager. I just received my stickers and hoping to find a buddy to compare loads with.