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Hi all, welcome to the new BuddyBate forum!

It's been a while since we operated one, but we thought it was about time to resurrect this idea and finally bring it to fruition.

This is where you guys can all discuss your bator habits, share your ideas, debate your lifestyle, explore tips and advice, and even find other bators to become buddies with in your area. The Personals section will remain, at least for now, but this seems like a better way for you guys to seek out friendships and build local communities.

As always, sensible rules apply, and we will be watching.

Specifically, STRICTLY NO MENTION OF ANY PERSONS UNDER 18.

No phone numbers, email address or physical addresses (unless it's a business premises such as a bar or event space).

No mention of depictions of force, violence, substance use.

No bigotry, hate, racism etc.

Basically, be reasonable, be sane, be decent to each other. Anyone who isn't will be banned without debate or discussion.

Have fun, and bear with us while we get used to this new forum with you 🙂

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(@avgj9)
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Are there plans to institute a direct message feature, or is there one I'm not seeing?

 

While a lot of guys use messaging apps (Kik, etc.), many do not (including me) for various reasons.  Since you won't allow email addresses to be posted it makes it difficult to get in touch, which is one of the biggest weaknesses of the Personals section of the site--difficult or impossible follow up.

 

I hope the new forum will be lively and lead to good connections for many.

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Posted by: @avgj9

Are there plans to institute a direct message feature, or is there one I'm not seeing?

There isn't one at this time, and we are reluctant to add such a feature as it can very easily be abused by a minority. The fact is, there are people who will ignore our rules and legal requirements, so we would have to monitor all direct messages anyway, which doesn't seem right to us.

All members can still publish social media accounts where others can contact them directly, we think this is a fair compromise.

Posted by: @avgj9

While a lot of guys use messaging apps (Kik, etc.), many do not (including me) for various reasons.  Since you won't allow email addresses to be posted it makes it difficult to get in touch, which is one of the biggest weaknesses of the Personals section of the site--difficult or impossible follow up.

We legally cannot allow the publication of email addresses. This is part of GDPR laws relating to privacy. Publishing email addresses on the open internet will absolutely result in masses of spam within days, rendering that address useless very quickly.

Even if we could legally allow the public publication of email addresses we cannot confirm ownership of that address. For all we know someone could be posting someone else's address in order to harass them.

As for Personal Posts, you can subscribe to any post in the comments by email. When a new reply arrives you will recieve an email notification of that reply.

Posted by: @avgj9

I hope the new forum will be lively and lead to good connections for many.

So do we! 🙂

 

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WhittleseyLad
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Agree with what your saying mate. Be great if we could direct message

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(@trawets)
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Wanted to delete a personals post so I can post a new one.

Any ideas how?

Cheers

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