Curious about wanking with another guy

Submitted by B in Reading UK

I’m 27, straight and love wanking to porn. I get off on gorgeous babes like Sydney Moon, Sasha Grey and Jenna Jameson. I have a girlfriend and she’s gorgeous too. Nice tight pussy and great tits. She’s great at sucking me off too.

For the last few weeks I’ve been getting curious about things. Never really been at all interested in guys for any reason other than mates but read a few of the experiences of other lads here and it’s got me thinking about what it would be like to rub one out with another guy. I’ve never wanked with any of my mates and I don’t think any of the guys I know have ever even seen my dick. I’ve seen a couple of my mates naked before though. I did catch a mate wanking off once and he wasn’t shy about it. I think I could have just walked in and got my cock out and wanked with him and he wouldn’t have cared.

I kind of wish I had just so I know what it’s like.

I work out a few times a week and I noticed it makes me really fucking horny. The first thing I need to do after working out is have a wank. I’ve wanked a few times in the shower at the gym but I always feel weird doing that.

A couple of weeks ago I was in the shower and got hard. I hadn’t closed the curtain because there was no one else around. I looked up and there was another guy across from me with an obvious hardon. I didn’t think anything of it, you see that a lot at the gym and I was hard too. It’s just part of working out. But after I found this blog I started wondering if he was hard because he’d seen me hard.

I’m not sure if I’ve ever got stiff after seeing another guy hard in the showers before but I guess it’s possible. I just never really paid much attention to that.

So now I’m wondering if any of my mates would be interested in wanking off to porn some time. After reading some of the other posts I think it would be pretty cool to have a mate to work out with and then go and watch porn and wank off.

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Thanks for your post “B”.

As you might imagine, I know a lot of baters, and I know quite a few guys who work out a lot and wank a lot because of it, and a lot of them are into wanking with other guys. Interestingly, most of the guys I know who work out and jerk off with their buddies are only interested in side-by-side wanks and not as many of them are into mutual hand jobs or frotting. I sometimes wonder if there’s a correlation there.

There’s nothing wrong with being curious about things. I believe most men probably are at least a little curious about dick, the problem comes when guys think that being curious about wanking with another guy and seeing a friend cumming must mean they’re suddenly gay and want to start going antique shopping for their new Bed and Breakfast in Yarmouth. Guys have this weird notion that they need to fit into a box, that they’re either one thing or another. The truth is that sexuality is far more complicated than that.

You absolutely can be entirely “straight” in every other way but just have a fetish for watching porn and wanking with other guys, or frotting cocks, or edging each other… you set the rules, you define yourself, don’t let anyone else tell you that if you do or enjoy a certain thing (which might make up less than 5% of your entire sexual enjoyment) that it MUST mean you’re absolutely 100% “confused” or bisexual or gay.

You do you,

Or you do them, or they do you… don’t let others define what you *should* be into, because that will only lead to a wasted life of missed opportunities that you’ll probably one day regret not exploring.

As long as you’re not harming anyone, you should entirely forget every notion you’ve ever been told about what men are, what men should be interested in or what you can and cannot do without entirely redefining yourself to suit them.