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Getting other local bators into the scene

Submitted by Jacker7

I’m a married man, in my 40’s, pretty fit and horny 24/7. My wife isn’t so interested in sex these days so for a while I was making do with a whole lot of jerking. I started watching MMF videos (always been a fetish of mine, love to try some DP one day) and when I saw a video where the two guys jack each other I just about passed out with the orgasm I had.

After that we became jack off buddies. We swapped numbers and started planning when we’d be there. He brought a buddy with him and I had my first circle jerk.

That got me into watching things like circle jerks and finding out all about buddy bating.

I grew up in rural Kansas so that kind of thing was never on my radar and I never had any curious experiences with buddies of mine. It was all new to me but I was into it.

Skip ahead to a couple of years later and a buddy at work was talking about catching a couple of guys jacking off out by McConnell AFB and that night I was searching all over the Internet for places where guys go. It sure did open my eyes to a lot of things. I knew about glory holes and truck stops and all that but it never occurred to me that guys might meet up places just to jack off.

I thought I’d found one place mentioned on an old forum from way back and went for a drive out there one Sunday afternoon. I didn’t see anyone else around but I had a good stroke in my truck and dropped a big load. I went back a few times after that without seeing anyone and then one time this car pulls up nearby and before I knew what was happening this guy is at my window with his cock in his hand watching me stroking.

I was real nervous but after a couple minutes we both dumped our loads and we went our separate ways. The next week he was there again when I pulled up and this time I opened my door and he reached in and started jacking me. I grabbed his dick. I think we lasted a minute tops. I didn’t know how I would react to touching another dick for the first time. I thought I might go limp and that would be the end of my curiosity but my cock was so stiff. I was awesome feeling that thick boner. He’s a bit younger than me, probably 35 or something, but he knows how to jack me right. We really came hard that day.

After that we became jack off buddies. We swapped numbers and started planning when we’d be there. He brought a buddy with him and I had my first circle jerk. That guy is probably in his 20’s and not at all the kind of guy I would think would be rubbing dicks with other guys.

We’re up to five jackers now, a new guy showed up last week.

When he told me about this website I got my BuddyBate stickers the same day. There’s one on my dash and one on the back. I got some for my buddies too. We’re all over and around Wichita so I think we might be starting up a real club soon.

My wife doesn’t know about any of it but I don’t think she’d give much of a damn if she did.

Hey Jacker7

Awesome experience!

We know there’s probably a bate group in every city and town out there but most aren’t formal clubs or open to new members, and it sounds like you guys have started one accidentally, which is how a lot of them are formed.

It’s great that you’re getting other guys into the BuddyBate club, I hope we’ll be sending a lot more to Wichita in the future 🙂

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8 thoughts on “Getting other local bators into the scene

  • March 8, 2019 at 3:00 pm

    In Wichita, Eastborough. I think I know the place you’re talking about. Used to be real active back in 2005 when I went. Loads of guys all jerking it 24/7. I thought everyone had moved on but I guess some guys still go there. Good to hear you found a few buddies. I probably know a couple of them and might see you at a circle some time! 🙂

    • March 12, 2019 at 10:04 pm

      I live in North houston and enjoy jerking off with guys a lot, really enjoyed your story.

    • March 14, 2019 at 12:30 pm

      Down by E 55th? 🙂
      I think the new development killed it mostly but it worked for me. I think there’s a couple other places guys go now and might be heading out there this weekend to see if I can meet a few more bators.

  • March 13, 2019 at 4:27 pm

    Hi Jacker7! Good to meet you last week. Looking forward to the next bate. I have another buddy I think he’s down for a circle. I’ll text you.

    • March 14, 2019 at 12:33 pm

      Hey LB! Bring your buddy along. Trying to abstain from cumming until the next one and my cock is so hard rn. Been dripping pre for two days 🙂

  • March 13, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    Trying to get a group started in Fort Myers, FL. Weather is warm, I just need to find an outside safe place!

  • March 14, 2019 at 12:25 pm

    Thanks for posting my experience. Met up with a few guys now and given them stickers and buttons to show off.

  • March 17, 2019 at 3:05 pm

    Hey Jacker! I’m in Lincoln NE and would love to meet up with you and your group of wankers. Hit me up and let me know when you get together!


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