Great places to arrange meets

One of the most common things we hear from members of our community is that they don’t have anywhere to meet up with their fellow bators. We get it, a lot of you have private lives and domestic situations which don’t allow you to host, and finding the right place to enjoy a good long experience with a friend can be difficult.

While most of our readers choose to meet up in remote public spaces out of sight of others, or pay for a hotel room for their small gathering to meet, we’ve heard from several readers over the last few months who choose to visit bathhouses and saunas to meet up with other local bators.

We’ll be publishing one such experience soon.

Although we don’t really like to talk about labels when it comes to sexuality, we also know that a lot of our readers have a very specific notion about what “gay” saunas and bathhouses are like. A lot of guys view it as being similar to Grindr – guys there know what they want and you might not want that.

However (and this is a big however) almost all saunas and bathhouses offer private rooms you can book, giving you the space you need away from the larger crowds who might be looking for things you’re just not into.

Because of this, and after being spurred on by several readers, we’ve decided to add a new section to the website featuring such venues, with the information you need. We’ve started this already, you can check out the new section HERE.

We don’t think you’re gonna be rushing into these places to hook-up and get down to all kinds of fun with all kinds of guys, the way other dudes might, but we’re pretty sure these venues will provide a great way for you to arrange to meet other bators for some private fun in a booth or room. As long as you can deal with all the cruising from other guys there and be honest about what you are or aren’t into, or you pick a time when the venue might not be as busy, we’re sure most of our readers would be able to make use of these venues for their meets with other guys, or groups of guys.

Remember, there’s nothing stopping you from getting ten other local guys together for a meet and just walking in for a room to enjoy together.

As a little something extra, to help you plan these little bator excursions, we’ll soon be adding Temporary Tattoos to the range of BuddyBate products. While they’ll be great for the gym, festivals or the beach, they’re also a great way to find other bators when you visit the local bathhouse.

Rally the local guys together on a post here, a bators forum, reddit or in a chat space and you can arrange a bator flashmob for your nearest sauna or bathhouse and instantly know each other by the tattoo you’re all wearing! 🙂

While we certainly understand that a lot of our readers would never previously have considered walking into a bathhouse or sauna where predominantly gay and bi men visit for more than just a wank, we’re certain that if you stepped out of your comfort zone to use these facilities for your friendly bate meets with other local guys you would enjoy the experience and the environment these venues offer.

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