How Am I The Only Bator In Reading?
Submitted by Luke
I’m a straight, fit, 22 year old single male with a 7″ uncut cock.
I wank every day.
I had a few wanks with a mate a couple of years ago but really want to find other local mates to watch porn and wank with. I would be down for just wanking our own but it would be great to find a mate who wants to wank each other, share toys and rub dicks together etc. My ideal scenario is to find a group of lads who are cool with watching porn and wanking off for an hour or two until we all cum, helping each other to get there.
There are no other wankers on the map in Reading UK.
I don’t have the balls to meet up with random guys in the personals so I wanted to find a mate using the buttons and stickers. I feel like it would be more spontaneous and I would probably find a lad more like me that way. I go out with mates at the weekend, play footie on Sundays and go to the gym at least twice a week (Puregym on Caversham). I’ve got one of the stickers on my phone, I put another one my car, there’s one on my water bottle for the gym and I wear my enamel pin on my jacket and one of the pin buttons on my baseball cap.
I just want one other bator to see it and we can go and wank off.
So far there’s no one else on the map for my town. It says there’s up to 13 thousand other bators in my town but if I’m the only one then I guess I’m screwed lol
Any advice?
Hi Luke,
I don’t know when you got your BuddyBate buttons etc but it can take time to get the ball rolling for a new location. A lot of times no one wants to be the first one to get theirs and put the pin on the map, but often when someone does and other guys see it they’ll join in and get theirs.
There have been instances where a major town or city didn’t have a marker and no one there was getting involved, but then as soon as the first guy did we had another 20 within the following couple of months.
We do try to promote it as much as possible and we add updates on social media, but there are often so many new bators joining in it would become spammy to post about every single one. Sometimes there are ten or more in a day so we can’t promote all of them on our socials.
I can confirm that anonymized data shows hundreds of other guys visiting the site from Reading, so you’re definitely not the only one. They just need to be nudged in the right direction and hopefully now that they can see there’s someone else who started things they’ll join in.
You can promote this yourself too. We know a lot of guys who join in with the buttons and stickers share the club with other guys in local adult groups etc. I know there are guys who friend people on forums and tube sites based on location and tell them about the BuddyBate map, and that can result in higher uptake.
I guarantee that being a student town there are a lot of potential bators there to meet, guys who are looking for other guys to share porn and wanks with. It’s just a matter of encouraging them to participate with their own buttons and stickers.
This post might help. We’ll share it on social media and maybe more guys in Reading will get involved.
We’ve heard from a lot of bators who found a buddy or two using these buttons and stickers so keep showing off that discreet logo. And please let us know when you have that experience! I know our readers would love to know about it 🙂
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I live in Reading and have the same issue. There must be somewhere guys meet for bate fun? I’ll be on the lookout for badges.
I live in Oxford and never see the badges either. I’m the only one who wears it I guess.
Hi lads, know exactly what you all mean. Brought my badge about 3 years ago now, and yet it still doesnt show up on the map still. ( I live just outside of Peterborough UK ) Also wear my badge on my jacket all the time. Did post on the personals to see if anyone was interested, had a couple of replies, but got no further forward. Like you, i cant be the only wanker in the town.
Hi,
I checked with BlokeToys this morning and you’re right, for some reason it hadn’t been added to the map.
Apologies. I have just added it and it should now appear for you.
Thats great Thank you