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How I Became A Buddy Bator

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Submitted by Luke9

I love this site and reading the posts from other guys has kept me sane in recent times so I think it’s time I share my experience.

My story started in 2018. I was at the gym and there was a guy in a towel with his hard cock tenting out the front so much that his dick and balls were displayed. I know it’s not an uncommon thing. I’ve seen loads of dicks and some of them were getting hard. I was into a lot of sports in college so I’ve seen more than a few exhibitionists who just don’t seem to care that their dick is out and hanging heavy. This guy was real hard.

It was a busy locker room but no one seemed to notice or care when this guy sat down and let his cock just bounce out hard as a flagpole. He was looking at his phone and just giving his big dick some rubs. I couldn’t have been the only guy who noticed him. It wasn’t like he was fully jacking it in front of everyone but he wasn’t trying to hide it either.

I just kind of pretended not to notice but then I realized I was getting hard and I decided to take my time and just let it happen.

I’ve never been a show off. I’m not one of those guys who walks to the showers with his cock swinging. I’m not a prude either. Mostly I just let my towel hang and hide my dick naturally like that. I guess I’m one of those guys who doesn’t flaunt it but at the same time I’m not the pussy who looks for another cubicle if a curtain won’t close.

I look good. I stay in shape. I’ve got a nice dick. If guys want to see it that’s all good by me.

Seeing this guy did something to me and I started just messing with stuff in my locker while my hard cock swung around in front of me. It wasn’t that I didn’t care if anyone saw it I felt like I WANTED guys to see it.

When I looked again the other guy was gone.


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I walked to the showers with my towel over my shoulder and my dick leading the way. There were guys all around and I know at least a couple of them must have seen my dick before they saw me but no one said anything. I got a weird buzz from it and when I got to my shower I left the curtain open and jacked off. There wasn’t anyone opposite me until after I pumped my load. It was a good jack, only lasted just a few minutes but I finished big and splashed it up the cubicle wall.

An older guy took the cubicle on the other side and didn’t close his curtain either. My cock was empty but still hard and I knew he liked it because his dick got hard and he jacked it trying to pretend he wasn’t looking.

I didn’t see him finish but I think he did.

Even though I already shot off it was a horny buzz knowing the sight of my cock had made another man spooge his load.

So that was the first time I did anything like that. I still don’t know exactly what it was that triggered it. All those times in college when I was around other guys, even in open showers with dicks everywhere, and nothing like this ever entered my mind. Even seeing boners starting before never got me hard or thinking about jacking it. I knew a lot of awesome guys in college who were a lot more typically attractive and with big cocks. When I think about those times now I’m amazed I didn’t discover all this about myself back then.

The only explanation I can think of is that I either just blocked it all out because I didn’t want to think about it or maybe my interests really have changed. Just thinking about those showers with my college buddies gets me so hard but at the time it’s like I was a monk and didn’t even notice other penises lol

Something about that guy at that time and in that place just flicked something on in my head I guess.

I didn’t worry about it at all. I guess it could be confusing for some guys but I was single and I’ve never been bothered by sexuality. My cousin is gay and I have a lot of LGBT+ friends so it’s not like I would be freaked out about my own sexuality. I was more curious about why it happened then and what I was into.

My porn habits changed and I got more interested in dick. I knew I still loved pussy, none of that had changed. I tried watching gay porn but it didn’t do much for me after the first 5-10 minutes.

Gradually I kind of worked out that I have a kink for cocks, casual male nudity, the whole “bromo” thing. I don’t like anal, not into sucking much, but when it comes to guys comparing cocks, jacking off, helping each other and spooging together I get SO INTO IT.

I never thought I would be jacking it to stories but reading things like the BuddyBate Patreon (RIP, I loved it so much :'( ) made me shoot off so many loads!

Nothing is hotter for me than a bunch of bros all getting their dicks out and jacking off together. I love the videos of circle jerks where guys are talking pussy, admiring their dicks and showing each other how they jack it. I fucking LOVE it when a bunch of cocks are all rubbing and slapping together and guys are grabbing a bros meat and talking about how it feels.

The sight of cocks squirting cum and their buddies immediately starting to shoot too gets me shooting every time!

So that’s how I became a Buddy Bator.

I didn’t know much about it at the time. I had no idea that there were so many men who were just into masturbating with other men like this. It took a while to work it all out and discover the various websites and communities but when I did it felt like everything really made sense to me. I’m mostly straight, but I like dicks and jacking it with guys, that’s it.

I’ve been lucky enough to find some good buddies since I got into this and I can write about those experiences if you like. Mostly it was just other guys watching and showing off at the urinals or the gym but I have met up with some guys specifically for jacking it and it’s been a lot of fun. I haven’t done much since the whole Covid thing started but I’m looking forward to getting back out there for more jacking with dudes soon.

Thanks for reading. I love this site and reading all the experiences from other bators. I hope mine has inspired some of you to give that dick some rubs and maybe share your own experiences!


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9 thoughts on “How I Became A Buddy Bator

  • December 28, 2021 at 5:04 pm
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    That is a very well written story. It got me hard too.
    It’s always good to hear from other guys who love the whole dick thing too.
    Keep it up!

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  • December 28, 2021 at 5:32 pm
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    Love good shower wanks. The gym I go to has open showers and I love it for the showing off and friendly watching between bators. Not a lot of mutual bating goes on but loads of lads get hard and watch each other rubbing one out. Used to be like that with my rugby mates too. There was always hard dicks swinging around and lads not giving a fuck. loads of banter between guys just rubbing out a wad. Just something so hot about proud lads with their cocks wagging!

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  • December 30, 2021 at 2:13 pm
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    I attended college in the 1980s and back in those days communal showers were normal. Boners were common and guys jacked it all the time. Never anything gay about it. Guys didn’t help each other out most of the time. Just men being men and using the opportunity to jerk it and get a nut. I miss those days. I do go to bate groups sometimes but I would give anything to attend a bate club in a communal shower environment like that. It’s nice to read about guys just being proud of their penis and admiring each other like this. Good for you! Please write about your other experiences. I’ll share some of mine too.

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    • January 4, 2022 at 3:05 pm
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      I had similar experiences but never involved myself in them. This was a long time ago in the 70s and 80s. I did enjoy some glory hole visits and there were opportunities to jack off with other men there but that’s all I did. I wish I had joined in with the men I saw in the showers and locker rooms back in those days there were so many opportunities that I was too scared to participate in.

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  • January 1, 2022 at 12:55 pm
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    Haven’t been to the gym for a long time but i always likes the camaraderie of it and the guys who are proud of their dicks. I’m new to the bator scene and never wanked with anyone but seeing guys with stiffies in the showers has always been a turn on. I like it when other men notice my dick too. Thanks for sharing!

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  • January 2, 2022 at 5:34 am
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    Thanks for sharing your experience, I’ve had a couple similar experiences in the gym showers (posted one on this site a few years ago). Always fun to see what’s hangin in the locker room.

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  • January 4, 2022 at 3:02 pm
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    I had many experiences in locker rooms and showers in the 70s and 80s but never found bate friends. It was mostly just watching other men and wishing I could bring myself to enjoy it too. I came from a very Catholic family in NYC and it was all very much off-limits for much of my life but I did indulge in the glory holes and jack off gatherings around them in the 80s just not as much as I should have. I wish I had done more and enjoyed it while I could. Thanks for your story it made this old man very happy!

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  • January 7, 2022 at 12:41 pm
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    I feel like I missed out on a lot of opportunities when I was younger. I had similar experiences of guys in showers being show offs and not caring if other guys saw their stiffies. I never wanked it in front of any of those guys but I got hard loads of times and other lads must have noticed. I would love to read your other experiences so please consider sending them in!

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  • January 8, 2022 at 10:33 pm
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    I guess I’ve always been an exhibitionists. Love showing off my boner in the locker room and stroking in the showers. Had a few curious guys get hard and show off for me but never found a bator to swap dicks with. Maybe I just need to find a new gym. Please send your other experiences Luke!

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