How many of you have never tried a Fleshlight?
I met up with a buddy this week for a lunchtime bate and we kicked back stroking along to some porn. It’s his birthday coming up in a couple of weeks and I’ve been trying to work out what to get him. He’s married so I didn’t think toys would be a good idea but when I asked him for some suggestions the first thing he said was a toy. Apparently he’s got a hiding place for it all planned out so his wife doesn’t find it.
He admitted that he’s never used any strokers at all. He thought about getting a Fleshlight a few years ago but never did. I couldn’t believe it, I think every guy I’ve ever wanked with owns at least one masturbator and Fleshlights are the most popular in the world.
So now I’m thinking about getting him the Fleshskins Grip Blue Ice Masturbator for his birthday, but obviously it’s so I get to try it too. 🙂
And yes, this is also a great opportunity to promote our friends at BlokeToys, make sure you check them out for all your lube and toy needs, and of course BuddyBate buttons and stickers etc!
Now I’m wondering how many of you have never tried a Fleshlight before. I would think most guys have, but am I wrong?

Feel free to elaborate in the comments below, especially if you’ve had the pleasure of sharing a Fleshlight or other toy with a bate buddy!
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I got one a few years back to see what it would be like. Loved it when I first tried it out, even sharing it with a buddy of mine at the time as well. I don’t use it as often now as I have in the beginning, but when I think about it I get it out for a Bate session.
Yes, I’ve had mine for a few years, and I love it. By turning the end cap you can easily adjust the suction pressure to greatly increase your pleasure.
Truthfully, every guy should own one of these!
Leaving it out in the open for your buddies to (accidentally) see it when they come over is a great ice breaker and automatically creates a mindset that they will want to try it out.
Hint: If you’re embarrassed about owning one, just order a dildo you know she’ll love when you order a Fleshlight for yourself. Tell her you bought something for each of you to play with, and say it with Confidence and Excitement! You’ll be amazed at how this will increase the pleasure of your times alone, and together!
I love my flesh light… have three a large one for home use, a smaller one when I travel and a hands free one when I am feeling lazy and want to fire a load!
I don’t own a fleshlight and have never used one. However I do own another type of stroker I enjoy using from time to time. I’ve never had the opportunity to use it simultaneously with another guy and I’m curious how many other men have done that.
Hey bud, count me in for your question.
Yeah I have used one with a bud at the same time and loved it.
The closest feeling to an actual DVP as you can get.
Bate on bro.
I’ve had the pleasure of owning two yet rarely use them anymore. My buddy and I were going to pool our money to buy one (and share). It never happened, unfortunately, but didn’t stop us from stroking it 3-4 times a week.
I bought one shortly after they came on the market. I shared them with every body that came over for a bate. Pretty much we would use each others pre to lube it up and share it back and forth until we were ready to shoot and then pull it off right at the last second. Another buddy came over and he told me he had one and didn’t like it. He ended up giving it to me. I have 2 for a while and then broke down and bought one those open smaller ones. There was just a sale (significant) that if you let them pick out the “model” it would be way cheaper. I got Brent Corrigan – pretty sure the inside of the sleeve has very little to do with him. I have a new buddy who has never used one so he has a choice of 4!
I had one the best orgasm i e ever had my life better than pussy I had one molded to Jenna Haze asshole it was fn incredible The only drawback is it felt so goddamn good you cum very fast. Best orgasms I’ve ever had used to make my belly twitch as i filled it up with cum
Id like to use it with like three other baters share it put it in the microwave and heat it up
I have never used a Fleshlight, but have often wondered how they would feel. Plus, I have never had $60 to spare. I have used TENGA EGGS and currently have SIX different styles. I use Liquid Silk, Astroglide, or Cornhuskers Lotion when I jack-off with one of these OR if my sweetie jacks me off. I usually pull the Tenga Egg off of my cock when I am ready to shoot a load of cum. I do this because I can not stand to have my cockhead rubbed when I am cumming……
I bought one about a year ago and used it a few times but I get more enjoyment from using my hand with a little lube. It is nice to be able to regulate the pressure on your cock while wanking which you can do with your hand.
I’ve never used one but am toying? Excuse the pun, with getting one of the fleshlight girls. Dominika Chibova to be precise.
I own one and have used it a few times. To me it’s just … OK. I get a lot more enjoyment out of using my hand to masturbate. Since I typically don’t use lube when I masturbate, I find that the friction from my hand is what keeps me edged and eventually helps get me off. The fleshlight doesn’t give me enough stimulation to keep me fully hard, and I kinda get bored with it after a while. It’s nice to have when I want to change things up and feel different sensations during my bate, but I don’t use it that often. I really wish I liked it more than I do.
My personal favorite is the Tenga flip, they are pretty pricey but worth the $s. If you’re interested in one I would recommend the white version. Look around you should be able to get one in the $85 range. These are the best sleeves ever.
I have several Tenga eggs and I love the feeling of the stretching of the egg and the different egg texture and my lady friend loves the way she can see my cock head as I or her are sliding the egg up and down on my hard lubed up shaft.
Paul
I’ve owned a few of them and they feel amazing. I like it with a lot of suction and I like to really pound my cock hard. Most of the time I’ve bought the clear ones because it’s hot to see how much I can fill it up with my cock. Those are the pros. Now the cons. They never seem to last long, think the clear ones even less so. It’s not the fleshy part that fails, it’s the hard plastic part. It will crack and then not hold the flesh part in. I wish I could say it’s because my cock is so massive, but I’m just on the high end of average (7×6 on a good day) so that’s not the reason for the failure. Also they’re a pain in the ass to clean, but that’s to be expected I suppose. Finally they’re expensive. All that being said, if you’ve got the funds I’d say get one for sure bc they feel incredible and look hot.
I would love to hear the stories of some of the 30 respondents who replied:
“Yes, a buddy’s” (8%, 30 Votes)
Details, please!
I love using my fleshlight sleeve, I have several sleeves, but my favorite is the clear sleeves, because my lady friend loves using it on me and seeing the way my cock looks jumping and pulsating inside of it. I also have a fleshlight mini sleeve and it to feels amazing sliding up and down on my hard shaft.
I think fleshlight sleeves would be amazing to use for frottage, because they stretch enough for two long hard cocks to fit inside. The frottage videos that I have watched, when a sleeve is being used is so very erotic and sexy. And must feel amazing, feeling two long hard cocks sliding inside the fleshlight sleeve.
I think using a fleshlight sleeve is awesome to use sometimes when I am looking for a different feeling, besides my hands.
I found that when using a fleshlight sleeve, I have to be careful not to stroke myself too long, or else I come wayy too quickly.
I have several different types of stroking sleeves, that fit really tight on my cock and they also feel amazing. I bought a blue double stroker a while back and it has because my favorite sleeve, because it has amazing nibs on the inside.
Over all, I highly recommend using a fleshlight and trying other different types of sleeves.
My bucket list includes trying frottage with another male.
Stroke on my brothers
Paul