I have a secret blow bang and bukkake fantasy

Submitted by BonerBro

Long time reader but first time submitter.

I’ve jacked it with buddies since college. It started the way it probably did for a lot of guys in this community. Me and my roommate just kinda fell into it. Beer, porn, dicks and friendship. It was easy. We never jacked each other but we had a lot of fun getting off. At first it was just nice to be able to enjoy our masturbation openly but I think we both knew we enjoyed the bonding and the sight of our cocks being appreciated together. I think he would have been down to swap dicks if I’d suggested it but I really didn’t even think about it being a thing back then.

After college I found other dudes to masturbate with. I always had at least one buddy who was down to jack it. I was open about it with a lot of men, mostly guys I got a certain vibe from, and a lot of guys were cool with at least watching porn and jacking it. It was the fourth guy I jacked it with who got me started with jacking each other and frottage. That was a whole new world for me. Up until then it was mostly just bros being bros but when we started grabbing each other’s dicks we really got into it.

I remember the feeling of his fat cock in my hand. I still get hard whenever I remember how hot and hard it was. It felt great being jacked by another man too. I probably thought about it a lot before it happened but it was even better than I could have imagined. He knew how to jack me.

Things slowed down for a while when I got married but my wife was cool with the whole bator thing. I told her about the experiences I had and she got off on it and said it was okay to continue that part of my sex life. As long as I wasn’t getting any pussy on the side she was okay. I jacked it with one friend in those years and that was always fun.

Turns out she was getting dick on the side. Things got messy and that’s when we separated.

I got back into the bator scene after that. I found a group of guys to jack off with and we had a few awesome parties where it was all about edging our cocks and helping each other get some huge loads off. We used to meet at a motel once a month. Most of the time there was 4 of us but sometimes a couple other guys would show up.

When I was offered a promotion I had to move states but I went back for another 2 parties before they ended.

I haven’t jacked it with anyone for 2 years and I really miss it. The pandemic and work took a toll but I’m just starting to get back to things and I’m planning to visit a couple of those buddies from the parties to have another threesome jacking session.

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My problem is that now I have more interest in sucking dick. I had one blow job from a guy I jacked with a few years ago and it was awesome. I didn’t want to suck his cock then but I guess my interests have changed a lot.

I keep having the same fantasy and find myself jacking off thinking about being in the middle of a blow bang, with loads of cocks all slapping my face and rubbing against me, the men jacking each other and shoving each other’s cocks in my mouth. I think about jacking all these dicks around me and sucking on their tips, rubbing their meat together and making them all cum all over me. Just thinking about it makes my cock dribble! I feel like I could start shooting off just imagining all those hot and wet penises in my face and competing for my mouth while they all moan and watch me sucking them below.

One of my favorite things to do is cum in my own face when I’m jacking it. I like to edge for a few days before finally giving in and then I roll back and shoot off in my face and imagine it’s another guy’s load.

I’ve got a collection of movies that have loads of cock sucking between guys and a few with bukkake finishes and they always make me cum so much.

I guess I’m just wondering if this is normal for the bator scene. Are there jack off parties where guys will let one of the members suck them all? I don’t care about being sucked or even being jacked off, I just want to be in a bator party where I can suck all their dicks and take their hot loads all over my face.

I want to try it at least once just so I know if it’s really something I’m into but I don’t know if there are bators out there who would like to have that happening at their parties. We never did that at the circle jerks, it was just hand jobs, frotting and edging.

It seems like most organized groups have rules about things to stick to hand jobs and frotting. I get it. It’s supposed to be all about the bate so I understand why there would be rules about it. I know I could probably get a few guys together online and have a bukkake party and there’s probably 10 guys in my neighborhood who would love to just get sucked, no strings, but I would feel more comfortable in the bator scene with guys who are experienced in hand jobs and the communal enjoyment.

Maybe I need to find a different community or find guys who are just down for that outside of the bator world?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

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Hi BonerBro

Thanks for your submission to the site!

First I think I should say that you’re not unusual. There are plenty of guys who love to just jack it in the company of other men, guys who love to swap dicks and edge each other, and guys who love to suck cock or have another guy blow them. While our community focuses on communal masturbation guys all have different interests outside of that narrow window.

In my experience most bator clubs have gay, straight, bisexual and “unlabeled” members. They all share their love of jacking it with other men but they also have their own sexual interests beyond being bators, just like you do.

While it’s true that most clubs and events will be limited to jacking (because that’s what guys are there for) that’s not necessarily true of all the members. You obviously found friends at the last bator club you were a member of and the same will apply to the next. You’ll find buddies you can hang out with outside of your jacking meetings and it’s entirely reasonable to build a little community of your own from that.

While the bator events might just be about enjoying your strokes together you’ll probably find that a few of those guys will be more than happy to indulge your fantasy outside of the club.

There’s nothing wrong with that. You’re not taking anything away from the club or the bator scene. You’re not demanding anything unreasonable. You’re curious about experiencing something and I would bet most members of a bator club would love the opportunity to meet again for something like this. They might not be down for sucking dick but are there many bators who would pass up the chance to have a circle jerk with a dude who wants to suck them all?

I would recommend getting back into the scene, join (or start!) a local club and put some feelers out (excuse the pun) to see which members would be down to satisfy your curiosity at your own little party. I don’t think it would be hard to find a good group of men who want to get together for something like this.

Thanks again for submitting your question. I hope you’ll let us know how it goes 🙂

Brad.