I just want to watch porn and wank with a mate
Submitted by Dicker
A lot of your posts are about guys wanking each other off and I just like the idea of watching porn with a good mate and wanking our own. I don’t know what it is about it but it turns me on thinking about it. I think I just like seeing a good cock being wanked and I like the idea of another guy seeing me cum. Other than that I’m totally straight.
I had one experience like it with a guy at the gym but we just watched each other wank it for a minute and then someone came past and interrupted us and he left. It was great seeing another hard cock being wanked in front of me and it was so horny knowing he was enjoying watching me stroking mine.
I’m not ready to make contact with another guy just want a mate I can watch porn and wank with. I think I have one mate who might be into it but I don’t know what to do about it.
Does anyone else here feel the same way? What was it like wanking with a mate like that and do you still do it?
Hey Dicker.
Thanks for your post.
While a lot of our readers are totally cool with grabbing another cock and sharing their bate physically there are probably just as many guys like you who just want that open friendship with another guy where jacking off isn’t something to be shy about.
It really is a great friendship to have. I know several men who are open enough to share porn and wank without it leading to frotting or giving each other a hand. They’re real close friendships and there’s a great sense of camaraderie when you’re able to see each other enjoying such a hobby 🙂
I know one of our readers in Houston, Texas, has a bate circle with three of his friends and it’s all about getting naked, watching porn, having a few beers and shooting off some loads. They don’t have any real interest in stroking each other, it’s just a great relaxed environment where they can be free with their dicks and just have fun. They have cum shot contests, they like to compete to see who can edge the longest, but it’s just about enjoying a real close friendship where there are fewer barriers and no shame about what they all enjoy.
When it comes to our community and the BuddyBate button project, you’ll find that a lot of other men who have them are cool with this situation too. Even the guys who love to attend circle jerks and share physical contact will likely all be down for just watching porn and shooting off a load or two with a dude like you, no pressure and no expectations.
Our community is all about the enjoyment of self pleasure, and while some guys like to share their strokes and give each other a hand there are plenty of others who just enjoy the friendship aspect that comes with it.
As for your friend, I would suggest either being honest about it and just bringing up the subject and seeing how it goes, or maybe just look for another friend to explore this with first without risking your existing friendship. I don’t know his attitudes about things like this so I can’t really say much more than that, just use your best judgment.
Whether you approach an existing friend about it or look for someone else to experience this with, do what feels right for you, enjoy yourself, seek out the friendships you want to have. If our website and community can help you to do that then that’s awesome!
Brad
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I’m the same as you. I jacked off with a buddy in college and now I have another bud I bate with a couple times a month and we just have a beer and watch porn and shoot off a couple loads. It’s cool if guys want to jack each other but we’re not all interested in that or getting into groups and circle jerks I think it’s just great to have that bro you can be that open with.
I love wanking and showing off and one of my mates is cool with watching porn and wanking it too. We don’t do anything else just watch porn and see each other enjoying our dicks. Nothing wrong with that mate!
Exactly what I’m into as well mate. Just fucking fun chatting and comparing before shooting off a big volley together!
I’ve got a fantasy of jacking it with a bunch of guys and rubbing dicks together but the only jack off buddy I’ve got is only down for DIY. It’s better than nothing but I really want to get into the scene and find a circle for hands-on jacking with dudes. Just ordered a BuddyBate pin and there’s a few guys in LA so here’s hoping I find a group 🙂
I really enjoyed your post. While I would prefer mutual masturbation, I am fine with just finding a guy like you to jack off with! I don’t haven’t done this in years. Once again, thanks for your post!
100% with you, Dicker. Although I might be encouraged to swap hands for a “curiosity” feel. Unfortunately I’ve reached a stage where people that I knew that were as open minded have gone in different directions and I haven’t found anyone new locally.
I wank with one of my mates and its like this. We just send each other porn all week and then when we meet up at the weekend we watch something and get our cocks out for a good wank. We never wanked each other but if he was interested in that i would do it. The way I see it its just two mates helping each other out. We both got the same anyway so why not?
I would really like to find guys in San Diego who want to jack together. Thanks for your post
Hi Brad and thanks for your comments and suggestions for Dicker. I am in Houston and would really enjoy joining a bate group like the one you mentioned in your message to Dicker. Perhaps they will get in touch somehow if they would like an additional bro to join their group or maybe there are other such groups in Houston looking for new participants.
Hey bud
Headed to Houston in August
Gran a beer?
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Hi. Sorry, we have to remove email addresses as we cannot confirm that you own it. We do allow links to social media accounts (tumblr, kik, twitter etc) so other guys could message you there. I hope you’ll consider submitting a personal post too if you haven’t already!
Same here it’s seems all the baters in leeds uk are in hiding…
It’s hard getting guys for a specific area to the blog, we’re not exactly in the top ten on Google and guys generally don’t go looking for a buddy to wank with until they come across the prospect online. We really need our readers to take a more active role in promoting the blog and bringing local guys here to help build the community, that would help you and others in the area too, you could form a club within a few months if guys from Leeds were coming here and commenting, posting and sharing their experiences.
Can I recommend maybe looking for guys to bring here on tube sites? Most of them allow you to search by location, and all you need to do is send them a friend request and have a BuddyBate.com mentioned in your profile. You might find a lot of guys from Leeds are then checking out the site and helping to grow your local community.
I highly recommend the web site, doublelist.com for looking for a stroking buddy. I have posted several requests on doublelist and have gotten several great replies and have actually met up with two different like minded males for stroking ourselves together. One only wanted to suck me off, which was very cool and the other one got naked with me and we both put on some panties and started watching each other stroking ourselves in panties, before he reached over and started stroking me, and I got brave enough to actually try stroking him back. It was a very erotic experience.
Paul
I too just wanted to watch porn videos and watch each other stroking ourselves in panties. My 1st experience with another panties wearing male male and stroking ourselves together in panties, was awesome. Watching each other stroking ourselves in panties and reaching over feeling another male stroking me and then me reaching over and slowly start stroking him was amazing feeling. Now I want more experiences.
Paul