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I love pussy but cocks are so fucking awesome

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Submitted By AlanH

I was in college when I realized that I had an interest in penises other than my own. Until then I’d always been all about pussy. I jacked off to straight porn and had girlfriends. Things changed when I met a bi guy in college. He wasn’t out as bi (it’s complicated but he was a very stereotypical jock type and from a religious family). Being uncut among mostly circumcised guys I guess my dick got more attention than most would and while some guys just made jokes about my turtleneck he was real interested. I wasn’t very shy about it and one thing led to another and I let him have a good look at it. I started getting hard and he got his cock out to “make it even” and we jacked off together.

His was the first cock I saw hard outside of porn and I think I was “turned” when I saw him cum. We jacked off a few times after that and it was always pretty easy. It was awesome seeing his cum shooting and I really got off on him watching my cum shooting too. I got more interested in seeing dicks and started watching videos of guys jacking off. That got me into seeing videos of guys jacking each other. I suppose that’s what got me here and reading all the posts from other guys who are more experienced about it.

I still haven’t touched another cock but I think about it a lot and I love reading stories about guys helping each other out.

I’m not interested in sex with other guys it’s just the jacking off and men being proud of their penises together and just enjoying them. I think about it a lot and want to experience the fun of frotting with other guys and making each other cum.

I really think it’s a fetish. Nothing else about my sexuality has changed and I don’t feel any different about pussy. I love fucking my girlfriend and can’t imagine ever doing anything like that with a guy but I just love seeing good cocks being enjoyed and guys stroking together. It doesn’t even matter if they’re hard or soft I just love looking at dicks and admiring them and thinking about what it would be like to stroke them and rub our dicks together. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with guys getting together and just having fun with their dicks like that, we all do it solo anyway so is it really any different to guys enjoying any other hobby together?

Maybe people want to call me bisexual or something but I personally think that’s just as much about the emotional relationship as it is sexual and I have no romantic interest in other guys so I think saying that’s what I am would be dishonest. I’m not gay either, I definitely love pussy and titties and there’s nothing that’s gonna make me change my mind on that! lol

So my opinion is that I have a fetish for jacking off and penises in general and it’s probably separate from my heterosexuality. I think a lot of men are probably the same but they just don’t think about it the way I do and can’t work out that the labels are too specific and don’t work for a lot of guys.

I hope other guys can leave their comments and let me know if they’re the same. Maybe there’s more of us than we think?

I have got my BuddyBate lapel pin and I plan to wear it whenever I can. I don’t know if I’ll find a buddy to jack off with or if I’ll have the balls to go through with it if I do but I at least want to try and see what happens.


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Mark
Mark
3 years ago

Very much the same as you. Totally the same situation as I am, although I am now married and have kids.

usmex85
usmex85
3 years ago
Reply to  Mark

Slightly different here; gay here but same in the sense of not looking to be romantic or have sex with some other man. Feel like it is more plausible for straight guys to bate with a buddy than it is for a gay monogamous guy to bate with a buddy whether the buddy is straight or gay.

Rich
Rich
3 years ago
Reply to  usmex85

I’m in the same boat, gay and happily married. But I really like the idea of no strings attached bate with friends, just enjoying our cocks together the same as 2 guys would enjoy a night at the pub or a football game.

Mike
Mike
3 years ago

I am very much the same too! Got wife, but I just love wanking with a mate. I love seeing someone enjoy their dick! Any UK guys want to chat, add me to Snapchat (username – nwb8r)

Juniur
Juniur
3 years ago
Reply to  Mike

I learned the older I get, the more okay I am with everything. Cocks and pussies are both amazing. I enjoy the lust with both. Life is short. Enjoy it. We have to many stereotypes already.

Paul
Paul
2 years ago
Reply to  Juniur

I have the same thoughts about watching solo males stroking themselves. As I have gotten older, I find myself wanting to explore stroking myself with another male. Not gay, but I am sure that I am very no-sexual curious and find that watching guys stroking themselves to be very sexy and erotic. I don’t think that you have to be gay to enjoy watching other males stroking themselves. You can learn so very much about self pleasure and stroking yourself from watching guys stroking themselves, so many different techniques for stroking yourself.
I especially love watching a guy have a nice big explosion. I find myself wanting to lend a helping hand.
Paul

Steviepeters012
Steviepeters012
2 years ago
Reply to  Paul

Hey Paul, completely agree. My kik is steviepeters012 live in southern UK. if you ever want to wank, chat etc. I watch the same stuff and want to join in too. Talk soon

Juniur
Juniur
3 years ago
Reply to  Mike

I’ve been there. I build a sense of lust and once I cum, it disappears until next time. I’ve been with both men and women and honestly, never really had the urge to swallow. Don’t mind when someone swallows me though. lol

Paul
Paul
2 years ago
Reply to  Mike

I can’t wait to actually have my 1st experience with another male having us both watching each other stroking ourselves and and reaching over and slowly start stroking the other guy. Mutual stroking together would be awesome.
Paul

Jason
3 years ago

Very much the same here, except I also have thoughts about trading blowjobs. Really get turned on by the thought of eating my own cum, but as soon as I cum I lose interest. I figure if I suck another guy’s dick, I can try eating his cum before I cum and don’t want to anymore…until next time I get horny.

Sandy
Sandy
3 years ago
Reply to  Jason

So True….Has to be a great solution!

Juniur
Juniur
3 years ago
Reply to  Jason

I’ve been there. I build a sense of lust and once I cum, it disappears until next time. I’ve been with both men and women and honestly, never really had the urge to swallow. Don’t mind when someone swallows me though. lol

Jason
Jason
3 years ago

As if you read our minds. In the exact same boat, married, not gay, love pussy, but also love the sight of cocks, hard or soft. Jacked with a buddy once and often fantasize about doing that again. Would try oral, but nothing more than that. Once I cum the fantasy subsides like others have mentioned. I am not into labels and the older and wiser I get the more I am tolerant and willing to experience. Thought your post nailed it!
Jason from SoCal – Palm Springs

Mars
Mars
3 years ago
Reply to  Jason

Hey I could read your mind! Lol
Nah really I am in Northern CA and just wanted to say “hey”

Keep me updated on your experiences with an D M
[email address removed]

BuddyBateBrad
3 years ago
Reply to  Mars

Hi. We don’t allow the publication of email addresses due to privacy concerns and GDPR laws. We do, however, allow the posting of links to social media accounts such as Tumblr, NewTumbl, Reddit, Twitter, KIK usernames etc (basically any social account other than Facebook as we deem that company a threat to our users) You really just need an account somewhere so that other readers can message you directly. I hope this helps 🙂

RichmondMuscle
RichmondMuscle
3 years ago

Same. I love some good pussy but there’s something so fucking good about seeing a good cock being stroked and a big load pumping out of it.

Scot
Scot
3 years ago

Totally the same. Never jacked off with another guy but very much interested. Hope to find someone here in colorado. Reach out if you are

Jeff Sorsgie
Jeff Sorsgie
3 years ago

This is a topic very near and dear to me. I’ve felt quite alone for the past 30 years. Though I know there must be others like me or similar to me. I really have never met any. Though my “situation,” lust, desire, whatever you’d call it is a bit different, I can certainly relate to your “situation.” I’ve considered myself A non practicing bisexual for 30 damn years! I practically live for the enjoyment of gay porn but I have very very very rarely found a “real guy” stimulating. However, I definitely embrace the term “bisexual” and I wish way way way more people would as well. For years The millennial generation infuriated me with all of their new terminology and labels and re-defining of words, all in an effort to be more open, and inclusive, and rejecting of labels. Seems so ass backwards. Personally I feel it’s been pretty counterproductive. Let me jump to my main point. I think as “we” see and define “straight” and “gay” as being exclusively attracted to one gender, I feel way to many people don’t realize that they internally define “bisexual” as being 50/50. Attracted just as much to both genders. It’s my opinion that while gay and straight can be pretty cut and dryly defined….opposite ends of the spectrum, “bisexuality” is this huge messy forest spanning between the two. Me personally, when I was first introduced to a playboy like at 7, I was hooked. These were pre internet days so porn was way harder to come across but believe me, i founds ways to get it. I don’t know when I first came across lesbian action, but when I did, that was my go to niche for many years. I wasn’t necessarily disgusted by dudes and dick but had zero interest and always went for the lesbians. Then my last couple of months in college my gay roommates recruited me. I’m kidding. But. The coincidence is intriguing. One year I’m writing angry letters to book publishers advertising soft core gay books in catalogues and then the next year due to a housing crisis I’m in a house with three guys I barely know or didn’t even know. Two of them gay. And six months later I’m jacking off to guys in underwear catalogs! I mean of course I don’t believe you can “catch” gay or be recruited or anything. But. Damn. Total coincidence? Anyhow fast forward to 10-15 years and I’ve got about as many gay porn magazines and videos as I do straight and lesbian and the new century has made porn so much more easy and embarrassment free to obtain….a porn lovers paradise. At that time when I saw guys commenting on shemales etc on cam sites or whatever with comments like “I’m not gay BUT..”. Huge eye roll on my part and a “dude your not straight either,” reply. For many years I thought the whole taboo and persecution of gays had these guys in serious denial of how much they truly liked men too. (Of course sadly many people thing bisexuality is just a path to total gayness). But now after 30 years into “my thing” I too remind myself that “bisexual” can mean a ton of things. Sure it can mean your only attracted to women with cock. I get that. And sure it can mean you like to watch a guy make a big cum mess and a guy or gal clean it up but want no part of that yourself. Etc etc etc. Sure it can mean you like to jerk off with guys but don’t want to have sex actually with them.
I love taking about this stuff so I’d love to continue the conversation with anyone interested, but for the sake of winding up I’ll close with…..sexuality can be weird and messy. I wish people weren’t in so much denial over the huge gray area between being straight and being gay that is being bisexual. And personally believe waaaay more men and women fall into that gray area than would ever ever admit. Men especially!!! What a shame it is that for many men the idea watching their lady eat some pussy is a huge turn on. But women are way more likely to share that fantasy, but extremely likely to be disgusted by the idea of their man with another man. The double standards are a huge shame. No wonder guys that aren’t necessarily straight still want to cling to that label. I also feel like totally straight or totally gay must’ve the rarest. I mean seriously. Isn’t it much more burns to be somewhere in the middle floating around? Cock is indeed great. I don’t know how one could walk around with in every day and use it fir their own pleasure and not only be not curious about other cocks, but claim to be repulsed by them. I mean really? That seems kinda hard to believe. 30 years is a fucking long time to jerk off to gay porn but only have a handful of guys in real life that have aroused me. I see women every day that I eye fuck though. I also have had many dildos and cross dressing lingerie over the years so I’m kinda all over the place. I’ve had a grand total of one dick in my mouth. Loved every second of it and lust for it daily. But. Not a single guy I know that interest me. I don’t get it. I chalk it up to extremely high standards in men. Ooo. One last thing! I’m not to proud to admit. I look at attractive men as total sex objects. I really don’t have any emotional interest in them at all. I much more prefer the company and conversation of women. I love my penis but I think I’m really a bisexual woman on the inside. I once had a friend complaining about his wife say “if it weren’t for the sex I could be gay.” And I was sitting there thinking….wow. That’s the ONLY part I’m interested in! So. If I didn’t mention it already in this essay….I feel the definition of bisexual is pretty big. But gay and straight pretty simple. So I don’t think not wanting any emotional or romantic relationship with a guy makes you any less bisexual if you still have a strong interest in cocks that aren’t your own. It may not seem like a big deal. But they’re millions of bisexuals in the world, probably more than there are gays and straights and it’s be super if we could just embrace it instead of deny it.

Arlyn
Arlyn
3 years ago
Reply to  Jeff Sorsgie

Very nice comment Jeff ! I couldn’t agree more , love it. ” waaaay more men and women fall into that gray area than would ever ever admit. Men especially!!! ” WOW did you ever hit the truth bullseye there my friend. I think women are more likely to admit it than are men though and perhaps it is the part about women being turned off at the suggestion their guy might want to play with another guy.

Love the sight of cock , not ashamed to admit the sight of a nice cock arouses me. Like the guy above the older and wiser I get the more open to it I’ve become, it’s great.

Andy
3 years ago
Reply to  Jeff Sorsgie

Wow Jeff. You nailed it. I feel exactly the same way. I definitely somewhere in the middle but tits and pussy are my first and foremost attraction, but I love the sight and feel of a nice cock. I haven’t had too many opportunities but I’d really like to have more. I’m married and my wife knows I’m somewhat bi, but it kind of freaks her out. Not sure where you live but I’d love to talk to you and share experiences. I’m in Reno NV. You can contact me on tumblr at reno8143.

Paul
Paul
3 years ago

Yes I too love pussy, but the thought of stroking another male cock is very erotic and sexy.

Danb
11 months ago

I love pussy too but for me cocks just hit another level. I love playing with them. Feeling them grow and that throb when a guy shoots is just awesome

Tom
Tom
7 months ago

same here. I like to look at cocks either soft or hard doesn’t matter. I like the different shapes and wonder what it would feel like stroking them.
I am married too, love my wife and enjoy our sexlive a lot.
But still I would not mind having a buddy to bate with ????????

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