I think my mate might be a wank buddy type of guy
Submitted by Kris
I found this blog last month and it’s really got me interested in the idea of wanking with one of my mates. I never thought about it much before but if I’m honest I have to admit I like seeing a good dick and watching guys cumming. Since I started reading the stories and posts from other guys I watched some videos of guys wanking each other off and I think I’d like to try that with a mate. The idea of rubbing dicks together really gets me hard.
It looks like a lot of guys have had experiences like that and I never have so I feel like I’m missing out.
One of my mates might be interested in it but I don’t know. I really don’t know how to find out.
I’ve known him for years. I met him in college and we work together now. He’s married and as straight as I am but after reading some of the stories from other guys he sounds exactly like the “type” of guy who would probably be cool with at least wanking next to each other.
He’s always showing off his cock. I worked out with him a few times and we both got hard in the showers and he joked about wanking and whether he would get caught and thrown out. A couple of years ago we were on a work trip with some other guys from the office and we went camping for a weekend and me and him shared a shower outside and I caught him wanking it. He wasn’t shy about it but I left him alone to deal with it.
None of my other mates are like that and I’ve never wanked in front of anyone, not even a girlfriend, but he just doesn’t give a shit.
I wasn’t thinking about wanking with him when all this was happening but the banter we’ve had and the fact he’s so open about his cock and wanking makes me think he’s probably down for a porn night. I would really like to see what it’s like to wank another cock and frot our dicks together but I would be happy with just wanking together and seeing each other cum, just for the curiosity.
It would be so fucking cool to have a friend like that where you’re not shy about enjoying your dicks. We all do it and we all have basically the same equipment so why are guys so weird about it?
Hi Kris
You wouldn’t believe how common this is. We used to get about ten of these posts a month back in the day and they were all basically the same – a guy who is a little curious about wanking with a mate, his friend who isn’t shy about getting his cock out, and wondering how to move things along and see what happens.
There are plenty of guys who are interested in it and never explore it, because they get caught up in the labels. Different guys want to explore it for different reasons. Some guys just aren’t shy about it and haven’t ever thought it was unusual to jack off with a friend, others like the bonding aspect of being so open and comfortable with a good buddy, plenty of guys have a fetish for masturbation and just like seeing a good cock being enjoyed… it doesn’t matter what kind of bator you are, I think everyone reading this who has experienced friendly masturbation with another guy will agree that it’s fun, it’s worth exploring and once you’ve had that experience you don’t want to give it up.
It sounds to me like you’re right, he probably is the kind of guy who just doesn’t think it’s a big deal to rub one out with a friend. He might not be down for frotting or hand jobs, but he definitely sounds like he’d at least be open to watching porn and having some good banter while you both shoot off some loads. He probably thinks that you’re the kind of guy who wouldn’t want to do any of that and if you just change your attitude around him a little bit he might realize you’re down for it.
As for how you can make that happen, I would recommend just being more open about things. Maybe just making it clear that you’re down for wanking with other guys will be enough? You could also get some BuddyBate buttons and stickers, he might have some already, he might be a reader here. You might even discover that he’s already a member of a bate club in your area. For all you know he could be jacking off with other friends already and within a few weeks of your first bate together you could find yourself in a great group of guys enjoying your hobby together.
We don’t know him, but from what you’ve said he’s clearly not shy and if you become more open like him there’s a good chance things will just naturally progress. Get your cock out when he does, share showers, take a piss when he goes to the toilets at the pub, find ways to be more open around each other and you’ll probably find yourselves on the same page.
Good luck, and let us know how it goes!
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Your right bud. You would enjoy this and next time you see he’s being a little open. Go with iit.
Sounds like the ice has been broken – you were naked together, hard in the showers and joking about wanking, you then caught him in the act when you were camping that’s way more than half way there in my book. I reckon next time you’re hard in the shower with him just go for it – too many missed opportunities already!
He’s definitely the type of guy who would be into it. He sounds like I used to be! I was never shy about my dick, always getting it out and showing off in front of my mates. I wanked with three of my mates about ten years ago and they were all the same kind of guy and weren’t shy about it. Good luck with your mate and let us know if you get wanking with him!
Dude! He wants to jerk off with you so bad! He is sending all of the signals! I’m betting he wants to feel your warm, hard cock in his hand, and your hot, slippery load all over his cock!