I was 25, me and my mate were wanking, we swapped cocks

Submitted by Philip

It’s been a while since I enjoyed masturbation with a friend but I often remember those days fondly.

I was 18 when I started wanking with one of my good friends. We’d been close for years, best friends. We were inseparable really.

I have to admit it was fucking great having another hand on my dick and after a few seconds I slowly reached out and grabbed his

We were very close. We played football together, went swimming every week and worked out often. As you can probably imagine nudity between us wasn’t an issue. I’m quite surprised it took as long as it did for us to discover porn and start enjoying our masturbation together but it eventually happened when he bought a VHS tape by mail order. I was sleeping at his place that night, which was something I often did, and we watched the film and wanked in the dark.

Over the weeks that followed we got more confident and open about it. We showed off our hard cocks and competed, seeing which of us could cum the quickest and who shot the most and all those kinds of things. I don’t know how many times we wanked together but it was a pretty common occurrence.

We never made contact and I don’t think it’s something either of us even thought about. We were just a couple of horny young men playing with our own dicks openly and having a good shameless time. it was great to be able to see another hard one right there. We were both very similar, both about 6.5 and our dicks even curved the same way.

Years later I met another guy through work and we became good friends. He was quite similar to my friend from years before, who I’d kind of lost touch with slowly over the years.

I’d moved into my own place and he was helping me decorate one weekend. He was sleeping on the couch and one evening we were having a few beers and we somehow started talking about porn. I was newly single and he was trying to set me up with his girlfriend’s cousin. I think that’s how we got onto the subject of sex initially.

Anyway, one thing led to another and we somehow started talking about wanking with friends when we were younger. I told him about wanking to an old HVS with my mate and he told me about his experience of giving a friend a hand job.

By this time we were both on the couch in just boxers. We’d already planned to call it a night so we we’d been ready to hit the hay for a while. All this talk about sex had us both hard. Both of us were poking out. Back then tight boxer briefs weren’t really a thing, at least not with my mates. Most guys just wore baggy cotton boxers so that gives you an idea of how impossible it is to hide an erection. My cock was sticking out of a leg hole and he’d lost the button on the front of his so his dick was soon pointing straight up out of the fly.

We laughed about it but soon we were watching porn and giving it a good stroke. We were both checking out the other’s dick, as you do. We were quite open about it eventually, talking about our cocks and comparing just like I’d done with my other mate.

Then he asked if I wanted a hand. I wasn’t expecting it even though he’d been honest about wanking his mate and that it was “alright”, he said it was a good time and just a couple of mates helping each other out.

I don’t think I said anything, I just kind of presented my cock and he reached over and started stroking it for me. I have to admit it was fucking great having another hand on my dick and after a few seconds I slowly reached out and grabbed his. I’d been paying a lot of attention to his cock because his was longer and thicker than mine. He had a long foreskin and big balls, his cock was darker and gnarlier than my smooth and pink dick.

It’s the most memorable and horny sexual experience I’ve ever had. It was completely different to eating pussy or fucking. Back then I was still clumsy about sex but this was just so easy and natural after just a minute of wanking each other. It was great feeling his cock in my hand and enjoying his strokes on mine.

We knelt on the couch and mashed our dicks together. I didn’t know what frotting was then but that’s what we were doing. It was just fun, turns out two dicks are better than one! lol

I don’t know how long we were wanking for but it was probably an hour. We took breaks to wank our own and then got back into wanking each other, just going back and forth like that until I was getting close to finishing.

I started cumming up my stomach and he was watching me and started cumming a few seconds in. We watched each other making a mess. I was surprised how much we both cum. I know now that I can cum a lot more when I’ve been wanking with a mate and frotting but it was a surprise then.

So that was the first time I touched another guy’s cock and it wouldn’t be the last. The next day we had another wank. He started coming over to hang out at the weekends and it would always involve a few wanks on the couch.

It hasn’t been easy finding other guys just to wank with since. After that had a couple of experiences with men in toilets and the gym showers, mostly just watching and showing off. One guy sucked me once but I wasn’t into it. I spent a few years not doing anything but I’ve got back into it in the last year. I met up with one guy on Grindr and had a good time frotting with him. A lot of other guys on it want more than that and when I say I’m just into cock play and don’t want oral or anything else they just don’t get it.

I’m married now and my wife knows about it all, she just thinks it’s funny. She’s not a prude about things and I think she likes the idea of guys wanking together. I don’t think she’s necessarily happy about it but she’s said that she would prefer me sharing wanks with a good friend rather than random cruising or hook ups. I can get that, I prefer it that way too.

I have a couple of mates now I think might be into it, guys I work with. I got my BuddyBate pin and some stickers in December but I haven’t really used them yet. I’m hoping one of my mates might know what it is and suggest some porn watching.

So that’s my story. Thanks for the site. I’ve been reading all the experiences and stories with interest. Really enjoying the stories at Patreon too (The BuddyBate Patreon has now closed, please click here for the BuddyBate Book Club). I’m glad I’ve had my experiences but I admit I’m a bit jealous of some of the other guys here! 🙂

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