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Submitted by ShowOff in London

When I was in college I used to go swimming a lot and being in the showers was such a turn on for me I would always get hard. I was always like that though. Whenever I had to take a shower with mates I was always the one getting a hardon. Friends used to take the piss for it and but I didn’t care. Sometimes I would even wank right in front of them and call them pussies for being so pathetic about it.

The thing that I think really got me into being an exhibitionist was that while they would take the piss I could see them all getting hard too. It used to make me laugh that they were such bitches about it to me but there they were with a semi. It’s like they had a disconnect between their cock and their brain lol

I never really thought much about wanking with other lads back then it was just a thing that I didn’t understand, I never worked out why so many guys are so shy about something we’ve all got.

It wasn’t until a few years after when I was in college that it finally clicked that I’m an exhibitionist. I would find any opportunity I could to go to the toilets at the busiest times and show my hard cock at the urinals, or sign up for teams and play sports just to be in the showers and locker rooms and show off my dick.

Even though I’m in a relationship with a great girl it’s not women I like showing off to, just men. The perfect scenario for me is a shower or toilets, where guys have to get their dicks out and I can see their response to seeing mine. In my experience most men start getting hard whenever they see another stiff one so when I get the opportunity to show mine off I’ll do it and watch the reaction.

When I was swimming I would just walk around the changing rooms with my dick out and hard and after a couple of minutes I would see other men trying to hide their stiff ones. When I joined the gym I picked one of the only ones I could find with a proper open shower or a sauna and I would show off my hard cock and watch the other lads starting to get hard too.

A lot of the time men try and hide the fact that they’re hard and not many will make any eye-contact at all, but they’ll keep looking at my dick anyway. It’s like my cock has magical powers and they can’t help but look at it lol

It seems to depend on the situation and the scenario.

If I’m in the showers at the gym and there’s only one other guy in there they’ll almost always get hard and show me their cock while we both wank and watch each other. It doesn’t always finish with a cum load because a lot of the time another guy will walk in and it’s like they’re popping a giant bubble of secrecy. I also need to be careful about that because you can easily get thrown out and banned for showing off or “inviting lewd behaviour”.

Other times I get lucky with another cock in the toilets. If I step up to a urinal and there’s one other guy next to me the second they see my hard dick they start getting hard and stick around to enjoy the show while I wank it a bit. Sometimes they’re more comfortable about doing that even if another guy comes in. When that happens it usually becomes a threesome wank, just all three of us looking down at each other’s cocks and wanking.

Anonymity plays a big part too in my opinion. Guys are more likely to enjoy a show and wank off watching if they don’t think they’re likely to bump into you again. At the gym there’s a good chance I’ll see all those guys the next week, but at in a pub toilets or the train station there’s another level of distance that seems to allow them to be more curious.

I’ve thought about other ways to enjoy my secret hobby but even in London the options are limited. I thought about sex clubs and gay saunas but I think that’s inviting a little more than just showing off. I wouldn’t turn down wanking off other guys and sharing a good bate and frotting session but that’s it for me, I think if I went flashing at a gay venue guys would probably get the wrong idea.

I’ve wanked with a lot of complete strangers over the years but never with a proper bate mate and I hope I can change that soon. It would be great to have a friend or two I could really relax with and show off openly, enjoying our cocks and cumming together.

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So that’s me, just a guy who loves showing off and seeing other cocks getting hard because of it. Thanks for the site, great stories here and some of the experiences are very similar to mine. Love reading about it all.


Hi ShowOff!

Thanks for your submission. I think a lot of guys are like you and enjoy being on display for other guys. It’s certainly not new to experience random masturbation encounters in the environments you mention! I’ve had more than a few experiences like that myself.

Can I recommend that you consider buying a BuddyBate Button? Although we only made them available last week we’ve seen impressive sales, especially in London. At the very least it will allow you to show off your interest in a subtle way and you never know who you might encounter in one of those toilets or at the gym.

Thanks again for your submission!

BuddyBate Brad

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Hairy Cock
5 years ago

I will never understand men who are embarrassed to be seen with an erection. I too am an exhibitionist and love others to see me fully hard. I’d much rather be seen with an erection than flaccid. If you got it flaunt it!

BuddyBateBrad
5 years ago
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I’m with you on that. I see guys at the gym all the time hiding their stiffies. I just let guys check it out and if they’re interested we can have a play. We’ve all got the same equipment so what’s the big deal?

AKTN
AKTN
5 years ago

I so agree with this , I’m all for showing erections so everyone can see them and enjoy them. We guys have had to keep our dicks in the dark way to long. I love seeing a guy’s magnificent erection.

Jared
Jared
5 years ago

I think I have a nice cock but I never really thought about showing it off to other guys much. I have had a few experiences years ago before I was interested in bating with other guys. In my first job in construction there was a dude who used to get his cock out all the time and show off. A few times I’ve seen other guys hard at the urinals but never took it anywhere. My gym has cubicle showers so you don’t get to see much but I have seen a few guys walking in or out of there with boners. If you showed me your cock now at the urinals I would be hard and jerking it with you in a second! 🙂

Surfdude29
5 years ago

Are you the same Showoff as the one who has a photo on this page:

https://buddybate.com/whats-new-on-the-buddybate-forum

If so, that’s an awesome cock you have there mate, I’d definitely get turned on seeing you showing off that beauty 😉

cool-pete54
5 years ago

Agree with Showoff that one guy getting a hard-on in communal gym showers can cause a chain reaction, if two is counted as a chain reaction! I often get a semi whilst taking a shower after soaping up. I don’t flaunt it but won’t try to hide it. Normally the after the gym my shower sessions are uneventful but in the last few weeks I’ve had 2 experiences of this happening. The first was walking into the showers thinking it was empty ,only to find this guy soaping up his semi hard cock. It was obvious to him that I had clocked this and so he carried on turning towards me. I pretended not to notice, but the giveaway was me getting hard too! He then moved to the shower next to me and we stroked each others erections which was short lived as another guy arrived, so we just faced the wall with our throbbing cocks. Towelled off afterwards still hard, dressed said see you, but of course we never did.
The second time, last week, I was alone in the showers when the water temp suddenly changed. I turned to see another guy adjusting his shower, I said ‘strange but that has affected my shower too’ he apologised and I turned back to carry on soaping. 30 seconds later I turned round as I was washing of soap to find him smiling at me with the biggest erect cock I have ever seen. I couldn’t pretend not to see it, and again my cock gave the game away as it sprang to attention! He came and shared my shower and after mutual fondling he turned bent over and parted his ass cheeks. Being a communal gym no way was I going to take up the invitation and it’s not my thing. Group shower masturbation yes…..One day

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