I’m an exhibitionist and love men looking at my hard cock

Submitted by ShowOff in London

When I was in college I used to go swimming a lot and being in the showers was such a turn on for me I would always get hard. I was always like that though. Whenever I had to take a shower with mates I was always the one getting a hardon. Friends used to take the piss for it and but I didn’t care. Sometimes I would even wank right in front of them and call them pussies for being so pathetic about it.

The thing that I think really got me into being an exhibitionist was that while they would take the piss I could see them all getting hard too. It used to make me laugh that they were such bitches about it to me but there they were with a semi. It’s like they had a disconnect between their cock and their brain lol

I never really thought much about wanking with other lads back then it was just a thing that I didn’t understand, I never worked out why so many guys are so shy about something we’ve all got.

It wasn’t until a few years after when I was in college that it finally clicked that I’m an exhibitionist. I would find any opportunity I could to go to the toilets at the busiest times and show my hard cock at the urinals, or sign up for teams and play sports just to be in the showers and locker rooms and show off my dick.

Even though I’m in a relationship with a great girl it’s not women I like showing off to, just men. The perfect scenario for me is a shower or toilets, where guys have to get their dicks out and I can see their response to seeing mine. In my experience most men start getting hard whenever they see another stiff one so when I get the opportunity to show mine off I’ll do it and watch the reaction.

When I was swimming I would just walk around the changing rooms with my dick out and hard and after a couple of minutes I would see other men trying to hide their stiff ones. When I joined the gym I picked one of the only ones I could find with a proper open shower or a sauna and I would show off my hard cock and watch the other lads starting to get hard too.

A lot of the time men try and hide the fact that they’re hard and not many will make any eye-contact at all, but they’ll keep looking at my dick anyway. It’s like my cock has magical powers and they can’t help but look at it lol

It seems to depend on the situation and the scenario.

If I’m in the showers at the gym and there’s only one other guy in there they’ll almost always get hard and show me their cock while we both wank and watch each other. It doesn’t always finish with a cum load because a lot of the time another guy will walk in and it’s like they’re popping a giant bubble of secrecy. I also need to be careful about that because you can easily get thrown out and banned for showing off or “inviting lewd behaviour”.

Other times I get lucky with another cock in the toilets. If I step up to a urinal and there’s one other guy next to me the second they see my hard dick they start getting hard and stick around to enjoy the show while I wank it a bit. Sometimes they’re more comfortable about doing that even if another guy comes in. When that happens it usually becomes a threesome wank, just all three of us looking down at each other’s cocks and wanking.

Anonymity plays a big part too in my opinion. Guys are more likely to enjoy a show and wank off watching if they don’t think they’re likely to bump into you again. At the gym there’s a good chance I’ll see all those guys the next week, but at in a pub toilets or the train station there’s another level of distance that seems to allow them to be more curious.

I’ve thought about other ways to enjoy my secret hobby but even in London the options are limited. I thought about sex clubs and gay saunas but I think that’s inviting a little more than just showing off. I wouldn’t turn down wanking off other guys and sharing a good bate and frotting session but that’s it for me, I think if I went flashing at a gay venue guys would probably get the wrong idea.

I’ve wanked with a lot of complete strangers over the years but never with a proper bate mate and I hope I can change that soon. It would be great to have a friend or two I could really relax with and show off openly, enjoying our cocks and cumming together.

So that’s me, just a guy who loves showing off and seeing other cocks getting hard because of it. Thanks for the site, great stories here and some of the experiences are very similar to mine. Love reading about it all.

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Hi ShowOff!

Thanks for your submission. I think a lot of guys are like you and enjoy being on display for other guys. It’s certainly not new to experience random masturbation encounters in the environments you mention! I’ve had more than a few experiences like that myself.

Can I recommend that you consider buying a BuddyBate Button? Although we only made them available last week we’ve seen impressive sales, especially in London. At the very least it will allow you to show off your interest in a subtle way and you never know who you might encounter in one of those toilets or at the gym.

Thanks again for your submission!

BuddyBate Brad