I’ve just got a fetish for cocks, wanking and cum shots
Submitted by Jerome
It took me years to work it out but I’ve decided that I’ve just got a fetish for cocks and cum shots and seeing other guys wanking.
I’m 35 now but I’ve always had a fascination with it. It started when I wanked with a mate for the first time and watched him cum. I started cumming at the same time and we had a laugh about how much I shot off.
We had a few good wanks back in those days but it just kind of faded out. My interest in cocks continued though. For a long time I was just checking out dicks in the showers at the gym or watching guys pissing at the urinals. I’m one of those guys who usually gets hard in those kinds of places and I’ve had a few experiences of other guys getting hard seeing my dick too. It never went beyond just looking and showing off though.
I started watching porn with guys wanking but never really thought about it much it was just one of those things that got me off.
When I found this site last year I started reading the posts and a lot of the guys seem to be like me. I love the stories and the experiences other guys have and I read one post where a guy says masturbation with other guys is a fetish for him and that’s the only thing he’s interested in with other men. That’s definitely me.
I don’t want to suck a cock or anything like that and I’ve never given any guy a hand job or let a guy wank my dick but that would be the limit. I think about finding a guy to try mutual wanking but never done it yet.
Keep the posts coming. They’ve opened my eyes to it. Thanks to all the other guys who post.
Hi Jerome.
I’ve said this on other posts like this one before but I’ll say it again… you’re not alone. In fact, I would suggest you’re in the majority and a lot of guys just never talk about it or admit it.
When you really think about it, almost all straight porn focuses a lot on the men, their cocks and cum shots. I’ve lost count of the number of otherwise heterosexual men who never seem to realize that they cum watching cocks cumming in porn.
That’s not a coincidence. It’s like there’s a wall up preventing most men from recognizing that they do this, that they focus so much of their attention on what the guy’s cock looks like, how he uses it, how much he shoots etc.
I realize there are excuses ready to go, that they’ll say they’re just “imagining being there” or they’re “focusing on how he’s using it”, but that just doesn’t wash with me considering men are renowned for being predominantly about visual stimulation.
Regardless of the analysis, I’m glad you’ve thought about it and explored your own sexual psychology in ways most men never do. I think you’re displaying a healthy attitude and curiosity of your own interests. I also think it’s great to have these conversations and talk about it, as long as it’s never telling anyone else what they are or how they should be on an individual level.
I’m glad you like the site, the stories an the experiences. I hope you’ll consider checking us out on Patreon where we’re currently enjoying Bateman’s Gully. 🙂
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I’ve always thought the same about straight porn. There’s always an awful lot of attractive well endowed dudes. It is not a coincidence. It just seems unacceptable for heterosexual males to recognise attractiveness in other males (yet it’s common place for heterosexual females to comment on other females – pages and pages in the women’s mags of women and comments from women about who wore a dress better)
I think the same. When you also realize that almost all men check out other cocks in the gym showers and at urinals, there’s definitely at least an element of curiosity or comparison there. I remember a few years ago an ex-professional footballer in the UK even admitted on a TV game-show that he checked out other players and knows who on the team is the thickest or longest etc. There was a cricketer on the same show who apparently had a nickname from his teammates because of the thick vein along the top of his cock. Both of these sportsmen are famous and apparently straight, but their “banter” about their teammates on that show was revealing. I think things are changing for the better and men are being more open about things, which can only be a good thing.
I’m one of those guys that didn’t admit it for years but I have a cock fetish too !
It makes a guy feel better about himself to admit his sexuality for all it is. As for sucking cock I think that’s a deeply personal gift for very special friends not something a guy does on a whim, but yeah I’d love to do that too if circumstances were conducive.
I think at least 60% of men feel just like we do here @BuddyBate but won’t admit it.
I think the percentage of guys who fantasize about or do play with other guys is probably about 90 percent . Stroking each others cock is hot as hell and Everything feels better when someone else does it for you!! I’m not much into giving head, but really like safe sex anal penetration( receiving).
As a straight married male, and watching solo males stroking themselves, my lady friend and I really enjoyed watching guys stroking themselves and we were both surprised that I was getting turned on and very hard watching males stroking themselves. So we talked about it and I decided that I would love to try stroking myself with another male. We both find fully cut cocks the most erotic. Especially watching the different ways that guys stroke themselves.
So I have decided to explore stroking myself with another male. I think the experience would be awesome. So, I guess that I do have a fetish for watching solo males stroking themselves and want to explore those feelings of feeling another male cock jumping and pulsating in my hands, knowing that I have complete control of when he explodes.
I think most males will not admit their curiosity, but from my posting my feelings and looking for a mutual pleasure buddy, I have found there are many like minded males out there in my age group looking to explore watching each other stroking ourselves and exploring stroking each other’s cocks.
I can’t wait for my 1st experience!
I would for sure tell you that you are for sure not alone when it comes to enjoying watching guys stroking themselves. My experience with enjoying watching guys stroking themselves, started about 10 years ago, when my lady friend and I used to watch videos of guys stroking themselves and guys giving guys a helping hand Happy Ending. We both found out that I was really getting turned on, and hard from watching these types of videos. I told her that I would love to have a guy stroking me off, to see what it felt like! she encouraged me to explore and I finally did. It felt amazing and to this day, I have enjoyed the experience of an experienced male giving me a HJ. My lady friend wanted to know how it felt and my 1st experience. She really got turned on by my telling her how it felt.
Like you, I have never wanted to suck off another male cock! But, I have explored many times, a male HJ. Every time that I told her about an experience that I had, she would get very excited and she would have me tell her in
detail about the experience. And she would have me watching her playing with hersel
Paul
while I do go farther (trading blow jobs) than just mutual hand jobs, I still love mutual hand jobs. there is something very magical about a mutual hand job that no other sex can replicate especially if you edge each other.