Just Relaxed Jacking With Buddies

Submitted by Ben

I’m so glad I found BuddyBate! It’s awesome reading all the experiences other guys are having.

I’m straight and married, 43, I love jacking off and watching porn. I started jacking off with a buddy when I was 22 and living with a friend. He was very open about things and was never shy about nudity and I guess I just became the same way. We had a lot of great times watching porn and jacking off. We could spend a whole evening just enjoying our favorite porn stars and stroking our cocks. We always finished together and it was amazing to share that proud and horny release.

When I moved out I thought that would be the end. We did have a few more jacking sessions when I visited but things slowed down a lot when we both met our future wives.

A few years passed by, we both moved on with things but we still found time to bate together now and again. We go camping in the warmer months. It’s always a good opportunity to rekindle that comfortable nudity and onanistic pleasure between us. It’s even more appreciated because we were both married and things have changed so much.

I thought this would be the only friendship I had like that but then I started jacking with my neighbor. He is very similar to my other friend and was very relaxed about things. He’s a few years older. We were hanging out and shooting the shit one night and got to talking about jacking off and I mentioned watching porn with a roommate. He told me about jacking it with a buddy in the past. We just started talking about how cool that kind of friendship was and before we knew it we were watching porn and stroking our cocks.

Sometimes I think about introducing them and seeing if we can make it a little club of bators but a part of me just wants to keep both separate and enjoy the friendships on their own. I know they would get along and it would be fun to all hang out and bate together but maybe I just don’t want things to change.

It’s all about the friendship for me. It’s hard to explain it exactly but there is something special about having male friendships where you can freely masturbate and enjoy this manly experience openly with each other. There’s no mutual jacking or frotting. I don’t think I would be into that even though I like reading about it and I sometimes wonder what it would feel like. Pretty sure neither of them would be into it either. It’s just about having that freedom and understanding between us. We all love masturbation and we all enjoy sharing porn, that’s all we need.

I look at other guys I work with and they have no friends. They might know a guy or two they go drinking with once a year but that’s it. I feel bad for them because they don’t have anyone outside of their work and home life. They don’t have lives of their own.

I’m definitely very lucky to have two close friends where we’re free to enjoy our best hobby together without shame. I wish it for other men.

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