Knowing guys are looking at my cock gets me so horny

Submitted by GG

I just read one of your posts about guys wanking together at the urinals and I thought I would send some of my experiences.

I’m a married man, 38, American living in London since 2011. One of the first things that became apparent to me when I arrived was that it’s so easy to check out other guy’s dicks everywhere. In the US we’re used to dividers between urinals and almost every gym has cubicles for showers, but in the UK it’s far more relaxed.

I never really thought about cock much when I was younger but when I came to London that changed. The first time I really knew I was an exhibitionist was when I started at a gym here and discovered the showers were just one big open room. The first time I used them I was a bit nervous about it but then I got hard and another guy got hard and showed me his cock.

I guess it was a week later when I went to the pub with some friends and a guy in the men’s room was looking at my dick and I got hard again, then he showed me his dick.

Bisexuality wasn’t even on my radar back then but it makes sense. I always liked watching porn with good-looking guys and MMF threesomes have always been one of my favorite things to jack off to. I think it’s one of those things a lot of guys don’t even think about. I never thought about what it would be like to touch another dick until I came here.

After a few experiences like that I really started getting into showing off. Whenever I would go out with my girlfriend (now wife) I would get hard thinking about going to the men’s room. Just the thought of other guys seeing and admiring my hard cock made me so horny. It was amazing to me how many guys are willing to show other guys their dick when they see a hard one. The thrill of another guy seeing my boner was all I needed and I could start shooting off a load.

It was in the summer of 2013 that things really changed for me. I was traveling with a couple of friends and my girlfriend and we were staying at a country hotel and I got lost. I’d had a few drinks and wandered off and ended up on the wrong floor. I walked past a rest room and went to take a leak and there was a guy standing at the urinals. As usual I was real horny and got my hard cock out. We checked each other out and he showed me his hard cock, I showed him mine and then he stepped forward and grabbed my cock.

Up until then all my experiences had been at a distance, just guys showing each other their dick, giving it some strokes. I don’t think I’d really seen another guy cum up until then either.

He gave my cock a few strokes and I reached out and grabbed his and it was amazing. I played with his foreskin and his balls, wanked him and then we watched each other cumming into the urinal.

That was like an awakening for me. Ever since then I’ve been wanking with other guys every chance I get. I don’t go looking for it necessarily, I don’t use apps or dating sites to fund guys into it, I just show off my hard dick whenever I can and I probably get a friendly jerk off once every couple of months. It’s more common for guys to watch me jacking off and seeing me cum than getting involved and swapping dicks but I love it anyway, just seeing another guy so turned on looking at my dick and seeing me cumming is enough.

I joined a few teams over the years mostly just for the shower experience. I like staying fit and in shape but it’s definitely more about being able to share the showers with other guys. I have a reputation for always being hard and I never hide it in front of my teammates. They kinda get it and it’s not talked about much, mostly because some of them get hard when they see my boner too and no one really wants to talk about it lol

I’ve thought about circle jerks and wank parties and I know there are a couple of club nights I could go to, maybe I will eventually but I actually like the adventure and the “hunt”, the unexpected encounters that come from me showing guys my cock is a bit part of the thrill for me.

I did get some BuddyBate buttons last week and I have one on my jacket and another on my gym bag, so maybe that will lead to some unexpected stroking with random guys.

Happy wanking lads!

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Thanks for your submission GG!

It’s great to see experiences like this from BuddyBate readers, I like the evolution from showing off to jerking with guys. I know we’ve had some other posts from Americans before about the whole urinal thing and how it’s so different in the UK and Europe and it’s fascinating to me how reserved so many Americans are when it comes to seeing cock. Being a Brit it’s a little bit strange for me to imagine a culture where guys are so shy about things.

I also think your description of enjoying MMF porn and never really thinking about an interest in cock is fairly common too. I’ve had this discussion with men before, guys who never really thought about what they like to watch, then when you point out how much attention is paid to the dicks in porn it makes them start to question what they’re really interested in.

I’m glad you’ve got some BuddyBate buttons too, we’ve actually sent a lot of them to London already so there are plenty of guys out there walking around with them on show. Let me know if you find anyone wearing a button and what happens! We’ve had one experience from a guy who met another bator thanks to them and it’s been great to hear success stories like that.

Happy wanking! 🙂

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