Looking for bators near you, starting a club, the temp tattoos, and more questions answered…
was looking to know if there were any wanking clubs in the newry area of northern ireland – Mark
Hi Mark. There are wank clubs all around the world and there’s probably at least a couple near you, although most of the time they’re not official and they don’t advertise. A majority of such clubs happen by accident, like-minded lads getting together and watching porn and just falling into sharing their bate. According to our estimates and judging by the population of Newry, there’s likely to be just over a thousand men interested in shared masturbation, the problem is finding them. While we don’t know about any groups, you could start your own and see what the interest is like. All it takes is a contact point, like a social media account where other guys can message you. Post now and then with the right hashtags for your area, search on tube sites for members in Newry and the surrounding areas, leave messages on forums. I just did a search on the latter and there are four other guys in Newry so you could get in touch with any of them and see if they’re interested in starting a group. Good luck with it, let us know how you get on!
I don’t understand how these (personal posts) work. Unable to find their info or send messages. Thanks for your attention. – Romu1us3LV
Hi. The personal posts are just a way for readers to put themselves out there to find others in their area. It’s not a dating site, but we thought it was a cool addition to the site to let guys add a link to a social media site or come back to check the replies to their posts. We don’t allow guys to leave an email (or other direct communication methods such as address or phone number) because we can’t confirm their ownership and people could use it to maliciously spam others. We do allow links to profiles on sites like Twitter, Tumblr or Reddit etc. Most users leave their KIK handle or another way for readers to get in touch, but those who don’t leave any link to any account presumably come back to check the replies to their post, replies while might include a link to a social media page. I hope that helps.
I’m 35, 5’8″, 165, white guy. 7c/thick cock. I would love to find someone in Southern Illinois that’s into bating with a buddy! Hit me up if that’s you! – JD
Hi JD. Usually we would post something like this in the Personals section, but Southern Illinois is a large area and we’re not sure where you might be located. So, we’re putting this here in case someone in the area sees it. I would recommend checking the comments in the coming weeks or months to see if anyone locally had responded. If you’d like to be a little more specific about your location (just town or city is good) you could add a personal post.
Any clubs around the Dallas area maybe east of Dallas? – Austin
Hi Austin. Texas is one of the busiest states for bators, it seems there are hundreds of thousands of men from all walks of life in the state looking to share their strokes with each other. There are definitely bate clubs and groups in Dallas, and although we don’t have any listed in the Wank Clubs page yet we hope there will be eventually. Perhaps you could start your own? We’d be happy to help out and add it to the list, share it with our readers and encourage local guys to get in touch. If you need advice about starting a club you can read this post.
So here in California there aren’t any around my age of 29 that know of Buddy Bate and I have flashed my pin but no results. Is there something I’m doing wrong? Or am I in the wrong geographic area? – Noah
Hi Noah. I guess it depends where you are in California. We’ve sent a lot of buttons, stickers and pins to guys all over California but there is definitely a larger opportunity in the bigger cities. For some cities it’s far easier, we’ve heard from numerous guys who’ve seen the stickers and buttons etc and had experiences with other members of the community because of it, but for those in locations where there are fewer items sent it’s going to take longer. We recommend promoting the project to other guys in your area online. There are numerous ways you could find guys in your town/city and mention the project too them, and perhaps just meet up for some fun too. Most tube sites now have a community option which you can search by location, so befriending guys that way will help increase the numbers. It might seem cynical and a marketing ploy (believe me, we’re not getting rich off this project lol) but spreading the word about the pins and stickers etc helps us and helps you. If everyone who bought a pin, buttons or stickers just spent a couple of hours a week finding other guys online local to them and directing them to the site the numbers in your area would probably jump up within a couple of months and you’d likely run into someone with a pin within a week. It takes participation, and that will ultimately help you and us with this project. Just remember to keep it all legal and be careful where you’re sharing links to our site, only adults using adult sites should be directed to this website.
I read something about BuddyBate tattoos. What’s that about? – Gary
Hi Gary. The BuddyBate Temporary Tattoos were a suggestion from a couple of readers who thought it would be a good way to show off their interest when they’re at the gym, the beach or going to the spa. They’re the same design as the lapel pins, buttons and stickers. When we started adding Meet-Up locations (saunas and spas for adult men) all around the world we realized that a lot of guys might go to such places to arrange spontaneous meets and having the tattoos would be a good way for them to recognize each other. For instance, a London bator could suggest a “bate mob” at Chariots and send a message out to a KIK group or something, then all converge on the venue at a given date and time, and they’ll all know each other because they all have one of our temp tattoo logos on their chest or arm. A lot of guys who are straight or curious and only interested in jacking off with other guys might be nervous about going to a “gay sauna” on their own, but if there’s an event taking place where they know that it’s going to be limited to jacking off they might be more inclined to try it, knowing there will be other guys with that tattoo all into the same thing. It’s just something we thought might be fun, and they’re a little easier to see on a naked guy in the gym showers etc. You can find more information about them here.
Thanks for your questions guys. We were planning to do this weekly but sometimes you guys just don’t have a lot of questions and we thought it would be easier to save them up for a proper post. As always, if you have a question you can leave a comment or send it via that Contact page. It can be about the site, about the community, about sexuality in general or anything else related to male masturbation. Thanks for reading!
Any guys in the Riverton Wyoming area that’s interested in getting together, let me know.