Making wanking interesting again
Submitted by Liam
I was expecting more on the blog about making wanking more interesting and finding new ways to make it hotter but most of the time it’s fiction and experiences from guys who wank each other off. Are there any ways you can think of to make wanking more fun or new? I wank almost every day, at least once, and while I’m looking forward to my first experience of wanking another lad’s dick in the future I could really use some new things to try solo.
Hi Liam,
You’re right, we have been a bit “mutual” heavy in the last few months, but that’s really by demand. It’s what gets readers clicking and submitting their own experiences a lot of the time but we do occasionally get experiences from readers about wanking outside or being in threesomes etc.
We do need to focus more on articles about making jerking off more interesting, with new ways to do things. The thing is, once you’ve talked about edging or toys there’s only so many times you can write about it again before you’re just repeating yourself 🙂
Having said that, we’re going to be writing a few more posts about masturbators and lubricants from our friends at BlokeToys in the next few weeks, so perhaps there’s going to be something there for you to check out and interest you.
If any of our readers want to suggest something to try out I’m sure they’ll leave a comment below. Of course, any reader can offer their own opinions and methods through our CONTACT page also!
I would definitely recommend getting yourself a male masturbator if you want to try something new and make masturbation more interesting. Wanking outdoors is also very liberating and exciting. It’s great if you drop your trousers so you can feel the fresh air on your cock, balls and arse and the breeze blowing through your pubic hair.
Probably the best thing I did to improve my silo experiences was to buy a masturbator. I ‘window shopped’ for while and found a huge variety from cheap sleeves for a few pounds to vibrators; ‘eggs’ to amazing electronic toys. I finally decided on buying a genuine Flashlight with a suction pad holder. It wasn’t cheap but the expense was worth it. The first lesson was to buy a good quality lube – water based, really slick to give a good slippery stroke. You soon learn how much to use. Don’t pour it into the Flashlight because it just runs down and gathers in the end; use it on your cock and round the lips of the masturbator and you’ll so find cock gripped by the ribbed interior and teased by the small nipples inside. Then just stroke as you feel like it; slow or fast, long or short, almost out of the lips then one powerful thrust as deep as you can. The choice is yours. You can also adjust the suction by turning the cap to allow the air to escape. I Like twisting the Flashlight round my dick; this plays havoc with my glans.
I enjoy edging with my Flashlight, taking myself almost to the point of no return then pulling the masturbator off and relaxing. When I feel ready I add a little more lube and push into the lips again and begin to stroke. Repeat this as often as possible. When your dick tells you its time to cum then just continue till you’re on the verge and pull out of the Flashlight and let you throbbing shaft shoot your load all I’ve the place. You’ll enjoy edging with a Flashlight as I do.
I have in the past worn a latex glove, it gives interesting sensations. Also try a bath. Men dont take baths and there is something to be said for spending time with yourself in a relaxing bath.
I found it very exciting to pinch and roll the frenulum below the head of my penis. The goal is to mastubating to orgasm without stroking your penis. It takes time but it’s a hell of an orgasm.
I have found that using a male stroking toy, like a fleshlight sleeve or a Tenga sleeve,along with several other different types of sleeves that you can find on the internet or your favorite sex toy shop, to be a great help with trying different stroking techniques. Also watching different stroking videos of guys stroking themselves or guys giving guys helping hand happy endings to be a big help when I want to try different stroking techniques! There are some amazing stroking skills out there. And I have learned so much about self pleasure from watching different stroking videos. Also, if you have a stroking buddy that you can FaceTime with or cam with, is an awesome experience, even though you are not personally in front of each other, the experience of watching each other stroking yourself is quite erotic. Try learning about frottage, edging and teasing yourself.
And my favorite is stroking myself in panties. The feeling of the lace rubbing against my growing cock head is awesome!
Paul