Showing my mate I could suck my own cock has led to me wanting to suck his
Submitted by Orlando in London
When I was 19 I discovered I could almost reach my own cock. One of my mates was taking the piss out of another mate saying he probably didn’t need a girlfriend because his dick was so long he could suck it himself. I’d never heard about that before but I went home and tried it and I could almost reach my dick with my tongue.
I got online and started looking around to see if other guys could really do it and I found load of videos of guys who could properly suck their own cock. Then I found a post about a guy who did yoga to suck himself and I started trying it.
It took about a week but eventually I could lick my own cock and I was so excited I squirted cum all over my face. That was the first time I ever did that and the first time I ever tasted cum. I’d been sucked by girls before but it felt even better doing it myself.
After about a month I could get my cock tip and my foreskin in my mouth and I was regularly sucking myself off. Another month passed and I could get about half of my shaft in my mouth. By this time I was regularly cumming in my mouth and started swallowing it.
I worked out the best positions to do it. If I bend over to suck it I can get about two inches in my mouth, but if I do the “X” position (on my back with my legs behind my head) I can suck about four or five inches.
I got a girlfriend and she really liked watching me do it too. Sometimes we could get into the right position where I could bend over and lick my cock and her pussy at the same time.
After we broke up she told one of my mates about me sucking myself. I think she was trying to claim I was gay or something and cause problems but my mate was well into it and wanted to see me doing it, he didn’t believe I could. He knew I was big but he didn’t actually think I could reach it and he really wanted proof. For a while I said no because I thought it would be too weird to have a mate watching me but eventually I said I’d show him.
He kept coming over after that and I knew he was waiting to see me do it so one night I just said I’d put some porn on and get hard and he could see me doing it just once. I told him I thought it was weird having a mate watching me do it so he said he’d get his cock out and get hard too so we were kind of “equal”. Now I know he was into wanking with lads but then I didn’t know what the fuck was going on and I just wanted to prove to him that I could do it and shut him up.
We watched porn for a few minutes with our hands down our jeans and then I got my cock out. He got his cock out and we compared dicks and openly stroked ourselves. I’d seen his dick before too of course but we’d never seen each other hard and wanking.
Then I leaned over and started sucking on my dick. He was amazed! lol
He couldn’t believe I could do it and started asking all kinds of questions about it. He wanted to know whether it was better than a girl doing it, if I could taste my pre, whether I ever cum in my mouth… I told him everything. By that time we were both just so fucking horny wanking off I didn’t care too much about telling him.
I did it for about ten minutes while he was watching me and then he asked if I was gonna cum in my mouth and he was almost ready to start cumming. I think he really wanted to see me do it so I did. To be honest I was too horny to stop and I just grunted and started cumming. I cum quite a lot and I never swallow it all without some squirting out of the sides of my mouth and he watched it and started cumming into his hand. My cock was convulsing and pumping my load out into my mouth and I was trying to swallow it all and he was right next to me watching, almost close up, while his cock was cumming.
He was laughing and trying to make it seem less horny than it was but we both knew we were into it.
That was the day I worked out I was into wanking off with mates.
We did a lot of wanking together after that and he watched me sucking my cock plenty of times. We started wanking each other off and rubbing dicks. I tried to teach him some moves to see if he could suck his dick too but he doesn’t have the flexibility or the length I do.
We’ve been wanking together for a couple of years and I think I might be ready to try sucking his cock. I don’t know if he would be interested in that but I think he’s curious about it. He’s asked me a few times if I think it’s gay to suck my own dick, we had long conversations about it and we kind of agree that if a guy can suck his own cock then is it really any different to 69 with a guy? I don’t think sucking your own cock is any more “gay” than wanking your own cock.
It’s actually a really interesting philosophical debate about male sexuality and when you get into it you start thinking differently about sexuality in general and how much of how we define ourselves is decided by social convention rather than what we all like or enjoy.
I’m pretty sure he would be interested in us both sucking each other that way.
We’re meeting up for a drink on Friday and we usually have a wank if he doesn’t have to get home to his girlfriend so I might just suggest that we can try sucking each other and see what it’s like. I don’t think it would be too different to me sucking myself and as long as he can suck my dick right it should be good. We won’t be cumming in each other’s mouths but some oral with a friend isn’t a bad thing, is it?
I’m interested to know if there are any other self suckers like me here reading this blog. Let me know in the comments of you can do it and if you’ve sucked dicks with other guys too! I would love to read the perspectives of other guys who might be further along in this than I am.
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I only sucked one cock and it was my best mate. It was good. Better than I thought it would be. We made a deal to suck each other and did it for about 5 mins and both shot off pretty big loads. Wish I could suck my own though!
When I was in my twenties I used to be flexible enough to suck my own dick and spent hours doing it, when I first knew I could do it I was so excited I phoned my best mate and blurted out that I’d just sucked myself.
Just like in this story, he didn’t really believe me so I said “come round and I’ll prove it !”
…and that is exactly what happened, he came around and sat in disbelief as I got into position and started sucking myself.
He was amazed and asked if I would cum so that he could se the whole thing.
I remember how he walked around me, looking at me from every direction, the horniest was when he was above me looking down at me, I remember thinking that not only could he see me sucking myself but he could also see my butt hole…..that made me even hornier ! I wish I could have experienced that view of myself.
Sadly it never happened again but I did get into exhibitionism and wanking in front of other guys from that experience.
We are both a lot older now and lost contact a good few years ago. I remember that afternoon in great detail and I wonder if he remembers it too, I really hope so !
It is a common mistake to equate masturbation (autosexual behaviour) with ‘being gay’ (homosexual behaviour) I can assure you masturbation is equally important in most heterosexual relationships. In a civilized world, surely any way a man gets his orgasm is the most normal thing since humans evolved. Because many previous ages sought to repress sexual expression we have this situation now where masturbation is not discussed, for instance, in sex lessons at school, which tend to be entirely on the subject of heterosexual baby-making and how to avoid it. So when a boy discovers ‘wanking’ – and we all do eventually – they then feel the need to say “I am gay.”
Way to go dude.
Very cool that the two of you could have logical conversations with your buddy and be real about it.
I used to watch my 1/2 brother suck his own cock B4
He had a a hard on of over a foot, no shit.
Wish I were close enough to you because I would offer to watch you also. And yes we tried sucking each other once. Hope to hear more from you. Thanks
I can’t suck myself but I’ve always wanted to witness someone sucking their cock. I love for them to suck and I lick his shaft… in essence he’d be getting a double BJ 😉
And no sucking your own cock isn’t gay but sucking someone else cock is, but so much fun and being in a 69 is even more fun.
Vincent,,
I have to disagree w your interpretation of sucking a mates cock makes you gay.
There is much more involved to realizing that you are gay.
1st and most important is having emotional feelings of love to another man, the choice of being totally femanine or masculine role.
Kissing, intercourse, and atire dessision, is part of it.
The choice of knowing you only want to be w a man and not a woman.
Alot of straight men only try it to satisfy questions the have, major one is if a guy can suck better than a girl, how do you feel after trying it, and most important is you don’t want to be rude if you get a man to suck you off to answer those questions, you would run the chance of your partner telling you to fuck off & do it yourself if you are not willing to reciprocate.
Another way to think about the gay vs. straight debate is identification vs. inclination (ie: how someone identifies and lives their life, versus their natural inclinations).
Inclination is easy to understand using the Kinsey Scale – figuring that everyone is on the scale as a 0-6 with 0 being exclusively heterosexual, and 6 being exclusively homosexual. In my experience, when you take societal constructs out, most people tend to fall between a 2 and a 4 (3 would be bi-sexual).
That’s where I think sexuality gets confused. You can’t control your inclination, but you can control your identification. Someone can identify as a straight male but also be inclined toward men. That’s their choice and nobody should tell them that’s wrong.
You are born with your inclination, but you chose your identification. This is also why “gay conversion therapy” doesn’t work. You can’t change someone’s inclination, only their actions.
A healthier approach is instead of asking if someone is gay for blowing a buddy, just say “he’s a straight identifying man, who happens to be a 2 on the Kinsey scale”.
I know plenty of men who are now married to women who have blown their buddies – that doesn’t make them gay. Sexuality isn’t defined in an action, it’s defined in a lifestyle, and that lifestyle is their choosing. In my experience, the happiest people match their identification to their inclination (ie: they live their life based on who they are). So explore your inclinations, and let identification part solve itself later.