Might be wanking with a mate from work soon

Submitted by DailyWanker

I’ve been reading the blog for a few months and thought about sending in my experience but it’s the same as a lot of other guys. I wanked with one mate a few years ago but I started thinking about it more and I’ve come to the conclusion it would be pretty good to have a buddy I can watch porn with regularly. That first and only time was just me and a friend going to his place after the pub and watching porn. You know how it goes. It was just a couple of guys feeling horny and watching a video. Didn’t take long for us to get our cocks out and start wanking.

We didn’t do anything else, just watched porn and wanked. We watched each other cum, cleaned up and I crashed out on his couch. It was really easy and just one of those things. I didn’t think about it much after but I suppose I would have enjoyed it if we’d carried on with it.

I’m definitely straight (married) and the most I would do with another guy is maybe wank each other and frot but right now I’m just thinking about having that buddy I can chill out with and enjoy a good wank without shame. I think it would be like an ideal friendship to be able to share that with another guy. I really didn’t think wanking with a mate from work would even be a possibility but it looks like it might be happening.

Obviously the last year has been crazy for everyone but I started thinking about finding a buddy to bate with when it’s safe to do so and I think I might have found one accidentally.

Our company has been mostly working from home for a year and it’s been okay. It’s not a big team and we’ve managed to keep things going by Zoom.

I started getting to know one of my colleagues when we were put in charge of a social project for when the team is properly back together. Our company has always been big into the team building and that kind of thing so they want to have an event when things are normal again. Safe to say we’ve had more time to plan that than we expected!

My colleague is almost ten years younger than me but we both like a lot of the same bands, support Manchester United and enjoy gaming on our nights off. We never really got around to seeing bands or anything but we game online about once a week. I started to check in on him more when his flatmate moved out last year and we just fell into the discussion about our wanking habits.

I don’t really know how we got onto the subject but we started talking about how much we’re wanking now that we’re working from home. We’d talked about staying in shape and then we just kind of slipped into talking about our sex lives and what he’s been missing. He’s in his early 30s and single and he’s a good looking guy who was probably getting laid every weekend but he’s been celibate for almost a year so there’s a lot of wanking going on.

He was surprised that I wank as much as I do (daily) seeing as I’m married. My wife is very sexual but our drives have definitely drifted apart in recent years. She’s down to have sex once a week but I’m still horny every day so I fit in a lot of wanks. It’s not a big deal, I love wanking, she doesn’t have a problem with it. We’re just at different sexual levels and that’s normal.

Last summer he joked about buying a Fleshlight and billing it to the company as a work from home expense. The next week we were on a video call together just hanging out and he showed me the Fleshlight he actually bought and told me he’d used it five times already. I told him about some of the toys I used to have. Then I bought a Tenga cup and showed him the next week. I hadn’t had a toy to wank with for years but he reminded me of the fun I used to have with them so I indulged.

He’s been very open with me. We’ve talked about experiences and the craziest/weirdest/hottest things we’ve done with girlfriends etc. We even talked about cock size (I think we’re about the same). I never thought I might potentially end up wanking with a mate from work but it would be really cool if it worked out that way.

Things really moved on in November when he was laughing that he’d tried to log into the work system using his PornHub account name. He told me what it was so I went to look at his account and he’s got hundreds of videos favourited in playlists. He’s got a lot of ‘bromantic’ MMF videos in one playlist called ‘threesomes’. While most of them are two girls and a guy there are some where it’s two guys fucking a girl and there’s a lot of cock slapping jousting and that kind of thing. He’s into trans porn too which I think might mean that he’s more open to playing with dicks than a lot of other guys might be. That might not mean he would be into wanking with another guy but he’s obviously more open about this kind of stuff than most men I know.

I created an account and sent him a message and we’ve been recommending videos to each other and chatting on there sometimes. I’m thinking about starting a playlist of guys wanking together. He might not even see it but if he does at least he would know I’d be interested in taking our porn sharing and love of wanking into the real world when things are normal again.

Right now we’re still just chatting and sharing videos. It’s not all about wanking and sex we talk about a lot of other stuff too but it’s just good to have a buddy I can share this stuff with and it’s normal. I just hope that maybe when things are okay and we’re back at work we can take it to some proper wanks. I can’t imagine it would be hard to do we probably just need the opportunity to watch porn together and we’d be wanking off like I did with that one mate years ago.

I’ve got BuddyBate stickers and a lapel pin now ready for when we get back to work. It’s a long shot and I don’t think he even knows about BuddyBate but you never know. He might see my pin or the sticker on my laptop and know straight away.

Whatever happens and even if I don’t end up wanking with a mate from work I’m really looking forward to finding a bate buddy eventually.

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