My Bate Bro Nuts Too Quick

Submitted by Morgan7

I’ve been jacking it with my neighbor for a couple months but he always nuts too quick. I want to get us into mutual bating but whenever we’re hanging out and watching porn it only takes him about ten minutes and he’s spooging. I think he would be down to bate each other but we never jack it long enough to do anything else. He does chill out and watch me nut after he’s done but I want to try and make it last longer so we can properly get into some edging and maybe stroke each other.

We’re both in our 40s and married. Neither of us gets as much sex as we would like so watching porn and bating is a good release for us. He’s got a nice cock and he always shoots big ropes but it’s over too quick. As soon as his cock is out it’s rock solid and bulging hard. Sometimes he barely even touches his cock and his cum is shooting. I almost always shoot my load right after him but I want to really make it last.

Any advice?

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Hi Morgan7

Thanks for your submission.

I’ve met bators like this. A lot of guys treat jacking off like a necessity or a chore, like they just focus on the release rather than the pleasure of getting there. I think too many men are shower bators, they get grab their cock and wank it for 5 minutes and that’s it. The good thing is that when guys realize how much more pleasurable it is to make it last and savor the bate they usually become edgers and want to really explore their masturbation more.

He might not even realize that making it last is a goal. If you’re shooting right after he is then he might think this is the way you want it.

I would suggest maybe having a contest to see who can last the longest. Most guys like a challenge and if you’re willing to put the time in you could suggest making a game out of it, maybe challenge him and make a bet that he can’t last an hour.

You could also suggest going for a second round. After he’s shot his load tell him that you bet he can’t deliver another round. The second load will take more effort than the first and as long as you can hold back for long enough you should be able to share another good nut session together. That might be enough to show him how much more fun it is if you both take your time.

Alternatively, you could look for “informative” masturbation videos, like tutorials, and tell him you’re working on making your own bate more interesting. I know there are some videos out there with edging, massage play and tantric masturbation. Maybe if you show him what you’re working on he might be inclined to learn more about that and discover these things with you?

I’m sure that you just need to show him the benefits of taking it slow and enjoying a good long bate, once he’s discovered that relaxed state he’s probably going to be more into it, and then you can work on maybe edging each other.

Good luck and please come back and let us know how it goes! 🙂

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