My bisexual roommate gave me a hand job

Submitted by Steven87

My first time ever wanking with a mate was in ’99. I moved in with one of my mates we were both in our 20s and he’d just split up with his girlfriend and needed a roommate to help pay the bills.

He really got me off rubbing my helmet and playing with my balls. I even remember thinking that first time about grabbing his cock too and wanking him off but I didn’t do it then. I think if it had lasted longer I probably would have just done it to see what it felt like to wank another cock

I was there for a month when this happened and it was my first time doing anything like it.

We’d been mates for years and I knew he was bisexual but he never made a move on me or anyone I knew. We were relaxed with each other and being naked wasn’t an issue. We didn’t hang out naked but if someone was in the shower we left the door open, it was that kind of friendship.

Then one afternoon he caught me wanking. I was just in my room with my dick out having a wank and he opened the door. We used to use the sock system (on the door handle) if we had anyone over but other than that it wasn’t unusual to just walk in.

It wasn’t embarrassing we just laughed about it and he made a joke about my dick. He just hung around in the doorway watching the porn on my TV and then he got his cock out of his trackies and started wanking too.

It sounds weird now but that’s what our friendship has always been like we just never wanked together before that. I’ve read about other lads having that with their mates and it was the same with us we just never thought about it before then. He came in and sat on my bed and we just watched and talked about the porn and wanked.

Then he asked if I’d ever let a mate wank me off before and I said no and he told me he used to wank with one of his other mates. He asked if I wanted a hand and I said okay.

It was really chilled out and easy. I didn’t think about it being bad for our friendship or anything like that. He grabbed my cock and started wanking me off. One of the best things about it was how much he liked my dick. He wasn’t into sucking or anything else he just liked rubbing cocks and cumming with guys and I’ve got a big one compared to a lot of guys. He was telling me how thick my dick felt in his hand when he was wanking me and it got me really horny hearing it. My cock was dribbling pre the whole time lol

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I’d had a few hand jobs from girlfriends before but it was totally different having another guy wank me. He really got me off rubbing my helmet and playing with my balls. I even remember thinking that first time about grabbing his cock too and wanking him off but I didn’t do it then. I think if it had lasted longer I probably would have just done it to see what it felt like to wank another cock. He’s got a nice dick too. Mine is pretty thick and about eight inches but his is thinner and curved to the left, about seven inches.

I probably only lasted about ten minutes and then I was cumming and squirting it up my t-shirt. Almost got myself in the face with it 🙂

He cum into his hand at the same time and got jizz on my duvet. I can still remember what it was like seeing him cum. After that I was hard again in thirty minutes and I had another wank on my own just thinking about it.

We had a lot more wanks after that and his cock was the first one I ever wanked other than mine. We’re still friends now and we have a wank together a few times a year. I wish it was more often but he moved down south for a new job so we only get to meet up now and then when I travel down there for work or a social event.

It got me into wanking with other guys though so I have mates now I can rub one out with and there are some places where guys cruise for some wanking and sucking.

I’m married now but still into the bator scene. My wife knows about it and she’s okay with it. We don’t have a very active sex life so she says it’s a good release for me to have mates like that and she doesn’t think it’s a big deal for guys to wank together. I’ve asked her if she would ever share masturbation with a girl and she’s said she never has but if a friend wanted to she would probably try it just to see what it’s like.

I’m pretty lucky to have a wife like that. I wish she was more into sex than she is but she’s very open minded about masturbation and the friendships guys have so I think I struck it lucky with her 🙂

I’m really enjoying the BuddyBate button project too. I have some lapel pins and stickers now and I’m meeting up with a few bator friends this weekend so I’m giving them some of them too. We don’t have a formal “club” yet but I think we’ll probably start a porn night or something if we can find the right venue for it.

Let me know if you want to read my other experiences. Most of them might be similar/the same to other members here though.

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