My First Jack Off Party In Dallas

Submitted by RyanH

Buddy told me about this site last week and been reading all the posts since. Great seeing the jack off community still going strong!

I’m 57, straight and married. Been a bator since college. Buddy got me into it. Jacked with so many awesome dudes over the years and made so many cocks nut.

My first real jack off party was in 1999. I met a guy cruising for hand jobs in a Dallas restroom and after we made each other nut he told me about a group that was getting together every few weeks.

Never went to a party like that before. I couldn’t believe there were groups like that where it was just all about men enjoying their cocks in their hands. Until then my bator life was just cruising and sometimes going to a theater where guys could help a dude out with his dick. I didn’t like that so much because most of them wanted to suck and I wasn’t so into that.

The party was in an old office building on Ervay St in Dallas at 11pm on Sunday night. It was a quiet part of town. Not much happening. Not the kind of place you just went for a walk at that time but I was too boned up to care.

There was one business still open and a couple guys outside smoking but they didn’t seem to care what was going on. They must have noticed something was going down.

You couldn’t tell from outside what was going on in this run down building. I went around the side and there was a dude at the door checking everyone. Just told him the guys name who invited me and he let me in.

Walked down a corridor and got to a bigger room. At least 30 dudes in there just enjoying themselves.

There was no porn or anything. Cell phones weren’t as much of a thing back then and streaming porn definitely wasn’t. No one needed porn though. Everyone was just enjoying all the penises around them.

I got my cock out and dived right in. Met so many awesome dudes at that first party. I think I stroked every cock in the room.

Most of the guys seemed to know each other. I found a couple familiar dudes I’d jacked it with before. It was a smaller scene back then and I guess most bators just naturally found each other. I was welcomed into the gang and had loads of guys wanting to stroke me.

There were all kinds of guys there. It really was totally diverse. So many awesome cocks!

I walked around for about half hour just meeting guys and stroking dicks. It really was like jacking replaced handshakes lol

Eventually I got to talking to a real country looking dude who arrived after me. He had real nice dick, probably a 7 inch long shaft with a super fat mushroom cock head. He was so hard his meat bulged out with veins. His balls were so big and hanging out of his jeans. It was all in proportion to the rest of him. He wasn’t one pf those gym dudes but he looked like a hard working man. He was about 40 and real handsome. He told me he drove in from from Graham a couple hours out just to meet up with the guys and get a load off. His cock was so fucking amazing. He brought lube with him and let me make him super wet while we talked about his wife.

I remember smearing the lube all over his cock head and playing with the fat shape in my fingers. He was dripping pre the whole time and his cock and balls got real messy.

He really got off on talking. He grabbed my cock and stroked me slowly. I never met a verbal bator before him but he couldn’t stop talking about his wife and how much she loves cocks. We got real close to each other and he frotted our cocks together in his fist. He was almost growling in my ear and telling me how I should go home with him so his wife could suck both our dicks and we could give her our loads.

Then he started talking about how hard and hot my cock felt in his hand. He started asking me about girls I’d fucked. I was dating two girls at the time so I went into some graphic details about the fun times I’d had. He asked me if either of them would like his cock, and if we could both fuck them together and what that would be like.

Neither of those girls would have ever considered a threesome but I managed to invent the fantasy that one of them was real slutty and would love to rub our cocks together and make us shower her with splooge lol

He lived up to that promise to finish big. It only took a few minutes of us frotting and talking and he was pumping his thick load all over my cock and rubbing it into my dick while he jacked me off and made me nut. I really squirted! I think he almost wanted me to cum in his face because he kind of bent down while I was ejaculating like he was hoping I would get him. I narrowly missed his face with a couple of squirts. I think he was just real horny and curious but not quite ready to commit lol

I think we made a few other guys nut watching us finish.

We milked each other’s dicks for a couple minutes and got all the nut out of each other while we softened up. His cock turned into one of those real thick and swinging dongs I loved milking it and feeling its thickness in my hand. Then he just said “thanks dude!” put his cock in his jeans and walked out.

Met up with him again a couple times at other parties after that and it was always the same thing. He really loved talking about his wife and threesomes and that kind of thing.

I’m positive his wife was real innocent though. I imagined she was probably a pretty farmer’s wife baking pies and attending church. She probably had no clue her man was in Dallas talking about her and stroking other men’s cocks lol

I hung around the party for another half hour, stroked a few more cocks and got another load off with an Indian guy from Fort Wort, then it was time to go.

My list of numbers grew in the years after that. I got the chance to meet so many awesome men with great cocks. I went to a lot of the parties. Sometimes they were in guy’s homes, other times they were outside. Most of the time they were in old warehouses or offices. Someone in the club had contacts with commercial property company so there was usually a big party at least once a month.

I moved out of Dallas in 2003 and I really missed the scene there. I followed the Yahoo! group they set up and went back for two parties after that but then everything just kind of slowed down and the scene dissolved. There used to be smaller gatherings all over Dallas and Fort Worth but nothing like the big parties.

I carried on with my bator life. I met a few guys in Sacramento but there wren’t any parties I could find. Moved to Seattle and there was one party there. Then I met my future wife and we moved to Spokane. If there was ever a bator scene there I never found it. Just a couple of dudes here and there, usual cruisy restroom stuff.

There must be bator clubs in Dallas today. I guess most are just real quiet about it. Probably just small groups meeting up whenever they can.

I thought about going to some of the big parties like the one they have in Florida. There was one I thought about going to in Georgia a couple years back. Even thought about taking my wife on a trip to London and sneaking off to go to the club there.

I guess I should finish with a piece of advice. Enjoy it while you can boys. I don’t regret any of my bator experiences. I definitely don’t regret going to all those parties. I had so much fun playing with so many cocks, and being jacked off by so many experienced men. If you get the chance go to a party. If you can’t find one start one!

The BuddyBate stickers and pins should help. Wish we’d had stuff like that when I was in the scene back then. I would have been finding so many dudes to rub cocks with!

Keep those cocks splashing!

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