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My weekly cum edging sessions

Submitted by James in Northampton UK

I need to thank you. I found this website a year ago and just out of curiosity I started looking around and reading some of the other experiences. I’ve discovered a lot about myself that I probably wouldn’t have.

I’m 34, married, and I’m constantly horny. When I was in my early 20’s I was getting laid a lot and wanking all the time too. Had some experiences with other guys, mostly just threesomes, a couple of times I wanked with a mate watching porn but it was all solo and I never even thought about mutual wanking or anything like that.

When I got married my sex life changed a lot and I was looking for more outlets for my energy. I started playing football and joined a team. I joined a gym and started going three times a week. I even got into martial arts for a year before I broke an arm and had to take a few months off. I didn’t get back into it after that. I thought doing all this would be a good way to use up my excess energy and maybe I’d stop being horny all the time, but it didn’t really work out that way.

As a few guys here have pointed out, working out and being that active actually makes a lot of guys even hornier. That’s pretty much what I found out on my own. I was wanking a few times a day. I would wank in the shower in the morning, go to the gym and work out for an hour or two then have another wank in the showers. Then I’d get home or go to work and I’d be rubbing one out again in the middle of the afternoon…

Then I found this site and read about cum edging. I tried it a couple of times and it was great. Before that all my wanks had been over in ten minutes, maybe twenty max.

I remember the first time I properly managed to last and it took an hour. When I finally let myself cum I shot a giant load and hit myself in the face. It felt incredible. I don’t think I’d had a climax like that since I first discovered wanking.

I started reading more about cum edging and decided to abstain for a couple of days. It was really hard to do. At the time I was probably wanking four times a day and stopping myself from stroking it was one of the toughest things I ever did. But, I do like a challenge.

I managed a couple of days without wanking and found some time to myself to properly edge and I had an even more incredible climax. After an hour and a half of stroking I wasn’t even touching my cock when I started firing off a massive load.

Since then I’ve been enjoying fewer wanks but they’re more intense than ever. I’m down to about three times a week now with a long cum edging wank on Sundays. I treat it as my reward for holding back. It’s still not easy and I think I’m probably hard 70% of the time, but knowing it’s going to feel more incredible if I save it makes it worthwhile. I never had great willpower but that’s changed since I discovered edging.

I started using sleeves for wanking too. I’d never really been interested in that before but now I have a box of wanking toys in my man cave that the Mrs doesn’t know about.

My next step is to find someone to share my wanking with. I’m nervous about that and really I never thought I would ever be interested in getting my cock out with any other guy, but things have changed and if I had a mate who enjoyed stroking and watching porn I would be so down for that. After reading some of the mutual bating experiences here I really want to give that a try and at least see what it feels like to make another cock cum.

Thanks for the site, without you guys I might still be having rubbish wanks a few times a day instead of amazing cum edging sessions like I do now.

Thanks for the kind words James! I’m glad you found us and that we could be of assistance. That’s what this site is all about, sharing experiences and learning new things, enjoying our bating whether we’re flying solo or sharing it with a friend.

You’re certainly not alone in your endeavors to find a buddy. While we have a lot of readers who are already stroking with other guys and enjoying their mutual experiences, there are probably far more here who think about it and want to experience it, but haven’t had the opportunity, or are confused by their desire to enjoy some friendly wanking with another guy. You seem to have the right attitude about it and I have no doubt that if you keep looking around out there you’ll find the right opportunity to try it out.

Thanks again for writing, please keep us updated and let us know when you enjoy that first experience with a friend, it would be great to know how that goes and what you thought of it.


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3 thoughts on “My weekly cum edging sessions

  • May 12, 2018 at 6:27 pm

    Thanks James, enjoyed hearing about your new experiences. Let us know your updates. and especially when you find your wank buddy!

  • May 17, 2018 at 1:11 pm

    Great story man! Edging is the best way to wank! Good luck finding a wank buddy!

  • November 3, 2018 at 3:11 pm

    Thanks for the post James. Glad you discovered edging; it really is the best way of wanking. The stopping and enjoying being on the verge of cumming is amazing. Sometimes it happens that you have a ‘hands free’ ejaculation which is the ultimate. Enjoyed reading your experiences and now need to have a little edging myself.


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