New Bators group in Kansas City, Missouri?

Submitted by Joe

Looking to start a new wankers club in Kansas City, MO

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Hi Joe.

Thanks for getting in touch. There will of course be existing groups of bators in Kansas City, the estimated number of men interested in duo/group jack off sessions is 18k for the city alone, and there are always guys from surrounding areas attending bate parties in any town or city too.

Our number of 18k is 10% of the 18+ male population (estimated).

Even if we’ve been generous and over estimated, it’s fair to say that there will definitely be more than a couple of thousand guys in Kansas City who would love to meet other guys for jack off experiences.

The only problem is finding them. We’ve previously published advice on how to start your own bate club, you can find that here.

I recommend starting with an online hub of some kind. You could create a Tumblr account, a Yahoo group, a Twitter account or (we recommend) a explicitr.com account. This will allow you to direct guys you find in the area to a place where you can message people individually and where they can find you, and you can do it all without giving away any personally identifiable information.

In the future, you could buy a simple domain and install a newsletter function which would allow you to keep all those guys up-to-date on future events etc. Honestly, a domain and simple hosting for something like that costs less than $7 a month.

You can start the process of finding local bators by searching on forums, personals, and even tube sites. There are numerous adult communities out there where you can search by city or state, and once you’ve found one or two avid bators you could find yourself with a fully formed circle jerk within a week. It’s important to remember that a lot of active bators online have existing groups and friends they stroke with, so inviting them to a new club could lead to a large party on the first try.

Depending on how you feel your success is going, maybe consider limiting the number of possible attendees for the first one or two until you have a good group going.

One of the most difficult aspects of running events is the hosting. You don’t need to worry too much about drinks and food, most bators in it for a long session would bring their own and share. Providing a couple of bottles of lube and some towels/napkins etc for cleanup is not a problem. The main issue is location.

There are really only four options:

1. Residential – you should think about parking, neighbors and whether you’re comfortable having a bunch of unknown men jacking off in your home.
2. Bar/Club – every major city has sex clubs, adult themed bars or bathhouses that you could potentially use, you will need to go over this with them and plan accordingly.
3. Hotel/Motel – one of the most common locations. Book a room and invite a few guys to join you. The problem with this is the limited space, and curious hotel staff who might look at you funny, but it could be a good starting point.
4. Public – risky, but it depends where you are and what secluded spots you can find. There are usually derelict locations and unloved parks on the outskirts of any major town where guys get together. Camping is another great way to get a load of guys together but that can take a little more planning and prep and not every guy will be interested in that.

If you’re planning to use a residential property, consider the parking arrangements and see if you can encourage members to carpool.

You really shouldn’t have any trouble setting up your first party, once you get out there and search for guys in Kansas City you should have a handful of men ready to attend the first one.

I just took the liberty of searching on PornHub for men in Kansas City interested in “guys and girls” and found more than 800.

I can guarantee that you’d find more than enough local men just there to start the first bate party. All you’d need to do is message them, invite them, and see how it goes.

We’re always here to promote new clubs, we’re more than happy to announce events, share your information on social media, let our newsletter subscribers know about you, and add you to the Wank Clubs page and put a pin in the BuddyBate map for you too.

As soon as you have that online hub set up, let me know and we’ll add your information to all the relevant places.

And don’t forget, having BuddyBate buttons and stickers on hand ready to give to new friends you might meet can also help boost numbers.

Good luck with your adventure, I hope you’ll keep us all posted, and I’m sure bators in Kansas City will be replying here to let you know if they’re interested in joining your new club as soon as they can 🙂

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