Now that tumblr is dead, looking in Boise, Idaho

I have been an avid regular of tumblr – exploring that side of me that seeks the high from male-male sexual contact. I have had several tumblrs over the years, now all deleted. I feel glad I found buddybate because that is what I really seek – a buddy about my age and status that wants what I do – a sincere, trusting friendship with the benefit of regular male-male companionship. I am not into anything anal in such a relationship – this is a deal breaker for me. However I would like to explore the powerful side of body contact and sensual edging for long periods of time with a buddy. I am married, in my 50’s but very healthy and fit i.e. I don’t look in my 50’s. This side of myself is very hidden – and I need it to forever stay that way and I believe it adds to the overall goal – intimate, mutual sexual satisfaction. Now without the benefit of staying in my safe mental fantasy bubble via tumblr, I seek ‘the real thing’. I have tried this before but run scared. I need to start out slow, build trust before the clothes come off. That’s just who I am. If you are out there and are (exactly) like minded, contact me and we can begin a line of communication into further details. I have a wild imagination when it comes to all of this, but it is all centered on sensuality and not aggressiveness or ego. It’s a physical exploration of what two real men with mutual needs can find with each other. And, as I stated, this is on the very DL, so I am taking a chance at being vulnerable, so it’s best if you feel the same nervousness and risk with such a relationship 🙂 The above tumblr will remain up w/o any posts simply for ease of establishing contact. I hope to hear from someone soon 🙂 https://mylastbloghere.tumblr.com

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