Outdoor wanks getting back to nature
Submitted by Rob
I have always loved wanking in the great outdoors. I like the privacy of a secluded place. Often quite unexpectedly I discover I am alone someplace, doesn’t matter where, but it’s my two fingers to the world to use that solitude to jiz. Just the silence of somewhere deserted where I am fairly confident I might be alone always makes me horny enough to whip it out and jerk off.
In the office board room when working late, on a freeway side road, a Scottish moor among the heather – over the brow of the hill so my girlfriend and her best friend down in the valley could see, in the woods on Richmond Park or Barnes Common – love doing it in the snow or among the leafy foliage of summer. A vineyard in France, sand dunes at beaches – I love quiet secluded beaches and deserted coastlines. Aircraft toilets stripped naked.
It was after a few years that I realized what was missing was another bloke to jerk with. I like natural situations and have found some areas where blokes go to wank. But I am no good at reading the signs that another bloke might want to jerk too. I and really only into a wank.
Many fellas at gay beats are the nicest blokes you could meet and the older guys are usually very understanding and humble but I don’t want to waste their time or be a tease. They usually want more. I’ve tried a bit more thinking perhaps I was gay or “in denial” or bi or some dirty old perv, but the reality is that the more I try the less I like anything more than a mutual JO – a bit of rub and tug. Besides I could NEVER give up regular pussy and really value my relationship with my sexy wife who is FUCKIN hot in my eyes even after all these years.
But I find gym saunas and I have a good masseur for occasional bloke on bloke mutual jerk is quite a relief every now and then. So I’m comfortable in my straight(ish) ways and don’t see anything wrong with being a bit fluid – I get a real sense of being a man and thrill from the shared testosterone virility of seeing and holding a stiffy and lending a helping hand to another geezer. Love the rock hard feel of another cock and the first time he lets his towel drop in the sauna or pops it out of his shorts in the change room or, best of all, rolls down his speedos in the pool showers, really gets me poppin a woody.
Nothing nicer than a chat in a hotel sauna between two blokes with stiffies. Then a hand hold or a rub together all topped of with a mutually relieving jiz.
There are many stories I would like to tell. All of them feature regularly in my mental wank bank. I guess I’m like most blokes and I wank pretty much most days. Mixing it up and doing it with a brotherly stranger-friend brings a mutual mankind together. Diff shapes, sizes, ages, never seen a bloke who doesn’t love his own dick and doesn’t have an appreciation for someone else’s.
Hi Rob,
Thanks for your post. Outdoor stroking is great! I’ve had plenty of awesome experiences over the years from wanks on the walk home from the pub to frotting with random guys in the woods and it’s always a thrill to feel the breeze on your balls while you work it. Of course, it’s always better when you’ve got another cock or two to rub with!
I know what you mean about hitting the gay scene and a lot of guys wanting more. I’ve had a similar experience and although I know a lot of guys from the scene who are perfectly fine enjoying just a mutual wank or getting into a circle jerk with a good group of guys they can be hard to find among the many more who are absolutely convinced that you’ll enjoy more than that. It seems a lot of gay guys just don’t get it, which is a shame, because a good edging session with a bunch of guys is awesome and they’re missing out.
I’m guessing you’ve got some BuddyBate buttons/stickers already, but if not perhaps consider that and maybe getting a few for the guys you stroke with? We’re hearing from a few guys all over the place who want to start their own wank clubs and I do think our little BuddyBate project could help with that, if they are willing to spread the word among the bate buds they already meet with.
Thanks again for your post, I know we have a lot of outdoor bators here so I hope they’ll show some love in the comments 🙂
And we would love to read about some of your other experiences too!
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My first wank with a bloke was at a small beach not far from where I lived. I’d just finished my exams and went for a spring swim at a small cove at the bottom of a cliff that was blocked off at high tide. There were usually two or three blokes sunbathing and swimming nude. On this day as I rounded the beach from the steep trail down the cliff, I saw a guy lying face down in his undies. The beach was narrow as the tide was already in a fair way and I had to basically step over him to get past to the rocks at the end I liked to bake on. He said nothing, but as time went on he seemed to be looking in my direction. There were only the two of us on the small beach. I nude up pretty quickly but the lie of the rock meant he probably couldn’t tell if I was naked or not. Before long he came in my direction – still with his undies on. I got up for a swim and with that he could now see I was naked and he then surreptitiously lost his jocks and was hanging free in the sun. He came into the water for a swim with me and we started chatting and he asked if he could join me on the large flat rock to sunbathe. After a while drying in the sun, two blokes nude of a rock, I was getting a bit of a woody but nothing I couldn’t write off as a sun warmed relaxed dick and sack. But he was much harder. A real stiffy. Then he grabbed his dick and it fully hardened in his hand and kind of arched his back as he flexed. He said. I am sorry but I may have to play with this. I can’t hide it any longer. The tide was full and the early summer sun was warming us through. Cicaders were buzzing in the silence. We were alone. I had been to the beach frequently but had never had such a close experience. But seeing his cock stiff made me kind of curious but confused also. I was 20 and not experienced. A girlfriend had introduced me to nude sunbathing and I had what I now know is a naive view of sexuality and didn’t realise my own fluidity. I suggested to him that it was no big deal and that he could go find a place in the trees behind the beach and have a quiet play by himself. There’s only one way to get rid of a stiffy. Then we both stood and my semi was now unable to be hidden and had graduated to a woody. Thankfully, I finally said I clearly needed a wank too. Something like it is just the warmth after the cold spring ocean. Some bullshit like that. But then he grabbed my dick and brushed it very lightly saying perhaps we should play with each other. I instantly stood to attention and my cock was rock hard stiff. We stood there on my big flat basking rock with the water gently lapping at high tide and a still warmth seemed to suspend time as we gently jerked off each other’s dicks. I remember his was slightly smaller than mine and I am sorry to say I just kept to his shaft. He played with my balls and butt cheeks. I remember not liking his other hand on my arse. Odd, because I love that now. But I regret not holding his balls and exploring more. It was my first time and I was a bit shocked I was even doing it. Something unexplained was driving me on as I enjoyed holding his dick. Nice feeling his rock hard cock. I also remember thinking this is not turning me on as I felt I was a way off Cumming. Then it happened. From nowhere…deep within, my jizz welled up and hot sploges of pearly white cream spurted out onto the rock below. It sort of glistened in the sun where it lay. His hand was coated with my jizz by then and he kept doing me while my dickhead was really sensitive. He said. Don’t stop with me. I’m not there yet. He didn’t take long as I chugged away on his dick then pointed his jizz out to sea as he came in big squirts. We then cleaned ourselves with another swim. I remember two big wet spent schlongs swinging like dripping pendulums as we walked down to the water.