Outdoor wanks getting back to nature
Submitted by Rob
I have always loved wanking in the great outdoors. I like the privacy of a secluded place. Often quite unexpectedly I discover I am alone someplace, doesn’t matter where, but it’s my two fingers to the world to use that solitude to jiz. Just the silence of somewhere deserted where I am fairly confident I might be alone always makes me horny enough to whip it out and jerk off.
In the office board room when working late, on a freeway side road, a Scottish moor among the heather – over the brow of the hill so my girlfriend and her best friend down in the valley could see, in the woods on Richmond Park or Barnes Common – love doing it in the snow or among the leafy foliage of summer. A vineyard in France, sand dunes at beaches – I love quiet secluded beaches and deserted coastlines. Aircraft toilets stripped naked.
It was after a few years that I realized what was missing was another bloke to jerk with. I like natural situations and have found some areas where blokes go to wank. But I am no good at reading the signs that another bloke might want to jerk too. I and really only into a wank.
Many fellas at gay beats are the nicest blokes you could meet and the older guys are usually very understanding and humble but I don’t want to waste their time or be a tease. They usually want more. I’ve tried a bit more thinking perhaps I was gay or “in denial” or bi or some dirty old perv, but the reality is that the more I try the less I like anything more than a mutual JO – a bit of rub and tug. Besides I could NEVER give up regular pussy and really value my relationship with my sexy wife who is FUCKIN hot in my eyes even after all these years.
But I find gym saunas and I have a good masseur for occasional bloke on bloke mutual jerk is quite a relief every now and then. So I’m comfortable in my straight(ish) ways and don’t see anything wrong with being a bit fluid – I get a real sense of being a man and thrill from the shared testosterone virility of seeing and holding a stiffy and lending a helping hand to another geezer. Love the rock hard feel of another cock and the first time he lets his towel drop in the sauna or pops it out of his shorts in the change room or, best of all, rolls down his speedos in the pool showers, really gets me poppin a woody.
Nothing nicer than a chat in a hotel sauna between two blokes with stiffies. Then a hand hold or a rub together all topped of with a mutually relieving jiz.
There are many stories I would like to tell. All of them feature regularly in my mental wank bank. I guess I’m like most blokes and I wank pretty much most days. Mixing it up and doing it with a brotherly stranger-friend brings a mutual mankind together. Diff shapes, sizes, ages, never seen a bloke who doesn’t love his own dick and doesn’t have an appreciation for someone else’s.
Hi Rob,
Thanks for your post. Outdoor stroking is great! I’ve had plenty of awesome experiences over the years from wanks on the walk home from the pub to frotting with random guys in the woods and it’s always a thrill to feel the breeze on your balls while you work it. Of course, it’s always better when you’ve got another cock or two to rub with!
I know what you mean about hitting the gay scene and a lot of guys wanting more. I’ve had a similar experience and although I know a lot of guys from the scene who are perfectly fine enjoying just a mutual wank or getting into a circle jerk with a good group of guys they can be hard to find among the many more who are absolutely convinced that you’ll enjoy more than that. It seems a lot of gay guys just don’t get it, which is a shame, because a good edging session with a bunch of guys is awesome and they’re missing out.
I’m guessing you’ve got some BuddyBate buttons/stickers already, but if not perhaps consider that and maybe getting a few for the guys you stroke with? We’re hearing from a few guys all over the place who want to start their own wank clubs and I do think our little BuddyBate project could help with that, if they are willing to spread the word among the bate buds they already meet with.
Thanks again for your post, I know we have a lot of outdoor bators here so I hope they’ll show some love in the comments 🙂
And we would love to read about some of your other experiences too!
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