Private Time in the Garage
Submitted by 50sFella
I got married when I was twenty nine, more than twenty years ago. I never used to be much of a masturbator even when I was single and after I got married that didn’t change. I had a wank maybe once every few months.
Gradually that increased as married life changed and my wife and I found less motivation to have sex. We still do but it’s not like it was in those early days. It’s not worse, it’s just different, and I suppose it’s less passionate or spontaneous. Back when we first got married we used to go for drives and have sex in the car or find somewhere outdoors to have some fun but those days are long behind us.
About two years ago I really started to get into my masturbation more and I began exploring things. I’d never used lube to wank and I never tried any toys, but when I found the BuddyBate site and read something about toys I decided to buy some and see what I’d been missing out on.
I just got a couple of little strokers and some lube and hid them in the garage. My wife doesn’t go in there so it’s kind of like my man cave.
After enjoying them a few times I realized I really had been missing out on a lot of fun. Masturbation before had always been about need rather than enjoyment, it was always just a quick on in the shower or a 5 minute stroke in the toilets at work, so when I started exploring it as a means of enjoying myself instead it was like everything changed.
It started me on a bigger journey. I got into edging, reading erotic stories, and I started working on my health and hydration and all that kind of thing. I wouldn’t say it was a midlife crisis but if it was then it was a beneficial one.
I’ve never masturbated with another man but I have thought about it a lot and would like to try it. I’ve come close to it a couple of times. Years ago I had a friend who was very open about that kind of thing and there were instances where he suggested watching porn and I always made my excuses and left. I do regret not trying it and I think about what it might have been like.
Now I have regular wank sessions in the garage. I like to get myself worked up in the morning before work and then stopping myself from having a wank at the office before getting home. Then in the evening I’ll go to the garage to “work on the bike” and get one of my toys out for a long stroke. I can last about an hour (anything longer than that without stepping out to get a coffee and the wife would probably get suspicious lol).
As soon as I get in the garage my cock is hard and wet and I’m ready to go. I have to really take my time because it’s very easy to get carried away and a few times I’ve barely slid a toy along my cock before I’m filling it with jizz.
I have a good collection of toys now. Six in total. I decided that I would stick at six and when I see another one I want to try I have to throw one of the other ones away. If I didn’t do that I would probably have fifty by now.
I have favourites. I like the Tenga toys and I have a great helmet sucker toy that you pump with one hand and it slides up and down and it feels a bit like a hand job. That one always makes me cum a big load. I get a new one every month or so.
I’ve really been enjoying exploring things. Maybe I’ll find a buddy to explore mutual masturbation with in the future but I think I would prefer it if it was someone I was already friends with, if that makes sense. I’m not sure I would be as okay about it if I was just meeting someone to wank.
So that’s my experience, nothing like a lot of the other ones but wanted to share. Thanks for all the inspiration, the stories and experiences from other readers. I enjoy them a lot and even though I don’t have a friend to wank with I still feel like I’m part of a community of guys who are all into the same things.
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