I go to the gay sauna just to stroke cock with other guys

Submitted by Anon in London

I spent my teen years in the US, living in New York. I moved to the UK as a student in the 90’s and it was a culture shock in many ways.

Aside from it being an adventure for a guy in his teens, it led to a lot more for me. Mainly, it led to me learning about my sexuality and my fetish for masturbation and cock generally.

It started with my British friends not being at all ashamed of their dicks.

I grew up in a pretty conservative house and any discussion about sex was absolutely forbidden. If we’d had the internet back then the way it is now my parents wouldn’t have allowed me a phone let alone my own computer. The TV was strictly monitored and even the kinds of music I listened to was controlled. Bands like Nirvana, Metallica and Marilyn Manson were contraband, which led to me getting copies from my buddies.

I was extremely naive when I moved to London with my father in the late-90’s, but it was a revelation to me. I’d grown up playing all kinds of sports and I’d been on various teams throughout my teens. I was a swimmer, I played hockey, tennis, football, soccer, and when I came to the UK I started playing Rugby.

This is where everything changed for me.

For the first time ever nudity was common. I don’t know how it came to be but back in the US everything was secretive, hidden away, something to be ashamed of. Maybe I was just unlucky, or maybe my mother had secretly vetted every room I ever walked into to make sure it was puritan enough (really, she was a psycho) but showers all had walls between them, towels were a necessity, guys didn’t just walk around in the locker room and showers with their cocks out. But in the UK everything was different.

For an 18-year-old guy who never really felt comfortable with nudity suddenly being in an environment where you were the weird one for not having a shower with the guys after a game was worse than letting it all hang out.

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I adapted and grew, and I became more and more comfortable with it. It also made me ask myself questions about what turned me on.

I was a straight guy, I had a girlfriend, and at about the same time I lost my virginity to a really nice girl I’d been dating for a couple of weeks I was checking out other guys in the showers.

More often than not I would see a guy getting hard in the showers, maybe having a sneaky stroke, and I would be solid in seconds and having to hide it from my friends around me.

Comparison is normal, and I guess the occasional boner around other guys in a place like that is pretty common, but I soon discovered I was spending more and more time jerking off to the thought of some of the stars of that same shower room jerking off too.

Back then I only had one experience with another one of those guys. We went on a camping trip for a weekend and I had to share a tent with my buddy Andy. He’d brought along some pussy mags and on the last night he got his cock out and just started wanking right there in front of me. I was rock hard instantly and got my cock out to join in.

We didn’t jerk each other off or anything, but we both shot plenty of cum out watching each other ejaculating. For a long time I fantasised about repeating that experience and jerked out plenty of cum loads thinking about it, we never did it again.

That’s how it was for me for several years. I thought about it a lot, imagined wanking with all kinds of guys, got hard in the showers checking out other dicks constantly. I came close to wanking with another guy once at the gym when we both kind of accidentally caught each other checking out our stiffies. We started wanking for each other when someone came in and interrupted us.

Other times I would check out guys cocks at urinals. Whenever I went to the cinema with my girlfriend I would head to the men’s room at the busiest time just to be able to stand there next to another guy and check out his dick.

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Being on a local Rugby team was one of the best outlets for me. They just didn’t give crap about things like that. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve seen a mate hard. I could probably have a wank with several of them if the timing and circumstances were right. Most of those guys only need to see some porn and they would be shamelessly stroking it.

That opportunity has just never come up. The most I’ve had with Rugby mates was them seeing my cock was circumcised and comparing dicks with another one of the lads in the showers, talking about what it was like to be cut.

For years I went without doing anything other than checking out the guys around me and wanking off thinking about what it would be like. In that time I had a few girlfriends, got engaged, broke up, met someone new… and then finally I found the perfect solution to satisfy my cock lust.

I went to a gay sauna for the first time and it was incredible.

The very first visit was an eye-opener for me. I met up with a guy in the showers and grabbed another cock for the first time. Shamefully, I instantly started spraying cum all over his cock.

The second time a guy sucked me off, but I wasn’t so into that and he seemed to expect the same in return. That’s the only problem with going to places like that, there’s always the expectation that you’re there for more than a grope, at least that’s what I found until I got to know some of the regulars and they got to know what I was there for.

Over time, and after some awkward chats and experiences, I got to know a few guys and found some other men who were very much like me. They’re there just to enjoy the feel of another cock in their fist, see another dick cumming, experience the pleasure of two men rubbing their meat together.

One of the guys is married and has a fetish for locker rooms and showers like I do. Another regular wank mate is bisexual and likes to suck dicks, but doesn’t expect it in return. Another member is a pretty famous sports personality who tentatively wanks another dick when it’s around but mostly likes to have other guys wank the cum out of him.

At a time when it seems most gyms and sporting environments are being infested with this American notion of privacy and secrecy, it’s great to have these places where men can still let it all hang out and share their pleasures with others. That’s why I get the impression that saunas and places like them are going to become more and more popular in the years to come.

There are a lot of men out there just like me who love a little cock play and the male friendship and experiences it brings. You can call it bicuriosity (or bisexuality) or a fetish or whatever you want, I don’t really care how others label it. What I do know is that a lot of younger guys are more open about their own curiosity and fetishes and a lot of them seem to be going to saunas these days.

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