Shared Jacking Is About Friendship
Submitted by James
I hope this is considered a worthy post. Never submitted anything before.
For me shared jacking is all about friendship and comfort with other men.
I’m 53 year old married straight man but I have had masturbation buddies all my adult life. Some of them have been interested in mutual masturbation but most seem content with just relaxing together, watching porn and masturbating openly with other men.
I’ve thought about it a lot over the years. I think it’s just an aspect of male friendship that’s not really talked about or acknowledged much. In my opinion most men would enjoy such a friendship but social norms dictate that men aren’t allowed to be honest about their emotional needs.
When you’re naked and aroused with another man you’re truly free. You’re as close and honest with another man as you can be without it being a sexual or romantic relationship.
It’s not always sexual.
Of course, sometimes it is very sexual. If you’re interested in mutual masturbation and delivering pleasure to each other it can be entirely sexual. But it can also be about mutual benefit.
I think it’s important to define what shared jacking is for different men.
For some guys the sight and feel of another hard penis is very erotic. For others it might just be convenience and something viewed as being mutually beneficial.
I’ve met both types of bator. Some are very into handling other cocks and love frottage. Others are just more about the practicality of a free hand job while being willing to return the favor.
Does that make sense?
So for me shared jacking, whether you’re swapping cocks or not, is mostly about friendship and men finding a new way to be close to each other in almost a brotherly fashion.
There’s no better friendship than one where you can freely masturbate and see each other enjoying the pleasure without shame.
Thanks for the site. I really enjoy reading other men’s thoughts and experiences.
I hope I’ve contributed at least a little.
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I agree. Friendship is fortified by sharing intimate experiences. The guy whom I consider my best friend ever and I shared many awesome masturbation sessions. Is he my best friend because of that? Or did we jack together because he’s my best friend? The answer is YES! Both
Feel the same bud. The friendship I have with my bator bro is the best.
Living in the Caribbean (Trinidad and Tobago) it’s seen as being gay if two men ever did something like that. It is something I would really like to explore with another man though.
The togetherness is what it’s about and as long as you’re comfortable and horny, it shouldn’t matter how far it goes.
I’ve only jerked with a buddy once but it was great and I wish I knew more guys who were into it
I wish I knew someone who is into this, too. I would leap at the chance to develop such a relationship.
If you or anyone would like to chat about batebuds my Reddit is dickspring1182 my Twitter is ZekeCock
I do hardly any social media. Big step for me to plunge into that; I need to check it out first.
But I appreciate the offer. Happy to continue to interact here.
All good man,I get it
I agree. My best friend (ever), is my “jack partner”. We have been friends for 15yrs plus. I’m 56. my jack buddy, is 35. A man could not have a better “loyal” friend in the world. Both of us have been divorced, once. I decided to remain single at this time. My jack partner is, in a long-term relationship with his girlfriend. We are like brother’s. During Covid shut down, we began to talk about taking that next step of jacking together. We both knew each of us watch porn, all kinds, of porn. So, it started with watching porn, and, then I introduced him to poppers. And, one thing after another, we began.. It’s not all the time. so far, about once(1) a month. Jacking together, has strengthen our friendship. My opinion, is that a jack partner, is not a “gay” thing. It’s about a very close friendship that , has lasted, because we are true friends. Opening the jack partner door’s has made us (trust each other) a great deal more. Guy’s if you can find a jack partner, it is worth the effort, if you can find it.
Very well said. True male bonding. Exposing your vulnerability is very exciting and fulfilling. It takes a degree of bravery to commit to a relationship with a bate buddy but it’s well worth it.
Once dudes have seen each others cum face there’s nothing left but honesty and mutual respect. It’s rare to have that level of honesty.
This very true. You really can’t do anything this intimate with someone unless there’s friendship and trust. It’s something you learn. Sure, I have had offers to jack-off with another guy, only to have them jam out. But when that one guy commits to meet, it’s still a good idea to take your time. Get to know each other and understand each other’s needs. It’s a kind of courtship. And when you’re ready, pick the setting. There’s no need to rush this. If you’re both commited to sharing a good experience, work at making it a good one. Get together with a good plan for the encounter. And even when you’ve got right down to it, keep taking your time. You can’t rush something that’s going to be this good. Watch each undress and look at each other’s naked bodies. Feel the tension grow between you and learn from it. Touch each other — carefully at first, and enjoy these first moments of a whole new experience. Touch each other’s cocks and marvel at their inate beauty and their power. Stroke yourselves and watch your cocks grow excited. Watch them rise and come to life. Feel the shared joy and excitement between you have your friend. Give each other permission to touch each other’s cocks. Gently stroke and massage them and watch the pleasure in your bodies build. And whenever you’re ready, let your cocks touch each other. Wow. That really felt good! Let your cocks explore each other — there is little that’s off-limits now. At last, begin to share the experience of your first mutual climax. Share in the excitement and the joy of your mutual manly pleasure. Let your Seed flow and combine with your friend’s Seed. Sperm bros are bros for life.
Wow, man, that turned me on!!
I’m just starting looking for bate buddies. I have been interested for a white now and Everytime I think about it, my cock perks up.
Yah feel the same, but just never found the right buddy to break the ice about this stuff.