Taught To Wank At 19

Submitted by Emil

This will probably seem strange to a lot of readers but I didn’t masturbate until I was taught to wank by a friend when I was 19.

I always thought this was very strange but some years ago I was a part of an adult group and talked to three other men who had similar experiences. One of them didn’t masturbate to completion until he was 26. I realized my experience is probably more common than I thought.

I was raised in a very religious family in Germany until I was 18 years old. My parents split and my father moved to London when I was 17 but he managed to bring me to the UK to live with him.

I didn’t have many friends when I was in Germany. Everyone I knew was a part of the church or the football team (which was also part of the church) and we were always being watched. I only had one close friend who was a girl. Other friends were boys from football but I wasn’t allowed to do all the things they did because my mother thought they were a bad influence.

Moving to London was a very big culture shock. It took me some time to make friends but when my father got me on a football team I met some new boys to hang around with. My dad gave me a lot more freedom and I was doing a lot of things I’d missed out on.

Not all of it was good. I tried smoking and drinking. I was caught shoplifting with one of those friends and my dad nearly sent me back to Germany. Thankfully he didn’t.

I was taught to wank by one of those friends, Andrew.

This was in 1989 so we didn’t have the internet. Andrew had lots of porn magazines though. Although he was 18 and could have bought them I think he got them from his brother or his dad.

Of course I knew about erections and a few times I woke up with cum on my sheets but the concept of masturbation had been completely kept from me. I didn’t know what it was until Andrew explained it.

It was after football and I was in Andrew’s room. He got some of his porn magazines out for us to look at. I had seen porn before. A friend in Germany had found some pages and we used to look at it sometimes. I still didn’t understand much about sex or masturbation but I knew what men and women did. I wasn’t a complete idiot but it was all still kind of strange to me. The best way I can describe it is that it was like a puzzle and even though I had all the pieces I wasn’t sure how they all fit together lol

So me and Andrew were looking at his magazines and he said we could wank as long as I didn’t cum on the pages.

Andrew knew how strange my life had been in Germany so I think he wasn’t very surprised when I looked confused. My English still wasn’t excellent but just enough to get through the day and I was learning quickly thanks to a private tutor my dad had hired. Andrew did a hand gesture and I still didn’t really know. Maybe I kind of guessed but it was still all very strange to me.

He laughed at first and I felt stupid but then he felt sorry for me and asked if I really never wanked before. I said no and he thought about it for a second and said he could show me. I think he was excited to be able to show me how to do it.

It was all very innocent. He got his penis out of his shorts and showed me how he rubbed it. He had a very nice cock. He was about six inches and very hard. His cock pointed straight up and his balls were very pink and tight. He had a very furry bush like mine.

I don’t think I was shy at all and when I got my penis out I was also hard. Mine is about seven inches and quite thick. My balls have always been saggy so they hung down and bounced around and Andrew laughed about it.

I copied his movements and wanked my dick the same way he was. We just did this for a while watching each other and looking at the pictures and I remember just thinking it was a very nice feeling, and it was very nice looking at his penis while he looked at mine.

We talked about the pictures in the magazines, looking at all the ladies showing off their pussies, and he tried to tell me what I should start to feel but he couldn’t really describe it well. He showed me how to pull my skin back and rub the little spot under my helmet and said it would feel like that only better. I told him I could feel tingling. I remember my cock was so sensitive and wet I thought I might start pissing. I stopped and he told me to carry on and let the feeling get bigger.

I only rubbed myself a few more times and my first conscious orgasm grabbed me.

At the time I didn’t really know that I’d been having wet dreams. I never really knew what it was. This was the first time I properly felt an orgasm and I couldn’t control myself. My cock just started shooting cum out in front of me. I was still wanking my cock and my load was going everywhere. I was embarrassed for a second and shocked by it but then Andrew started doing the same and we were both kneeling there on his carpet splashing semen all over the magazines and floor.

He was laughing and I joined in laughing while my orgasm was going on and we just wanked and watched our dicks splashing it out everywhere.

It was the most incredible thing I ever experienced until that point in my life. I had no idea my cock was capable of doing that. I’d had lots of erections, especially while pissing or in the shower, and I probably wanked a little bit sometimes but always stopped before anything happened.

Ejaculating like that for the first time was a big surprise to me but it was made so much better by having Andrew there and doing it with me.

We did it again, twice. I think we probably spent around two hours just wanking and cumming. He told me stories about some of his biggest cum shots and the time his girlfriend sucked him. He told me he wanked with another friend sometimes and while I didn’t say it I hoped to join in with them. I eventually did and we had a few times with the three of us wanking over the magazines.

He didn’t complain about the cum all over the pages but I did buy him new magazines to replace them. There was a corner shop where I’d seen them on the top shelf so I bought three new ones to replace the ones we ruined. I think it was also an excuse to wank with him more. We did it a lot after that and some times with his other friend. Now that I knew my cock could do that and how good it felt I was wanking all the time.

I suppose that’s what really started my love of masturbation. Maybe if I’d learned it all differently or I had a normal family and friends I wouldn’t have become such a masturbator? I sometimes wonder if that lesson started a fetish for me or whether most men are just the same anyway. I think after finding this site I’ve decided it’s probably just that a lot of men really love wanking and enjoy seeing other cocks being wanked.

For years after that I was wanking with any guys I could. I found all the strange places in London to wank and suck. Covent Garden toilets or Hampstead Heath mostly. I tried just about everything there was to try before deciding that I was bisexual and just really like masturbating with men.

If I hadn’t been taught to wank by Andrew I wonder how things would have been. I’m very glad I had that friend to show me.

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