Ten years of wanking with my buddy

Submitted by Harry

I guess I’m lucky compared to a lot of other guys. I started wanking with a good mate of mine ten years ago when he caught me watching porn one morning and we haven’t stopped since. We wank together a few times a month and it’s a great part of our friendship.

When I read about other guys still trying to find other lads to stroke with I feel bad for them that they didn’t get the chance to just naturally fall into it with a friend the way I did. If I’d have had to go out there looking for a guy to share it with I might never have done it. I don’t even know if it would have even crossed my mind to try it at all. He instigated it that morning back then and just got his dick out and joined me, then we did it again a week later, then we shared a wank in the showers at the gym and we finally wanked each other for the first time when another guy caught us both hard in the toilets at the pub and just grabbed our dicks and started rubbing us all.

After that first frotting session with that guy we started wanking each other off and started edging, even though we didn’t really know what that was at the time.

Me and my buddy are both married now and although my wife knows about it I don’t think his does. When we go on holiday together we find the time to share some wanks and my wife will occasionally give me a wink and a smirk if I say me and Pete are taking a drive or going to the beach. She’s actually helped out a couple of times and distracted his wife with something else to give us our time together.

I only talked to her about it once but she said she thought it was healthy for men to have close friendships the way we do.

We’re lucky that we both still live in the same town and work not far from each other, so we can meet up for a wank at lunch. When the weather is good we go camping for the weekend, or sometimes just a night, and spend the time enjoying our dicks. We go to concerts or football and arrange trips where it’s just us.

We’ve thought about going into London to one of the big wank parties but I think that would be too much for us. We’ve also thought about finding another mate to join us and make it a circle jerk, so now we’ve both got BuddyBate buttons and I’ve got one of the stickers on my car.

Even if we don’t find any other lads to wank with we’re good.

If you’re reading this and you’re still not sure about sharing your bate with another guy let me assure you that it’s amazing. The kind of friendship you can have with another guy who’s into masturbating together is next-level. I wouldn’t trade our friendship for anything.

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