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Ten years of wanking with dudes

Submitted by Greg in Paris

I’m in my mid 30’s now, I started wanking with mates ten years ago and I love it. It started for me when I went backpacking with a good friend in 2005. We traveled throughout Europe and then eventually went on to Asia.

I knew I would have a lot of great experiences and it was the most memorable two years of my life. One of the things I didn’t expect was that I would be enjoying so much masturbation with my friend during that time.

It started very early on when we got to Italy and found ourselves sharing a hotel room (we were a bit naive and chose more expensive accommodation over hostels at the start, being the inexperienced travelers we were) and the very first night he got his cock out. We didn’t have any porn to enjoy but I think that’s what made it even more intense. We talked about experiences and fantasies while we stroked our dicks and shot a load together.

It just continued on from there really, everywhere we went we would enjoy masturbation sessions at the end of a hard day, sometimes in the morning too. It really became a great part of our experience together.

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After the trip was over I went through a bout of depression and restlessness and although I was still wanking occasionally with my friend I wanted more. I started going out to the gay clubs and seeing if I could find another guy to stroke with. I only found one guy, a bisexual man who wanted to do more but was okay with wanking together and got me into mutual masturbation. I’d never wanked my mate while we were on the trip so the experience was completely new to me and it really opened my eyes.

It didn’t work out in the end because guys at gay clubs are generally after a lot more than just a wank, obviously.

Eventually I got a couple of other mates into shared wanks and I had some experiences with guys in mensrooms too.

It’s been ten years of wanking fun with friends and strangers and it’s one of the best things I took away from my travels. I now live and work in France with my wife, she knows about my history and finds it interesting, and a little comical. She doesn’t have any concerns about me wanking with guys either, she’s just concerned that one day I might be arrested for stroking off a dude in a mensroom.

I only found this blog yesterday but I wanted to share my experience with everyone. This place should be far busier than it is and I hope my submission might encourage other men to share their experiences too. It’s great reading all the submissions by other guys and seeing their views on male sexuality and masturbation.

Thanks! G



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3 thoughts on “Ten years of wanking with dudes

  • July 11, 2016 at 11:51 am

    I had a very similar experience just without the travel. Started with a mate in my 20’s and moved on to other guys when I was in a “bi” phase and going to gay clubs but all I kept finding were guys who wanted to fuck. Eventually worked out that there were a lot of straight guys out there who just wanted to share wanks so started looking around for them.
    I actually went from the gay clubs to gyms and playing sports and found more wank mates there than anywhere else. 🙂

  • July 12, 2016 at 12:37 pm

    I started about five years ago after college. Funny I never jerked off with guys when I was there and only really got into it when I started working with a guy who was always getting his cock out. It’s been great so far, stroked with three guys regularly.

    • July 12, 2016 at 12:54 pm

      It seems a lot of guys start off wanking with friends in college or uni. Glad you had the experiences though, you seem to have enjoyed them! I would love to hear about them if you get time visit the contact page and submit a story or two?


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