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The one and only time I had a bate buddy experience

Submitted by A in New Jersey

I’m in my 50’s now and I really wish I had a bate buddy. I only experienced mutual stroking once with one bate buddy. I was in my late 20’s and living on a construction site with a few other guys. We were working on this massive house for a wealthy client and me and this other guy were finishing up and getting the place ready to hand over. The other guy was bisexual but I didn’t know that at the time.

We used to share this one big bathroom and one time toward the end of the job me and this other guy were taking a shower (it was big enough for three) and he got hard. Back then I had no clue why I got hard too but now I know I liked the look of his dick. It’s fucking weird that guys don’t get it when it happens but I guess we block it out and don’t want to admit the sight of another stiff dick gets us boned up.

He started jerking off, so I just kinda followed his lead. After a couple of minutes we were just standing there bating in front of each other and just watching the other sliding his hand along his cock. He jokingly slapped my cock with his and that started a frotting session. When that started it was just two guys fooling around with their dicks but it got hornier and hornier and I couldn’t believe how good it felt to rub cocks with a guy.

We ended up jerking each other off and making each other cum. I don’t think I’d ever shot that much nut before that day. I have since, but it was one of the best cum shots I ever delivered. We both shot ropes of cum up the glass shower door at the same time, with each other’s cock in our hand.

We’ve been buddies ever since but we never mentioned it again and I never had any other bate experiences with other guys after that. We both got married and started families so I guess things just got in the way. I still think about that a lot and these days I love reading about other guy’s experiences and seeing videos with guys jerking each other off.

I think I might mention it to him when we catch up in a few months. Maybe he still thinks about it and wants to do it again?

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3 thoughts on “The one and only time I had a bate buddy experience

  • May 5, 2018 at 5:57 pm

    Thanks for relating your experience. When you see him the next time he’ll probably like hearing how much you enjoyed that time, and how you’ve thought about it a lot since then. Looking forward to your update and hearing his response.

  • May 6, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    I totally hear you. It’s damn nice to see another hard dick. Seeing one at the urinals makes me bone up in sympathy. I guess it’s contagious, because you know the other guy is horny and that makes you think of sex, too.

    It’s great to be able to bate right in front of your bud. It makes you feel closer. Heck, even total strangers feel bonded over the understanding of how good it feels to bate. That’s why we’re all here.

    My bate bud of several years got married and we stopped doing it. Last year I sent him a message saying I missed our sessions, and he just laughed. Here’s hoping we come across new bate buddies!

  • May 23, 2018 at 10:53 pm

    Great story shared.
    Definitely mention it to him in a casual way. Tell him you would like to try it again to see if you both cum as hard and as much as the first time.
    I had a friend in high school that I ended up ferking each other off in the pool lockeroom after he caught me rubbing one out. We both gripped each other firm and fast.
    Covering each other’s cock w our cum and using it to stroke each other till we couldn’t take any more.
    Met up w him at our 25 year HS reunion.
    Talked about it and how we both were glad it happened.
    He saw my tent in my pants and asked me if I wanted to go down to the lockeroom for old times sake.
    I looked at his boned up pants and said sure why not, we started for the pool and he said one rule, there are no rules so let’s enjoy it.
    As he pulled his hard cock out walking down the hall, so I followed suite.
    Go for it, if you don’t you may not get another chance.


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