Thinking About Sucking My Buddies
Submitted by Minefield
Been part of a bate group for 5 years and started thinking about sucking my buddies.
I’m 38, married, been jacking off with 4 buds for a while. We enjoy kicking back and jacking each other watching porn. Just a good group of guys enjoying their cocks.
Found 2 of them here and other 2 are buds they knew. All straight/open minded.
Don’t want to say where we are or anything because I know they might see this lol
I’ve been thinking about sucking my buddies for a few months.
Never talked about it with any of them. Don’t know if any of them are even curious about it. We jack each other and frot, share double masturbators and DP and all that stuff, but never sucking.
I might not even enjoy it but I get so hard thinking about sucking them. A few times I’ve come close to offering but I always stop myself.
Just wondering if other guys have done this and what it was like. Really don’t want it to ruin our bate group. Would you let a member of your group suck? Would it change things?
Thanks buddies!
Hi Minefield
Thanks for your post submission.
Some guys are into sucking cocks with their bate buddies, but I would say most aren’t.
From my own experience, guys who love to jack off together prefer to keep it at that level. Most organized bator groups have a limit of hand-to-cock or cock-to-cock contact only. It’s because that’s primarily why guys are there, so anything else is kind of a breach of that primary interest.
The same is true about whether guys are into DIY only or mutual jacking. Not every group is open to hand jobs or frottage. Some are just porn clubs where guys can feel free to openly masturbate in each other’s company.
The good news is that there are other opportunities to enjoy exploring your interests outside of your group. Why not look for another local buddy who wants to try sucking?
There’s no reason why you can’t get the best of both worlds.
I’m sure other readers will weight in below 🙂
Thanks again!
Brad
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You are not the only one with these desires. I’ve never sucked a cock but I fantasize about it a lot. I would suggest watching guys oral porn with your buddies. Or just bring it up in casual conversation and ask how they feel about guys sucking cocks. Good luck!
Seems like a natural progression of your sexual experiences but I agree with Brad in that you don’t want to “blow-up” your bator group as a whole with the idea. I would suggest just to observe your mates as @B11S10 mentions below and see who gets more aroused by gay oral porn and approach that one mate in a private bator session. This gives you the safe and non-judgemental environment to ask your buddy about their sucking thoughts and experiences and paves a way for sharing your thoughts on the matter. Best of luck as you already have a great community to start allowing guys to share their desires at various levels.
I too believe it’s a natural progression and also way more masculine than most guys perceive it to be.
I often think about this and fantasize heavily about sucking cock! You’re not alone! We could practice together first
I’ve never done it but I would!
I like to wear gstrings/thongs and heels around the house when the wife isn’t home and find it to be really sexy… just need a man to practice with hahaha
Hi, my advice is that it doesn’t hurt to discreetly ask, maybe just in passing as you may be pleasantly surprised 🙂 It certainly takes it to another level and not all bators will be into it
Have fun….