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Wanking Tip #1 – Lube for more pleasure

Welcome to a new series on the BuddyBate blog, covering various wanking tips and discussing all kinds of new ways to make our masturbation more intense. Some of them may be obvious, others not so much. Why not commit yourself to trying every wanking tip we come up with and bring some new excitement to your masturbatory enjoyment?

Wanking Tip #1 – Lube

It might seem obvious to some, or even be a necessity, but a lot of men don’t use lube when they rub one out.

Observant guys will probably have noticed that American guys use lube a lot more than European dudes. This is mainly because of circumcision. If you’re uncut then your foreskin can retain the natural lubricants your cock leaks when you’re aroused, without that hood it’s a lot harder to keep everything slick and slippery naturally.

We all probably know that a good wet head is more pleasurable than a dry one, right?

But, even if you’re uncut and even if your cock oozes juice like Slimer from Ghostbusters, lube is still a great way to increase the pleasure you can experience. Lube isn’t just for cut guys, it’s not just for penetration, and it’s not just for use with toys.

A little lube in your stroking hand can give you an incredibly close sensation, allowing you direct slippery access to your most sensitive areas – primarily the glans and the frenulum underneath.

Attempting to stroke these areas without lube can be incredibly intense and almost impossible. With a little lube you can get a great slick barrier between your hand and these sensitive sites and give yourself an amazing stroke session.

It’s great for edging, helping you to maintain a constant pleasure that no dry 5 minute wank can offer.

Any lube is great for a good close wank, but while water based lubes can be used for anything, we would recommend a specialist product either silicone or oil-based for hands-on wanking. These are longer lasting and can offer a superior sensation. Just remember that oil and silicone are really best suited to masturbation without toys.

Not only can a lube give you a great wanking experience but many of them can make your skin feel smoother and softer after use too. Any lube fan out there will know that your cock can feel pink and fleshy and smooth after a good stroke with some good lube, who doesn’t want their dick looking plump and pink?

Our lubes of choice for a great wank are Stroke 29, Spunk Hybrid, and Gun Oil Force Recon, all available from BlokeToys. Spunk is especially good as it actually mimics the look and feel of actual cum too.

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4 thoughts on “Wanking Tip #1 – Lube for more pleasure

  • August 2, 2016 at 1:14 pm

    I use lube for maybe one in every five wanks and it’s good. Edging for a long session is something I really enjoy so it makes sense. I have some Spunk lube and that’s excellent for a good long wank but I think I’ll try Stroke 29 next.

  • November 21, 2016 at 9:38 am

    Even though I love a good quick wank I sometimes love to spend a good long time rubbing my cock and watching porn to get a big load out. I’ve used loads of different lubes in the past but Liquid Silk is one of the best I ever tried. Have some Stroke 29 too (recommended here a few times) and just bought some Spunk Lube for my next edging session. Not tried any of them with a wank mate yet but I hope to soon!

  • March 30, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    I never used to use lube until I started wanking with a mate who’s cut. The three other guys I wanked with before that were all uncut like me. The cut guy needed the lube and he got me into using it. It’s a lot of fun. You can definitely feel the difference and it can really help to make a session last longer and give more pleasure too.

  • April 30, 2018 at 1:28 pm

    I have a good foreskin which I always used for wanking.a year or so ago,I was watching a joi video and the girl said to use oil to make your hand to faster.I’ve always been an edger,to prolong the wank,but using the oil the first time I only lasted 30 or 40 strokes before I just had to ejaculate.it was far too much stimulation for me,but I’m trying to last longer.it’s very hard!


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