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Wanking Tip #2 – Edge for a bigger cum load

Wanking tip number 2 is something we’ve discussed before on the blog and the regular readers will probably be more than just a little more familiar with our love of edging.

Cock edging, or cum edging, is the act of stroking your dick and stopping yourself repeatedly before climax. It can be hard to learn this art, the urge to cum is so strong many men find it almost impossible to stop themselves when they feel the pleasure building up.

Those who can deny themselves that climax, repeatedly, during a wank will be paid off handsomely by the end of it all.

Ultimately the climax a man can experience after a good long session of cum edging can be immense. If you think back to the most impressive cum shot you ever delivered then think about what it would be like to achieve this again, on demand, when you want.

Edging achieves three things:

  1. When wanking with a buddy it can lead to a very long session as you both masturbate together, stroking each other, learning the signs of when the other is getting close and stopping before that first shot of cum arrives. Some guys have only experienced 10 minute wanks with their mates because they’re simply too turned on to make it last, but learning how to edge together can turn what was a ten minute mutual wank into a two hour marathon cock stroke with dicks oozing precum and the finale being insanely messy.
  2. The ejaculation you can build through cum edging is different for every guy, but there is no denying that it does give you a bigger cum load. You might find you shoot twice as much, some find they shoot even more than that. The cum shot you fire can be considerably more powerful too, like those unexpectedly squirting ejaculations you experience from time to time almost inexplicably.
  3. The pleasure resulting from an edging session can also be increased dramatically. Whether it’s because you’re cumming a lot more than usual or because there’s some other mechanism in place building up, the orgasm you can experience after a good long edging session can be enough to make your knees go weak and your head spin.

Although it takes stamina, determination and a little experience, every man can learn how to edge their cock either alone or with a wank mate. Ultimately the goal is to stop yourself from cumming be slowing down and stopping when you feel the pleasure starting to build. That first little tingle you feel should be the stopping point. Let go of your cock and calm down before you start again.

More experienced edgers can make a session last for a very long time, with their cock becoming more and more sensitive with each pause until simply thinking about cumming can make your cock spew juice.

If you’ve ever seen hands-free cum shots then this is probably how they achieved that, spending a good hour or more wanking and stopping.

I would recommend some good lube for this, Spunk Hybrid lube is an excellent choice for a high-quality edging session. Hydrate throughout the session, sipping cold water all the way through. You can heighten the experience even more by limiting your sleep the night before. The use of a masturbation  sleeve can enhance the pleasure and the speed with which you can reach hyper-sensitivity.



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I'm Brad, and I'm an avid masturbator. I'm the primary author here at BuddyBate, publishing the experiences of readers, adding fiction content submitted by visitors and sharing some of the best masturbation porn available.

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5 thoughts on “Wanking Tip #2 – Edge for a bigger cum load

  • December 29, 2016 at 11:10 pm

    Great article. Edging is awesome! With practice, I can now get really close to that point of no return and enjoy 90% or more of the feeling of an orgasm as many times as I can withhold myself from cumming. Then when I do, my loads are way bigger and more powerful than ever before …

  • September 10, 2018 at 11:49 pm

    I’m an experienced edger and my personal best is 5 hours. Ejaculation is earth shattering after that amount of time and the distance you can shoot your sperm is beyond belief. The whole experience of ejaculation after a significant amount of time edging is absolutely mind blowing and makes me dizzy. It can take some minutes to come back down to earth afterwards.

    • September 11, 2018 at 6:58 pm

      I don’t think I’ve timed my sessions, at least not for a few years. I remember when I used to work night shifts and I would come home in the morning after being horny most of the night, and when you’re sleep-deprived too it just makes it even more intense. I lost count of the number of times I splashed the wall over my shoulder. lol


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