We Had Fraternity Jack Off Sessions

Submitted by Eric

I just finished reading The Strap in Book of Bate 1 and I thought my experience of college bate parties might be appreciated here. It’s not nearly as wild as that Fraternity circle jerk and cum story but some of you might like to read my experience.

I was in college in the late 80s and you could definitely describe me as being the stereotypical frat. Our well-known fraternity was very sports oriented. I’m ashamed to admit it was a lot like all the 80s college movies with too much drinking and a lot of out-of-control behavior. We had a lot of very privileged guys in our fraternity and you can imagine what that was like.

My family wasn’t rich so I kind of stood out. But I guess that made me want to fit in more and being in the fraternity was important to me. I don’t regret it I think I just regret that I needed it so much.

I was an engineering major so a lot of the guys considered me a nerd but I still got on with almost everyone. It was definitely a party house. Most weekends were wild but all the real good stuff happened behind closed doors. We didn’t have any real weird shit like you read about. There weren’t any big initiations and hazing wasn’t really that bad either. Just stupid stuff mostly.

We did have jack off parties though!

I think over the years there were about fifteen of us involved and it wasn’t much of a secret. It wasn’t just guys in the fraternity either. Sometimes we would have other guys stop by and if they were cool they’d make it into the bate party.

Back then the whole bator thing wasn’t a construct. It wasn’t even about sexuality for us. Or it didn’t seem that way to me. Guys just relaxed with beers and porn and we were all real open about things. I see it said a lot by others but it really was just “boys being boys”.

When you have that many boned up guys living in a house with porn around things just happen. You quickly learn not to be shy about shit like that.

We had one VCR in the house and it moved around a lot. Guys would take it to their room to watch a movie and jack off. Movies and magazines were shared around. Most of it became “house property” after a couple of viewings by whoever bought it. We didn’t have a porn library but that was only because it was all regularly in use and moving from one room to another.

I think all the guys had their own jack off bros. Roommates got used to each other looking at porn and jerking it. For our group bate sessions it was different but I think it started because everyone was already used to catching a bro jerking it.

Someone would announce they got a new movie and then guys would invite themselves to the party in whatever room it was. A lot of us were involved but it was always changing. Sometimes you’d walk in and find 7 or 8 guys all sitting around shooting the shit and stroking their dongs and other times it was just a couple of buddies.

Guys would arrive and watch for a while, jack off and leave. Another guy might get back from a date and decide to join in and relieve the pressure. Sometimes there were afternoon jack off sessions and at the weekends there might be a 2am party in someone’s room.

Some of the best times I had in that house were when we had a full room of guys all just enjoying the movie, passing magazines around and stroking their dicks. We had all kinds of cocks, from 5 to 9 inch. A couple of the guys were uncut. Some had big swinging nuts others had tight sacks. There were real thick cocks and skinny banana dicks. Some guys were proper muscle jocks and others (like me) were just athletic, some were a bit slimmer.

None of that mattered all the guys were there just to watch a movie and stroke it.

There was no mutual jacking going on, at least not beyond the occasional dare or antics between good buddies. It didn’t happen a lot but buddies would make up some excuse to get a friend’s hand on their cock just for a couple seconds. lol I never did any of that but I saw some of the guys jokingly tapping tips or flicking a friend’s dick and the rare full on grab-and-strangle maneuver.

Sometimes you’d get cock slapped or someone would take a swipe at your boner if it was in the way of the TV. It was just playful stuff like that. I guess some of it was because guys were curious about other cocks but it was always just passed off as bros being bros.

Some of the guys were big cummers so I know a lot of us liked watching them shoot it. There were some show offs who liked really splashing it and they’d put on a performance and squirt over a towel or something while other guys watched.

None of us thought it was strange to do all of this. We were just boned up boys all living together in a house with porn around. I think it’s inevitable this kind of thing would happen.

It was a great time. I don’t think I’ve felt that free around other guys since then. There were no hang-ups about it.

I do wonder if going to a jack off club today would be the same kind of thing, I guess there would be more mutual bating and frotting though. I’m definitely down for some of that! 🙂

I do wonder about where all those guys are now. I lost touch with most of them but I still chat to some on Facebook, just saying hi over the holidays or on birthdays. We never talk about those jack off sessions. I think it’s just because none of them really think about it as big deal. Obviously I’m here on this site so I appreciate the bator lifestyle and I still love meeting up with new guys to rub cocks.

I didn’t progress to mutual jacking and frotting with guys until I was in my 40s. It just wasn’t a big thing until I really got online and realized there were so many other guys out there who love jacking it together. Before I found some Yahoo groups I never knew there were jack off clubs.

So that’s my experience. Not as hot and messy as The Strap but I hope you liked it. I would love to hear if anyone else’s college days were the same. I think it probably happened in a lot of fraternities and it would be good to read about it.

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