Wife is okay with my JO buddy

Submitted by Anon in California

“Back in March I found out my wife is okay with me having a JO buddy. I’ve been jerking off with a buddy of mine since college and I always tried to keep it kind of secret from my wife but it turns out I didn’t need to. It’s never been something I’ve been ashamed of, just one of those things I didn’t think needed to be talked about.

She found out about it entirely by accident.

He only lives an hour away and we share a jack off maybe once every couple of months when the opportunity arrives and back in March he came over for the weekend while my wife was visiting her family.

We had a great weekend with some of my other buddies over too but it was much better when they all went home and we had the opportunity to watch some porn and shoot some cum.

The morning after my wife came home was when things went a little crazy. She was cleaning up and found a pile of tissues and empty lube packets beside the couch and obviously thought I was cheating. She wanted to know who I’d been sleeping with while she was out of town. She knew Greg had been over and thought it was something real weird, like we’d paid a hooker or something. I just explained to her that we had a few beers and watched some porn, that was it.

I thought she would be shocked and angry about it all but she wasn’t. We had a good conversation about it and we were both on the same page pretty quickly. She’s a pretty open minded and liberal woman and actually said she thought it was pretty common for guys to do that and that it wasn’t a big deal.

We’ve always had a great marriage and I think it’s actually even better now this little secret is out of the way. I never planned for it to be a big deal anyway, it was just one of those things I never felt the need to discuss.”